Our souls are always whispering to us. The whispers of our lives tell us there’s more. The whispers of our souls speak of and point us toward the desires of our hearts. The whispers of our hearts appear all the time in our marriages. But we don’t always listen, do we?
Let me decode this gem. She’s saying that she has always wondered if she could do better than what she has now, whatever now might hold. This is the set-up for when she describes her marriage. So keep this in mind.
We lived in a four-bedroom home in a suburban golf community. We had nice cars. We took vacations. He worked in the technology field and I was in marketing at the time. We had investments, 401Ks, and pension plans. We had one dog and no children.
I married my husband because he was safe. I knew he wouldn’t lie to me, cheat on me, or hurt me. We rarely fought, but we didn’t take the time to connect with each other either. Because he didn’t require me to share much of my soul with him, I could stay safe and hidden, but not necessarily in love.
Brothers, lurkers, and those on the fence about MGTOW read the above quoted lines several times for me please, it shows and confirms almost to tee what is preached on this website. What is that you might be asking? Well let me explain it to you just so you’ll have it strait from the horse’s mouth in the article and decoded by me. 1) Alpha F~~~s, Beta bucks. Yep she says it right there, this dude paid for everything. In fact she had even more than you could ask for really. But then she has an affair with your stereotypical Chad. No loyalty from her and no honesty from her either. She said that she could count on that from her husband.
2) She’s looks to others to find out what she doesn’t have. This is the heard/ hive mentality of women. Their hands constantly grab beyond their reach and their capabilities. And it’s a man’s job to provide those things for her ALWAYS.
I didn’t know how to have that with someone, and neither did my husband.
So instead of talking things over with her woefully ignorant dick stand of a husband, she spreads her legs for a Chad. She’s a f~~~ing stereotype and what’s even worse, now she’s telling the whole world about her shut ways on the internet and trying to justify them like the entitled princess that she is. Boys, don’t get married.
The longing and loneliness I felt became increasingly present until it was a big, gaping hole in the center of my heart.
That’s when the whispers of my soul turned into screams
Just like I said in the beginning, she always wondered if she could do better, now she not only wondered that, but had an emotional justification to do it. MGTOW has taught me that women do not think in terms of logic and reason. No, they couch everything in emotion and feelings. And that is exactly what this chick is saying. Except she’s trying to sex it up a little bit to make it seem like she is less garbage like. But she’s still garbage.
Michael was tall, broad-shouldered, strong, and confident. He had money, a career, and a personality that was magnetic, a little dangerous, and more than a little narcissistic. He was also younger than me and very used to getting his way.
Hey lurkers, go ahead and keep being the nice guy, the beta, the provider. See where it got this chick’s husband? Second fiddle to a Chad. Bitch couldn’t resist, even though homeboy provided for all of her needs. AWALT.
Michael became very secretive and manipulative and I felt suddenly unimportant in his life. He would make promises and dates he seemed to have no intention of keeping. He would lie to me or only tell half-truths and then make me believe there was something wrong with me when I doubted his sincerity. I probably would have forgiven him 100 times, but mercifully he did what I could not do: walk away.
Notice how it’s the Chad who’s a dick her in the above quoted text? She’s cheating with him for crying out loud! But oh no, she’s talking about trust and such like. Oh and she was dick whipped, notice that? She states that she probably couldn’t walk away, yet she did exactly that to her husband. WHORE, SHE’S A WHORE.
The lesson is that we need to pay attention to our longings, to the whispers on our hearts. When we have a longing for more…more connection…more meaning…more love, it’s time to wake-up and pay attention. Our lives are talking to us. We didn’t place those desires on our hearts so we’re not going to be able to get rid of them either; maybe it’s time to begin embracing them.
And here we go gentlemen. The grand finale. Rather that repent for what a worthless and entitled bitch that she is, she doubles down on the bulls~~~. She’s endorsing the c~~~ carosel and monkey branching. She’s essentially saying, “get all you can no matter who you hurt in the process,” why? Because your heart has longings and you can’t get rid of them.
Rarely have I read such a strong indictment of the female species strait from a female. In her own words she has confirmed practically everything that I’ve seen in my own life and read about on this very needed website. For all of you lurkers, long timers, and fence sitters, read up. This is all that you need to tell you that MGTOW is and forever will be THE ONLY WAY FOR A MAN TO GO.
Cheers brothers, and thank you to any and all of you who have read this far down.
Nero 2 years, 7 months ago.
