Tips for getting over anger and rancor

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Hello gents,

I’m an angry man and this is why: from every person, man or woman, I don’t expect or think I’m entitled to special attention, approval, sex, anything for that matter—except for one thing: I expect, and think I’m entitled to, basic common courtesy and honesty. (Is that unreasonable?)

Problem is women are dissimulators and dissemblers and treat me like I’m stupid. I’m not okay with this, and I don’t have to be okay with this because it’s not okay.

There’s a quote on The Wall here, something like “getting mad at a woman for lying is like getting mad at the sun for emitting gamma rays.” But I have to disagree: the sun is what it is, an inanimate mass of helium and hydrogen. A woman has volition. She doesn’t have to be a dissimulator. She doesn’t have to treat me like I’m stupid. But she does, and I’m not okay with it.

So, needless to say, I’m a little bitter about it. However, this bitterness, rancor, and anger isn’t productive, and it doesn’t help me.

Is there a middle ground? How can I on one hand recognize this is how they are, that it’s not okay, but also not let it consume me?

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Hey Rockmaninoff, ever tried the no-f~~~s-given-agree-to-disagree-approach…?

I know, it can sound a bit like a tall order but you know whenever I spot people in their behavior treating me like I was stupid (which can easily be interpreted as they underestimate me) if anything I find myself agreeing (not whole heartedly mind you just on the surface of it) or going like: “well, if you think so…” then turning away and thinking: “If only you/they knew…” with a grin on my face, which they don’t even see but not putting my head down as I walk away not even one notch…

Failing that, maybe try meditation in case you got the time for it.

All the best and by all means try keep all upbeat, dude.

Ned T.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Exercise or other distractions.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

Hoss, you asked the million dollar question that a lot of men, myself included, struggle with, who are beyond annoyed at bitches who think their s~~~ don’t stink. I agree with the earlier posts and can’t add a whole lot. Ignoring the hell out of them will help. It worked for me. Finding distractions, like Jan said above is a great help. I get more satisfaction out of watching old Fat Albert reruns than I do in practically any conversation with a female. Working out with the weights with some good music is a good stress reliever to get the nasty fog of s~~~ ass females and their dumb ass remarks out of your head.

I’ve found that not letting them get under your skin is the best way to get rid of the skanks. Act like you don’t even acknowledge them. Women use insults and abusive language towards men to try and gain control. F~~~ that s~~~! Ignore them.

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