Theres other guys out there like me

[LookAfter#1Participant 352]

Hi.

I was what you call a typical “White Knight” despite the fact Ive always been as nice as I could and would do anything for them, Ive had a string of bad relationships. Basically the past four ex-girlfriends have all been psychotic, pathological liars, cheating sluts (quite openly without remorse) or a combination of the above. They left me heartbroken and hurt, I couldn’t understand how someone could be so cruel to another person. This relationship game felt such hardwork and it was never seemed worth it. Even though Im athletic and an alright looking guy, there is not plenty of fish in the sea and I never met “the one”. I used to come home on a night alone, feeling a failure.

Then one day I woke up and just stopped chasing women and looking for a girlfriend. And you know what… Ive never felt happier !
It feels great to be free and not worry about having to please anyone else. Its so good to do what makes me happy, for a change. And spend my money on what I want. Its like a burden has been lifted from my shoulders, theres no pressure now.

Interestingly I started to act MGTOW without even realising it. I never knew MGTOW existed, there was a MGTOW philosophy, or phrases for it and I never knew there is other guys out there who have had the same experience.

Even though Im not as extreme as some… I don’t use the terminology or believe in feminist conspiracies. I do believe in making yourself happy, look after yourself because sometimes it seems nobody else does.

Nice to meet you all.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

welcome sir, i’m glad you found the path to freedom. enjoy the forums and the website.

LookAfter#1 wrote:

look after yourself because sometimes it seems nobody else does.

this is especially true for men. Women and children are treated with higher priority.

LookAfter#1 wrote:

And spend my money on what I want.

now you get to spend time and money on what your want…

Cheers

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 54]

Welcome look After #1 ! I also went my own way before finding this site.

How cool huh!

Other Men to talk about it with!

Enjoy!!!

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome to the meteor shower shelter! Enjoy yourself!

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

RIGHT ON BROTHER THE FREER THE BETTER.

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[Anonymous 5]

Welcome, and congrats on finding your way here.
It was a surprise for every one of us to find there were others who came to the same conclusions.
It’s even more astounding when you read about men who’ve realised the same reality since the beginning of recorded history.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Tremendous intro and thanks for making it.
Big welcome to the forums.

LookAfter#1 wrote:

Then one day I woke up and just stopped chasing women and looking for a girlfriend. And you know what… Ive never felt happier !

Will be sure to pass this ^^ part on to someone who can really use it…..

/forums/topic/dont-ever-give-up-hope/

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Welcome home brother. Awakening & finding home here are two of the best things to ever happen to me.

Life changing in a most excellent way.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, LookAfter#1

[AuctoratusParticipant 52]

Welcome! It feels good, doesn’t it…

[LexParticipant 117]

Welcome to the other side Brother.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome and nice intro

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[LeobardisParticipant 23]

Nice to meet you as well!

LookAfter#1 wrote:

Then one day I woke up and just stopped chasing women and looking for a girlfriend. And you know what… Ive never felt happier !
It feels great to be free and not worry about having to please anyone else. Its so good to do what makes me happy, for a change. And spend my money on what I want. Its like a burden has been lifted from my shoulders, theres no pressure now.

That’s it right there, isn’t it? That pressure is a false pressure, put on us by unhappy people who want to believe their way is the only way. It’s like if you went to an island where everyone had a blood-sucking parasite on their neck. They know it, well… sucks. But they don’t want to believe it. So they tell everyone how great it is to have this parasite. If everyone has a parasite, then it’s OK, it’s just the way things are supposed to be. Then you arrive without a parasite attached to your jugular. They don’t want to warn you not to get one, because then they are admitting to everyone, especially themselves, that is terrible. So they tell you how wonderful these parasites are. And ask you when you are going to find a parasite of your own. Even go so far as to belittle you for not having one. Make you feel singled out and unworthy. Not because it is great to have something constantly sucking the life right out of them, but because they are resentful of the fact that you are free from it.

A bit extreme, but there it is!

[Man SoloParticipant 111]

Great intro lookafter#1. Welcome to the oasis in the desert. Ever since joining this site I`ve accessed it everyday without fail – best damn site on the internet.

Your intro mirrors my experience from start to finish, and probably many other guys on this site. Only difference is I managed to escape 2 marriages practically unscathed. Maybe I should change my name to Houdini 😉

Enjoy the site!

"Marriage is a good way to meet someone you hate and then buy them a house'

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