This Could Be YOUR Girlfriend…

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I just had a female today tell me that she wants to keep our relationship “strictly friends”… a female who was making out with me and grinding on my dick just yesterday… because she loves her boyfriend and doesn’t want to leave him. Yesterday she was aggressively on my junk and today she’s a “good girl” again.

This is how females are. Somewhere out there is a guy who thinks his girl is solid because she’s calling him honey and baby on the phone while she’s at my house. Sure, today she says she wants to stick with him, but tomorrow she’s coming over to make me dinner and who knows what’s going to happen after we’ve had a few drinks?

Just think… this could be your girlfriend. She’s lying there in bed beside you tonight all sweet as can be, happy with herself because she only went to second base with me yesterday… and tomorrow she’ll be back at my place eating a steak and having a few too many drinks and thinking about how you’re just not doing it for her any more because you’re too busy f~~~ing off playing video games to bother with taking a shower or giving her the loving she needs.

Don’t blame me for being the one to give it to her, I’m just looking to get laid and I know how the world works. This is hypergamy in action… a female doing the “monkey swing” from branch to branch. I know there were females in the past who I thought were “mine” who have done this to me… and here I am now, once again, on the other side, being the next enticing branch waving in the wind for the little monkey to reach for.

If she really loved her man, she would bring her boyfriend with her tomorrow and introduce him to me, put a name and face to him, and I would step off and leave her be… or she’d just stay at home with him. I’m not looking to entice another man’s pet into my home… but if your pussy wanders out of your yard and comes meowing at my door, I’ll put out a saucer of cream and pet her for a few minutes. And when I’m done, I’ll send her right back to you with the taste of something new in her mouth… and your relationship will be over.

Now tell me, gentlemen, how are we supposed to trust these creatures when we know full well, from both ends of the deal, just how they operate? Or do you merely think me an evil man, trying to take away what is “rightfully” yours? If so, then maybe you should take a shower tomorrow morning, turn off the x-box and tell “your” women that she’s staying in with you for the evening or else she’s leaving and not coming back. It’s your move.

[Anonymous 11]

No Doc, you’re not evil.  It’s a dirty job, but somebody has to do it so it might as well be you.  With my luck her boyfriend would be a methed out psychopath killer mangina.

Dip the wick in it and skip.  No, we can’t trust these creatures so treat them like the disposable pieces of trash they are.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

BrainPilot Posted this before the crash:

Doc,
I don’t think I have an argument for any of that. I wouldn’t help a married one cheat on her husband just because the sex isn’t worth the complication and risk it brings into my life. But the single ones are what they are and no single person has promised loyalty to anyone. As it is, the single ones are just barely worth the trouble for the sex they provide. That being said, I’ll pass on the runner up for the most irrational thing a woman has ever said to me…

As a much younger man, I was seeing and occasionally having sex with a girl who was living with her much older banker boyfriend/sugar-daddy about 25 years ago now. He wanted to get married. She didn’t. He eventually tells her he wants to get married and is not going to continue to let her live with him if she doesn’t marry him (what the hell was he smoking?).

She tells me this and I tell her I’m probably not going to be seeing her much after she gets married…that if she’s going to be married, she should act married. The guy had way more money than me…big house… better standard of living than anyone else who could have been interested in her. It should have been enough. I considered her lucky that anyone with that much money as willing to take her on.

She says, “I don’t really want to get married, but I can’t really get out of it… so when I walk down the isle, I’m just going to close my eyes and pretend it’s you…”.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

A quick followup…

So the female comes over and we hang out a bit then go to the grocery store to pick up a steak and some beer. Back at my place and we’re making dinner (I do the steak… never entrust a female with a good steak, she will boil it to death just out of spite for all things manly) and we open a few beers.

As we start to eat, I go for my second beer but she’s only halfway through the first one (the night we met, we did three pints each at the same speed) so I know she’s slow rolling me. Either she’s s~~~ testing me or she’s feeling guilty so I call her out.

♂ “Hey, how does your boyfriend feel about you coming around to my place, making dinner and having a few drinks?”
♀ “Oh, I told him about it.”
♂ “Yeah, but how does he feel about it?”
♀ “Oh, he’s okay with it, pretty much.” (texting her constantly = definitely not okay with it)
♂ “How would you feel if he were at some chicks place and she was making him dinner and having drinks with him?”
♀ “I’d throw him the f~~~ out of the house.”
♂ “Exactly. If you were with me and you went to drink at some other dude’s house I’d say stay and don’t come back.”
♀ “I know. I guess I got a good one… he lets me do whatever I want.”

This female has NO respect for the man she calls her boyfriend. I could see the texts he was sending her… ‘love you baby, can’t wait to see you…” and yet here she sits in my apartment basically telling me that the only reason she sticks with him is so she’ll have a place to stay and someone to take care of her dogs while she’s off messing around with other guys.

She hasn’t f~~~ed me yet but the desire is there… and she tells him everything is fine between them at the same time she gives him s~~~ about how nice my house and car are. The only question here is will she let her physical desires overrule her sense of self preservation… and am I willing and able to push her to that point.

I’ve always said the difference between an asshole and a good man is that the asshole pushes you into a corner you DON’T want to be in. Whether or not I push her to the place she wants to go, you can see how her mind works when it comes to treating the beta provider in her life. You do NOT want to be the beta provider.

For the record, I let her run slack last night… didn’t push her to drink more and she left soon after dinner. My next move is to cut her off emotionally and see if she comes around to seek my attention and validation. The dogs are the trick here… she is using them as an anchor to moderate her self-destructive behavior and will probably revert back to beta provider guy if I push her too hard because she needs a place to keep them. So I’ll go cold and she’ll either come back around or she’ll find some other new, dangerous and exciting flame to fly a bit too close to.

And now I’m off to my next adventure.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Ugh….bitches….

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[GoneGaltParticipant 361]

Good one, Soul Man!

My only suggestion for Doc, if he actually didn’t ghost-write it, would be to get this book on reserve at his local library and read it thoroughly – it explained so much to me about the world around me.

 

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Lol, someon really should do a Dr. Seuss for the Real World series.

[…Spectator 1165]

Doc: yeah, no s~~~. Speaking of sports did you see this story? Male high school basketball coach suspended after local women complain about him doing his job too well and not being sensitive enough to opposing teams.

http://bleacherreport.com/articles/2332169-california-high-school-girls-basketball-coach-suspended-after-massive-win

This feminist s~~~ has gotten way the f~~~ out of hand.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Hurray California… where they turn off the scoreboard and everyone gets a medal for just showing up! Hey girls, let’s just toss the ball around and have some fun, then snow cones all around!!

[…Spectator 1165]

@doc: Loved that he coached a game where the score was 161-2. Hope he told his team “you shouldn’t have allowed that basket” hahahahaha. Amazing how now even doing your job well can lead to your suspension/termination. watch out guys!

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Right?! He should have kicked he s~~~ out of gem for giving up that one shot. If anything less than perfection is your goal, you have no business being in the game.

[…Spectator 1165]

@doc: Right. what a bunch of bulls~~~. In the article they go on to say that he was such a good coach that he put his son in charge and he was out scouting and then all that s~~~ went down. probably just a matter of time until the DocFenderson Story Arc goes to the next step on that s~~~.

[vytukasParticipant 0]

“<span style=”font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; line-height: 22.8571434020996px;”>The dogs are the trick here… she is using them as an anchor to moderate her self-destructive behavior and will probably revert back to beta provider guy if I push her too hard because she needs a place to keep them.”</span>

Oh, NOOO! Of course they are! She is using you and her BF is on it as well! Do not be a fool. I was wondering what your connection with her was to begin with, but sure, she NEEDS something from you and is a classic Player. Stop this! I am sure that she even told her BF that she flirts with you (without going into details) and he approves of the necessity. I had one such girlfriend long ago who worked in pharmacy and always flirted with male customers to sell more non-prescription stuff. She was getting paid well, honest with me (told of this herself) and I did not mind. It was other men who were fools. Do not be one!!! Or if you want adventure, ask for favours, and go back to the second base and make some secret video. Just for fun. 🙂

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Lol, thanks for the heads up. I’ve already stopped pursuing her. All things considered, however, I am more inclined to believe that she’s using him and he’s the sucker rather than they’re working together to try to sucker me.

After all, I didn’t get to be a 46 year old bachelor with no strings attached by getting played by 23 year old girls. Not saying it couldn’t happen… just unlikely.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7662]

Doc,
Thanks for reposting that from before the crash. I think about the girl who told me that sometimes. That was almost 25 years ago, but as I think back on my experience with women over the years, that sticks out. It was an eye opening moment for me at the time. It might even be called traumatic. I had known by that time (early 20s) that girls could be a little irrational and unreasonable on occasion, but up to that point, never anything like that. I think the thing that made it as intense for me as it was, is that looking at her, there was no outward sign that she was as messed up as she was… no indication apparent from looking at her. That was the frightening part. Crazy and dishonest can sneak up on you because it’s so well camouflaged as normal…

That one statement made me start looking for it whenever I’ve encountered women. Once I started watching for it, I started to see a LOT more of it.

That girl you describe sounds like she isn’t ready for the responsibility of being an equal partner in either relationship with you or that other guy, and is well aware of this, but is trying to ‘show up’ and both to see what she can get. At 23, some of them are still figuring out how much s~~~ they are worth putting up with. However bad she treats this current one, the next one will get it worse. I predict she’ll continue getting worse until she runs into someone who tells her she isn’t and treats her accordingly…and that’ll be the guy she ends up screwing, obsessing over stalking LOL.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

It’s clear to me at this point that this female has a lot of work to do before she’s worthy of my time and attention. But what I choose to do or not do with her is less important than sharing this fact with you fellows…

Your kitty may sit on your lap and purr when she’s at home with you but when you let her out at night by herself, she turns into a cold blooded killer.

http://theoatmeal.com/comics/cats_actually_kill

[vytukasParticipant 0]

Very nice and take care!

About the cats, to quote your link: “You must die, and I’m not even hungry!” Right on! It is not true that only humans kill without the necessity.

Best wishes.

[GoneGaltParticipant 361]

Doc: Lol, someon really should do a Dr. Seuss for the Real World series.

It looks like someone already has – guess which one could be the poster for International MGTOW Day 😉

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