there you go .. arranged or love marriage "money comes first"

[rorickParticipant 682]

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15 Direct Questions Girls Desperately Want To Ask In An Arranged Marriage Without Embarrassing Him

Marrying someone whom you have just met is a daring step in the true sense. A person you don’t know much about, but are considering spending the rest of your life with him only because your parents’ think he is the right choice for you is not an easy task. But let’s face it, your parents are the best judge for deciding what is best for you and they obviously won’t settle for anything but the BEST for you, right?

Still, there are some reservations, apprehensions and a lot of questions you want to ask your potential would-be but can’t be upfront about them. In other words, those questions might seem too direct, personal and sometimes rude, and so you just keep asking them in your mind and look for polite ways to say them out loud. So, we thought of getting all those questions for you to match with your list and probably add a few too!

#1. How much do you earn?

She wants to know what kind of a life will he be able to give her- something lavish, ordinary or way below average, will she have to work to make ends meet or only because she feels like. Yes, love is more important but nonetheless, money is important too! No girl would want to settle for anything but the best, especially if she has options!

#2. Why are you still single?

Especially if the guy seems to be much older to her, she would obviously wonder why hasn’t he got married yet.

#3. How many girls have you dated?

There’s a general inquisitiveness about the exact number! And why they want to know you ask? Well, they just have to, period!

#4. Were any of them serious affairs?

Well just to be sure if he is a playboy or husband material! Why not be safe than sorry, right?

#5. Do you have a medical condition?

This is one of the most important things to know about a stranger before you get married to him and in every sense; it also is your right to know! Also, asking your potential groom for an HIV test isn’t an embarrassing thing anymore, instead, it’s the most modern and common criteria in an arranged marriage setups.

#6. How many ‘girl’ friends do you have?

Not girls that he dated but pals who are females. She would want to know whether he is a womanizer or just the best guy friend every girl dreams to have who is nothing more than a friend. Also, she needs to be prepared beforehand just in case all his friends are females!

#7. Do you smoke and drink?

Taking a few drinks occasionally at parties isn’t objectionable at all. But let’s face it, no girl wants to be stuck with a drunkard who can’t put a grip over his f~~s or his drinks!

#8. Will you give my work as much importance as your own?

Every girl wants a man who encourages her, supports her to achieve her dreams and helps out where ever he can to make her work life easier. Always considering it as important as his own and along with that, allowing her to maintain her own bank balance without expecting her to pitch in to pay the bills!

#9. Are you religious?

Well if not the types who likes to visit the temple often, is he at least God fearing? Whether he exists or not, believing that God is always by your side watching over you makes you a better person, more positive and grounded. And those are some must have qualities that every girl wants in her husband, right?

#10. Will you split the household chores with me once we are married?

No girl wants to get married and become a permanent house keeper. It’s the 21st century where girls are equal in every way to men. And so, if both can work, they can split the house chores and responsibilities post-marriage too!

#11. Have you ever cheated?

They say that once a cheat, always a cheat! Unless he is an over confidant and self-loving person who will himself brag about how cool his cheating on someone was, you will have to use your own sources to find out if he ever did!

#12. How many children do you want?

You might not want to ask this, but you sure will have this in your head.

#13. You will be okay with birth control, right?

Because you don’t want to be pregnant right after your honeymoon! You both have just got to know each other and so, before starting a family you want to get to know each other better, travel the world, reach your work goals and do so much more!

#14. Are you willing to stay in a nuclear family setup

While some girls who want their privacy and independence would want to be sure of the above, others who have grown up in a loving, large and loud joint family would want to be sure that her house after marriage is a joint family setup too!

#15. Will you relocate if I get a good work opportunity in another country?

Because if it was the other way round, she would definitely do it for her husband!

The above list would be a warning for some guys who still believe that the old way of arranged marriages might be the way to go nowadays. It ain’t, cause, Love or arranged money comes first for women.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

1- no
2- no
3- no…

all other see answer 1 to 3.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

Technically speaking, if you are expecting money from your soon to be hubby, then you are NOT independent.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

“… love is more important but …” But money is priority number 1.

“No girl would want to settle for anything but the best …” Hypergamy confirmed.

Thank you, women!

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

rorick wrote:

Article link : http://www.bollywoodshaadis.com/articles/15-questions-all-girls-desperately-want-to-ask-on-the-first-meeting-in-an-arranged-marriage-5520

15 Direct Questions Girls Desperately Want To Ask In An Arranged Marriage Without Embarrassing Him

#8. Will you give my work as much importance as your own?

Every girl wants a man who encourages her, supports her to achieve her dreams and helps out where ever he can to make her work life easier. Always considering it as important as his own and along with that, allowing her to maintain her own bank balance without expecting her to pitch in to pay the bills!

The difference between work and a hobby is responsibility. Retiring at the age of 35, whenever she pleases makes it a hobby.

[Anonymous 2]

They can marry rosey palm and her five sisters and go f~~~ themselves!

[Sky-OParticipant 18966]

‘ maintaining her own bank balance without expecting her to pitch in to pay the bills’

There you go. Right there.

That’s it.

The most recurring theme with every woman I was ever with.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Marriage is an outdated concept in nearly all cultures: the appeal for it to men is based on a false assumption: sole access to your own personal vagina and womb.

It is false because of the ease of female infidelity and the fact the she can just ration or boycott sex after marriage.

Marriage takes away choices from men, but gives women MORE choices: stay married and not have affair, stay married and have an affair, divorce and get cash and prizes, etc.

Men can cheat or initiate divorce, but in most cases those choices are so bad as to be like shooting yourself in the foot.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Just

And tell me about you, what you can cook ? Are you willing to practice sucking my dick 2 hours a day to get really good at it ? Are you willing to wake me up with a blowjob and smell of bacon, eggs and coffee ?
MISOGYNIST !!!

AWALT, hypergamy is a thing, there is no denial, and this text, as stated by brother @zoidberg is just another proof. They want the best men that they can have, but since they have floating personalities and never know what they want, it changes when they get tired of their perfect man, everytime

[RajParticipant 472]

Let’s not kid ourselves here. The only question she really cares about is the first one, and ONLY the first one. The author just touted off 14 other questions to not make herself look like the money grubbing c~~~ she is.

This bitch needs to stop spreading her trash. No where except the western world would she even be allowed to think this s~~~, let alone write about it.

I hope the end comes soon, cause I’m looking forward to a day when america and go full Barbarian style like my ancestors did on Rome and put an end to all this nonsense.

I was once a great king, I believe you were too. I hope you believe in me, I hope you believe in you.

[RajParticipant 472]

Raj wrote:

This bitch needs to stop spreading her trash. No where except the western world would she even be allowed to think this s~~~, let alone write about it.

I see now that it was written in Bollywood. Never the less, I stand by previous statement. This is definitely a very liberal part of India, definitely influenced by western media standards.

I was once a great king, I believe you were too. I hope you believe in me, I hope you believe in you.

[Anonymous 5]

I’d like to wipe my hairy ass with this article.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

Anonymous wrote:

I’d like to wipe my hairy ass with this article.

It’s actually good in the way it puts in black and white exactly the bulls~~~ standards of women. It tells you right there what all the Disney films hide. She wants your money, she wants her own money you don’t touch, she wants to quit work and be a lazy c~~~. She does not want to cook and clean because at the very least a man should be doing half. Women don’t earn half the money in the house or share it, so you work like f~~~ and still have to come home and help her do housework. She wants a wage from you for doing half, like a s~~~ty, entitled housemaid that expects you to chip in. At least sex will be on tap though ey?, oh wait she will be stopping that as well. Women bemoaning arranged marriages is a joke. What man would want to be married even?. F~~~ that, horrible leeches. They will never be equal and they don’t want to be.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[Eric LauderParticipant 12052]

Hypergamy is female nature, it changes nothing if it’s USA, Russia, Saudi Arabia, India or Japan.
We’re tools for women.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[MonkParticipant 17066]

#1 How much do you earn?
#5 Do you have a medical condition?

Looking to his death. Nice.

[Sky-OParticipant 18966]

Monk,

#5 Medical Condition:

Calculating his working years. Cost of medical insurance and/or a $1mil life insurance policy for an unhealthy provider. Long term care costs if the wallet lives too long. And health of offspring.

These sluts have allot too calculate.

LOL

[Sky-OParticipant 18966]

Pumpkin: ‘Im going to work but will not be helping with any of the bills. And I will save MY money. I love you sooooo much’

Ha, ha. LOL

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22587]

Sounds like an HR job interview.

No thanky. Just pass on it all right now.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22587]

Men should not answer the woman’s list until the woman has answered the man’s list of questions first. Dude should be able to reject her first if he doesnt get the answers he is looking for.

Otherwise it’s all one sided and appears no downsides for the man even exist.

why is he so picky, he has a list!

you appear to have a long list.

i have to protect myself/my interests!

…but you don’t want me to protect mine..?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Sky-OParticipant 18966]

$luts

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