The why do men thats missing for Women is Love

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Why do men chase

Why do men act differently around their friends

Why do men exist

Why do you chose X side

Why cant we be freiends

Why

Why

The whats

What do you want from us

Etc

Etc

Do they understand love-you decide.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I have a theory about that.

But first, why does a woman react like a man is “creepy” when he just smiles and takes an interest in her?

Its’ because –>>> She doesn’t like HERSELF.

Underneath her “I’m so fabulous” exterior, she has unbelievably low self-esteem. So a man who likes her is “weird” and “creepy”. She doesn’t even understand why he WOULD like her – or be attracted to her. And make no mistake, this is also true for very good looking women and models!

Consider the Dove® beauty campaign.
Only 2% of women think of themselves as beautiful.

Isn’t that a little strange considering they are always saying “find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot”. Hundreds of those messages are splattered all over social media and dating sites and they brainwash themselves and each other with it. But what man would ever think of her that way, when she doesn’t even think of HERSELF that way?

So when women wonder:

• “Why do men chase tail?”
• “Why do men do X?” etc.

They don’t ask why do men “love” me….
because they don’t really believe a man COULD.

They can’t expect men to think of them as “beautiful”, when they don’t even think of themselves that way. So the next time a woman reacts like “he’s a creep” for speaking to her … it’s because she doesn’t like HERSELF.

This is also why they attempt to shame unmarried & single men. “Why aren’t you married? Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” and they behave as if not having a girlfriend/wife is SO DEVASTATING and the worst existence there is.

It’s because they don’t like themselves! They can’t stand being (or living) alone , and they hate it when you prefer it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[narwhalParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Underneath her “I’m so fabulous” exterior, she has unbelievably low self-esteem. So a man who likes her is “weird” and “creepy”. She doesn’t even understand why he WOULD like her – or be attracted to her. And make no mistake, this is also true for very good looking women and models!

That doesn’t seem right to me…yet I can’t disprove it. In fact, I can’t think of a woman I dated who didn’t have self esteem issues about her looks. The exceptions would be women who are strippers or in sales job where it was obvious her looks translated to dollars.

Ok. Then do it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

narwhal wrote:

I can’t think of a woman I dated who didn’t have self esteem issues about her looks.

It doesn’t even have to be about her “looks”.

“Beautiful” is only skin deep. How many women do you know who make the same effort to be “beautiful” or attractive on the INSIDE? I have lived with women who will spend 45 straightening her hair, but have no interest in straightening out the MESS that’s inside. They don’t even pay attention to their own behavior.

narwhal wrote:

That doesn’t seem right to me…yet I can’t disprove it.

DOVE® proved it for you.
When asked, only 2% of women believe they are “beautiful”. (link above)

But look on the internet, myspace, talk shows, Tyra, Wendy and Oprah all of a sudden it’s “find a guy who calls you beautiful”.

When a woman flirts with me, or smiles and make eye contact, I think “she’s got good taste” even if she’s not all that.

Women don’t think like that. When a woman reacts negatively to male attention, it doesn’t matter how “hot” she is on the outside (or even how “hot” she THINKS she is)…. she just revealed her inner self-loathing.

And it answers the question about “why do men love?” not being on their list.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RumpoleParticipant 994]

Beauty is skin-deep; ugly goes down to the sub-atomic level.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Rumpole wrote:

Beauty is skin-deep; ugly goes down to the sub-atomic level.

Yeah that’s why they had to call one of them quarks ‘strange’.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[experiencedParticipant]

Spiritual.
Mental.
Physical.

Ask a LAYDEE what the three together represent.
…
Don’t hold your breath.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Keymaster wrote:

I have a theory about that.

But first, why does a woman react like a man is “creepy” when he just smiles and takes an interest in her?

Its’ because –>>> She doesn’t like HERSELF.

Underneath her “I’m so fabulous” exterior, she has unbelievably low self-esteem. So a man who likes her is “weird” and “creepy”. She doesn’t even understand why he WOULD like her – or be attracted to her. And make no mistake, this is also true for very good looking women and models!

Consider the Dove® beauty campaign.
Only 2% of women think of themselves as beautiful.

Isn’t that a little strange considering they are always saying “find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot”. Hundreds of those messages are splattered all over social media and dating sites and they brainwash themselves and each other with it. But what man would ever think of her that way, when she doesn’t even think of HERSELF that way?

So when women wonder:

• “Why do men chase tail?”
• “Why do men do X?” etc.

They don’t ask why do men “love” me….
because they don’t really believe a man COULD.

They can’t expect men to think of them as “beautiful”, when they don’t even think of themselves that way. So the next time a woman reacts like “he’s a creep” for speaking to her … it’s because she doesn’t like HERSELF.

This is also why they attempt to shame unmarried & single men. “Why aren’t you married? Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” and they behave as if not having a girlfriend/wife is SO DEVASTATING and the worst existence there is.

It’s because they don’t like themselves! They can’t stand being (or living) alone , and they hate it when you prefer it.

So if I understand correctly KM, Women project outwardly how they feel about themselves ?

A sort of blame shifting for how they make themselves feel which they hold someone else responsible for thinking its the mans fault?

Im confused I may have misunderstood or might be confusing the issue.

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