They wouldn't understand the question

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

Hey guys,

This is a bit of a brain-spew I wanted to post, since I often notice or get struck by things, think, “I should make a thread about that” then get distracted.

Anyway, today I was having a bit of a chuckle at a local figure here in Sydney, who was until recently a successful politician and businessman who shut down an entire suburb for his wedding day to his glamorous wife. Fast forward some months and he’s been embroiled in scandals, everything has fallen apart and the wife of course ran like hell amid the usual unsubstantiated claims of abuse (and she is named as beneficiary of all the companies he created before marrying her). I say ‘chuckle’ because this arrogant tosser really had a reality check due, he acted like he was the smartest, most successful guy on the planet and it blew up in his face due to his own arrogance. (I still hope he keeps his companies and she gets nothing though).

Anyway, I was thinking how little her recent wedding vows meant to her – “for better or worse, richer or poorer, til death us do part”. She got the big wedding – biggest damn wedding Sydney’s seen – and some time living the high life, then when it all blew up she immediately ran and seems like she will try to take him for everything.

What did those wedding vows even mean?

It struck me, if you asked the average woman that question – or a variation, like “why vow to stay with someone for better or worse til death if you don’t mean it?” – they wouldn’t even understand the question.

[Anonymous 24]

Shiny wrote:

It struck me, if you asked the average woman that question – or a variation, like “why vow to stay with someone for better or worse til death if you don’t mean it?” – they wouldn’t even understand the question.

Oh, I think they get it, and would look at you like you just asked them to slove a riddle and say- “Isn’t that what we have to say to get half?”

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

This is a good point, they wouldn’t understand the question. Females have a lower frequency of conceptualization. They are simply doing what their instincts tell them to do, and doing what they were taught by our female favoring society.

It’s like asking a bee why it protects the queen .. it has no concept, it’s doing what was programmed into its nature by the universe or (god).

[HitmanParticipant]

Those wedding vows actually have the words “right now ” at the end. .to them.
A legal contract with zero repercussions when voided, by THEM.
Meaningless drivel. .

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

Wedding vows are becoming pledge of lies that are to be recited after that man becoming mangina till he is freed after divorce-raped by feminazi govt

[narwhalParticipant]

I’ve thought about that a lot too. Women must understand what a promise, a commitment is, but I do think they see it differently, probably because the consequences are different. They are also experts of manipulation, even upon themselves.

Here’s how I think they get away with it:
1 – The words are mostly ceremonial. It is not thought of as a binding commitment.
2 – Even though it’s not stated, in their heads, conditions of that commitment are implied. And since they aren’t stated, those conditions can be whatever they need them to be. You see, that was when she thought she would love you forever, but since she no longer loves you, the commitment isn’t binding.
3 – She’s not breaking the commitment first. Her husband was supposed to love her, and he failed at that so he’s really the one breaking the vow. Of course, she gets to decide on whether or not he loved her based on how she feels, it’s completely subjective based on whatever she wants it to be.
4 – She’s breaking the vow because it’s secondary to the happiness of her children. She feels like her marriage is hurting her kids, and therefore, she must divorce. In this scenario, she will likely be convinced that she’s actually helping out her husband too, since he’s miserable, and will be a better father after the divorce. She’s not a commitment breaker, she’s a martyr…it just looks like she’s doing this for herself above everyone else, but she knows better whatever one else needs.
5 – Not exactly a reason, but a consequence. She will have friends and family that call her out. Those people will be removed from her life. She will not the possibility that she’s making a mistake. That could be friends, family, her church, whatever. They are being judgmental, and she needs support right now, not people that doubt her and make her unhappy.

It really isn’t that hard to wash it all away. Honestly, I don’t event think that’s a woman only trait. Men will do this too. Men will leave their wives and justify for the same reason. What separate the two is the consequences of divorce. That is why men do this less often then women do. Perhaps men do have a higher sense of honor, but that honor is develop through years and years of consequences.

Ok. Then do it.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I’ve seen that wedding on Youtube. Guy had helicopters, jets, fancy cars and so on. Rich dude. Reality is a bitch.

Shiny wrote:

What did those wedding vows even mean?

That’s a great question when given to women. They try to sell marriage as it was years ago, like it still exists in that form but it doesn’t. (Even if it did, I still wouldn’t do it but some would and then women might have a leg to stand on in this argument)

What does the white wedding dress mean? It used to symbolize purity (virginity) and let’s be honest that’s not the case anymore. Vows are dropped like a hot potato. So why bother taking vows if nobody takes them seriously? Why do women want marriage so bad if they don’t uphold vows? Because it allows them to trap men.

Marriage today is an expensive ceremony that doesn’t mean s~~~. Vows don’t mean s~~~, no fault divorces annul that s~~~. They are only words to women, so why would any man get married when they women don’t value vows?

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

One of the biggest c~~~ lies of them all.

“I do.”

Really means:

“I don’t.”

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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