The time a girl falsely accused me of sexual harassment (sort of)

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Story time, brothers.

I find myself reflecting a lot on what put me, a young, mid-20s guy from a traditional, family-focused culture, on the road to MGTOW.

And today, I realized that one of the incidents I had in middle school could have very well laid the foundation for it.

There are two important people in this story. First, my girlfriend. Second, my girlfriend’s best friend (known as BFF from here).

So, girlfriend and I had been on and off for a LONG time. Back in those white-knighting, blue-pill days of mine, I used to treat her very well. For Valentine’s day, I actually created an amazing card from scratch, drew a GORGEOUS rose onto it, and gave it to her (remember, this is the eighth grade). I treated her amazingly well.

Things were going good. And then one day, when I’m on the school bus returning home, my phone starts blowing up with angry texts from her. I don’t know why at the moment, and she dumps me within 60 seconds by text message. Naturally, I’m shocked and upset.

Slowly, things start to come out. A mutual friend of ours tells me that my girlfriend’s BFF told my girlfriend that I made comments of a sexual nature about her. Now this is completely false. First of all, I didn’t even KNOW her BFF that well. Met her maybe once, but I kept clear of her. But this is where the first red flag came in.

Red Flag 1: Girlfriend did not give me a chance to defend myself, and did not explain the reason behind her anger. She just haphazardly broke the relationship.

Over the next few days, I escalated the situation and went on the offensive against her BFF for making up such a lie. We had a “trial” of sorts within our social group. Basically, our mutual friends and the BFF and I would meet up and present our versions of the events. It was surprisingly mature now that I think about it. Nothing went to the teachers or the principal’s office, but it could easily have…and it was a bullet dodged. Regardless, in the trial, it became pretty clear that the BFF was full of s~~~ and was lying left and right. She kept contradicting her statements.

Red Flag 2: I realized that this, if it had gone to the teachers, could have derailed my future so easily.

Anyways, the dispute ends. Girlfriend and I remained broken up. She never apologized to me for how she treated me.

A few years later, I asked her BFF why she made up that lie about me. I asked her in writing online. Her response? “She was my best friend and I was just jealous so yeah….sorry.”

This whole situation just showed me how one-sided and illogical girlfriends can be. I get that she was angry, but she should have given me a chance to defend myself and should have explained what ticked her off. And as for that BFF, I’ve stayed far away from her ever since. Everything about her screams “False Rape Accuser”

But yeah, I just wanted to share this with you, brothers. I think this was one of the first cracks in my “women and relationships are wonderful” illusion, and I am grateful that I began to learn this lesson so early in life.

MGTOW all the way.

P.S.- I’ve moved on. But my ex girlfriend hasn’t. I have a LinkedIn account, and my notifications indicated that she has been browsing my profile, even though there has been no direct communication between us for four years now.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Well you’re definitely lucky! I’m seeing personal friends getting married left and right, the sorry f~~~ers.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Jackinov wrote:

Well you’re definitely lucky! I’m seeing personal friends getting married left and right, the sorry f~~~ers.

Keep a couch empty. They’re going to need it.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22557]

Oneforfreedom wrote:

A few years later, I asked her BFF why she made up that lie about me. I asked her in writing online. Her response? “She was my best friend and I was just jealous so yeah….sorry.”

You know what. It is not the vindictiveness that bothers me. It is not even the sexism that bothers me. On some levels I can understand both concepts. Though, it is the shallowness of it all that bothers me. On a lark, this girl wrecked her friend’s relationship, and potentially wrecked her friend’s boyfriend’s future.

I feel for you man. I consider this no different than someone giving this woman a loaded gun, and she decided to shot her gun in your general direction, for the hell of it. You are just lucky her bullet missed you.

[Klaus WindamierParticipant 543]

Woman are stupid because the majority of them cannot think logically and always only listen to their ego and negative feelings.

Woman only listen to woman.

Woman knows woman and hate woman.

So, a stupid person, only listen to a stupid person, what is the outcome?

Its like a blind person guiding a blind person hoping that they not fall of the cliff.

Enjoy your freedom, brother.

[AttonParticipant]

Everything about her screams “False Rape Accuser”

Trust your instincts on that one they are almost certainly right in situations like this.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

“I’m jealous, let’s possibly ruin this guy’s reputation.”

Meawhile, feminists:
“Women don’t lie, ever!”

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Bullet dodged! If she broke up with you over such a cheap shot, then be glad you were not married first.

I’ve never had a volcanic breakup like yours. I’ve had them get mad for some trivial reason and then make me spend an hour dragging it out of them whatever is was this time. This is not fun. I’ve had fun and coaxing a petulant broad to explain herself ain’t it.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

You are very lucky to have dodged a bullet. If this had been reported to administration they would have f~~~ed you long and hard. First of all don’t s~~~ where you eat. Second of all don’t have any conflict with someone you work with or go to school with. It could easily have transformed from a jealous lie to full blown false rape allegation.

No matter what happens, in our pussified, femininized society any conflict with a woman means the man is always wrong so you probably lost a few friends over this whether you know it or not.

Best to avoid girls in school. Go out with girls from a different school and when things get even a little dicey dump that bitch.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

The evil that lurks in so many women’s minds has no boundaries. As others stated, glad you dodged that bullet. Good for you.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

What really gets me is that I had never, ever had an unfriendly interaction with her BFF. Like I said, I had met her one time, briefly, and we just introduced ourselves. That’s it.

This attack came out of NOWHERE. She had absolutely no grievance against me, yet she was cold and willing to destroy my future because of her “feelz”

When I think about it now, I feel angry. I have moved on in regards to the girlfriend, but I can’t get over how self-centered, cold, and just inhuman you have to be to destroy someone who is being nice and caring for your best friend. A part of me fantasizes that one day, if she is playing a “rape victim,” that I should go and be a witness for the defense and show how she falsely accused me of harassment. I know- this is unhealthy, and I’ll let it go in due time.

And yeah, this also showed me that girls listen to their best friends and will take their word over yours 10 times out of 10. Even after it became clear that her BFF was lying, she never apologized to me and stayed close friends with her.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

RoyDal wrote:

I’ve never had a volcanic breakup like yours. I’ve had them get mad for some trivial reason and then make me spend an hour dragging it out of them whatever is was this time. This is not fun. I’ve had fun and coaxing a petulant broad to explain herself ain’t it.

Oh gosh yeah I know what you’re talking about. They become like little kids and just starting pouting and not communicating. I believe that this is just a way for them to get attention. If they genuinely wanted to resolve the issue, they would state their grievance and you guys could talk about it maturely.

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Best to avoid girls in school. Go out with girls from a different school and when things get even a little dicey dump that bitch.

Yep. Lesson Learned. IF I decide to ever date, it will definitely not be with anyone from school. For now though, I’m perfectly happy having all my time to myself to learn, and to have fun doing things I like to do.

Faust For Science wrote:

I feel for you man. I consider this no different than someone giving this woman a loaded gun, and she decided to shot her gun in your general direction, for the hell of it. You are just lucky her bullet missed you.

This is a perfect analogy.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22557]

Oneforfreedom wrote:

This is a perfect analogy.

Thank you. And I wish you luck.

[RennieParticipant]

Oneforfreedom wrote:

Best to avoid girls in school. Go out with girls from a different school and when things get even a little dicey dump that bitch.

I agree don’t date in school, or at work. It’s hell on earth in there. I’ve certainly seen vindictive women ruin other people’s relationships/friendships including some of mine.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

I’ve had so few experiences where I’ve known women who weren’t unreliable, childish, and liars, that I simply assume all women are (and just haven’t demonstrated it yet to me).

Here in these Soviet United States, one must always be careful of informers in one’s school or workplace (or apartment complex). Any deviation from the Party dialectic is punishable, and there are always some pinks who are looking for someone to punish.

Our society is collapsing around us.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

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