Thought experement of an ideal of man

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Hi there guys sorry this post is kinda gonna be over the place in this post but think i made a personal ideological and personal break though in my own thoughts !

Ok my whole idea that im working with in the frame work right now is the ideal of the equilibrium or balanced based box if we want to thing about it in the terms of zones.

For guys to get the best out of life and such we need to strive and get to where we wanna go we need to hit that sweet spot where we are embracing both our animal aggression and need for control of the self in a form of dual aspect which in turn should allow us to use our aggression in a productive and controlled manner which in turn would help us become more naturally balanced and help us in more crude terms get more s~~~ done in our own personal lives that we wanna do.

just a thought excrement right now but what are your thoughts on the matter ??

Thanks
– Casual Guy

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

“Equilibrium” and “balance” are good for many aspects of ones life.

The longer that I walk on the earth, I find that we each have certain “zones” as you put it that are really dangerous to try and find “balance” with.

For example, smoking, drinking, recreational drugs are all “zones” that many may have a hard time creating a delicate long term balance with, and it’s usually just easier in life for many to just walk away from them and not continue to try and create any balance with.

Also, for many “relationships” are also areas that it’s just easier to just walk away from than trying to create and maintain some long term “balance” with. I’m not saying that most Men need to be Monk or not engage in sex as these are INDIVIDUAL choices, but for some being MONK and completely walking away is easier than trying to create “balance” in this “zone”.

We all compartmentalize our individual lives into the “zones” that fit us.

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[SpleeferParticipant 958]

Living a balanced life is one of my goals. To achieve this balance of the spiritual, practical, physical, and relational I have found I need to be adaptable in my “zones”. I have monthly and yearly goals written down. Amazingly 80% of what I write down actually gets executed, now that I’m Monk.

Life is in constant change. Sometimes there are seasons where relationships with others becomes a priority. Sometimes a season of spiritual awakening happens. Sometimes training or exercise dominate my time. Currently I have no health issues, but that season will come eventually.

I have found that the evaluation of my zones and being a little flexible in my time, produces more growth for me. If I’m motivated to run a 15km race then my time needs to go towards training. That means less time for something else. Less coffee shop meetings with friends, Relational zone .

In times where I was ridged with my zones, I missed out on growth because I didn’t want to upset my program. On the other hand MGTOW number 2 principle is using the word NO. Telling someone No because they refuse to plan their own life is great freedom.

So ya, balance your own life bro.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[Anonymous 38]

It’s a good way to achieve certain goals, yes. But be careful you don’t over think it to the point where you’re living as some kind of ‘performance’ (who’s the performance for?). I see this a lot with people offering advice on how to live your life. It all becomes a bit too strict. Must do this, must do that. A good life should be free and spontaneous, natural. Take care of your needs, with the wisdom of balance.

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