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Anonymous13As long as there are thirsty blue pill men out there, this will NOT change. We all need to quit blaming women for this. The problem is MEN. Specifically, BLUE PILL MANGINAS.
I do BLAME women.
The blue pill manginas might be enabling it but these women are DOING it. Going into marriage with the words ‘starter’ and ‘divorce’ in their minds. They are the ones DECIDING it’s a Starter and DECIDING to divorce rape.
Women are like this.
All women are like this.
It’s easy to write these women off as callous or self-absorbed. And yet on some level, they just might be pioneers: Why stay put in an empty shell of a marriage — an arrangement on paper only — instead of calling it what it is? “This generation is reinventing marriage,” says Paul.
“I think women our age are like, We’re either going to fix this, or we’re going to end it, and that’s for the better,” says Kay Moffett, coauthor of Not Your Mother’s Divorce. She married her own starter husband in a funky, flamingo-filled Florida wedding at 27, then divorced him four years later after realizing she could never make the real commitment of having children with him. But don’t call her divorce a failure; in this enlightened world, it was simply a relationship that ran its course. “I think maybe we’re moving more toward a serial-marriage society — maybe you have three marriages in your life and several different careers. That’s where I’m heading,” she says.
I write them off as callous and self-absorbed. Really, take the few minutes to read the entire article if you haven’t. What you won’t see anywhere in that story is one ounce of remorse for the ex husbank, and not one ounce of feelings for him.
I guess pioneers don’t do regret. And women wonder where the good men are.
Order the good wine
All women are like this.
If you know something to be a fact and you ignore it, then who is to blame?
Anonymous13It’s easy to write these women off as callous or self-absorbed. And yet on some level, they just might be pioneers: Why stay put in an empty shell of a marriage — an arrangement on paper only — instead of calling it what it is? “This generation is reinventing marriage,” says Paul.
“I think women our age are like, We’re either going to fix this, or we’re going to end it, and that’s for the better,” says Kay Moffett, coauthor of Not Your Mother’s Divorce. She married her own starter husband in a funky, flamingo-filled Florida wedding at 27, then divorced him four years later after realizing she could never make the real commitment of having children with him. But don’t call her divorce a failure; in this enlightened world, it was simply a relationship that ran its course. “I think maybe we’re moving more toward a serial-marriage society — maybe you have three marriages in your life and several different careers. That’s where I’m heading,” she says.I write them off as callous and self-absorbed. Really, take the few minutes to read the entire article if you haven’t. What you won’t see anywhere in that story is one ounce of remorse for the ex husbank, and not one ounce of feelings for him.
I guess pioneers don’t do regret. And women wonder where the good men are.
Absolutely Taxguy.
Callous and self absorbed talking about ‘my Starter marriage’ without regard to the man who thought he was entering a life long union and investing in it based on that.
These shallow c~~~s are now actually trying to NORMALISE the whole Starter marriage thing like it’s just a relationship and you quickly move on.
It’s a f~~~ing marriage you took vows for you nasty shallow c~~~s.
NOW how do you suppose if the genders were reversed and it was men talking about Starter marriage and dumping poor little snowflake after a year or two.
They would paint all men as abusers and evil.
Oh wait, they do that anyway.
Kids, lurkers, young men, STOP enabling these shallow bitches to hurt you and f~~~ you over.
YOU have the power to
CLOSE THESE C~~~S DOWN.
Anonymous13All women are like this.
If you know something to be a fact and you ignore it, then who is to blame?
Then blame both, but it’s the women here who are the nasty, callous creatures deceiving the men at the altar that this is anything other than a Starter marriage.
These c~~~s are deceptive and cruel.
I’ll always blame them.
If men marry them armed with this knowledge then they’re idiots.
I completly get this emotion. What do you mean you want to break up…we’re married! You don’t get to change your mind or ask for a do over. I felt the same way when my ex asked for a separation. It made no sense to me.
Yeah that’s because women operate everything with a certain level of subjectivity.
If they “feel” that the marriage isn’t working, then she is not only entitled to walk off with 50%+ of your assets, but she is morally justified to do so.
Her cohorts will then congratulate her with a “You deserve better, girl!”.
All the while, the man is left as a shallow remnant of his former self and decimated in the process.
The system has removed the constraints of female hypergamy, and now we are see the effects spring forth.
Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically
Text book Narcissist.
These shallow c~~~s are now actually trying to NORMALISE the whole Starter marriage thing like it’s just a relationship and you quickly move on.
Not at all surprising – they have managed to NORMALIZE killing their babies. Right?
“I deserve to be HAPPPPPPPPPPPPPY!”
That’s what Andi said to Tucker, her husband of 11 months […] She had been imagining this moment since she moved out of their condo a few months earlier …
Do the math.
I’ll always blame them.
If men marry them armed with this knowledge then they’re idiots.
I agree with the latter but the former is your red pill rage talking. You made a mistake trusting a woman just like I did. It’s okay, we learn from it. The longer you go without making that mistake again, the better off you’ll be and less you’ll blame women.
As long as there are thirsty blue pill men out there, this will NOT change. We all need to quit blaming women for this. The problem is MEN. Specifically, BLUE PILL MANGINAS.
It will never change. There will always be men willing to take, what we now pass up. It will mostly be younger men, ones that haven’t seen women’s true nature yet.
Unfortunately, with most things in life, most men need to feel the pain first, before they can really learn. In other words, to get leverage on yourself.
I look back at all the running around on dates. Doesn’t matter if they ended up in bed, or an early night, I wish I could go back and show my younger self what I know now. I could have retired by now, before 40.
Hormones do play a big part, but so does experience. Not to mention how I view women now compared to before.
Not to mention how I view women now compared to before.
Yeah it’s funny man. I view women totally different now. Imagine actually f~~~ing a dog – think how it would look back at you, the way it would smell, and the indignified way it’s paws would catch you in the chops, it’s tongue hanging out, it’s over excitement – imagine the type of feelings and anticipations that evokes in you. Not very nice huh? They’re the exact connotations women have for me. For me, they have the exact same connotations as dogs: smelly, undignified, and simple minded.
husbank
Double-take when i first saw it, but you’re f~~~ing spot on man.
husbank
Double-take when i first saw it, but you’re f~~~ing spot on man.
Thanks Matt. I typed it once on accident, and then laughed and left it that way. It really is the way they see us. My small contribution to the manosphere…..
Order the good wine
“The idea of spending my life with someone like that seemed stifling,” she says. “It finally just got to me that he was so…sunny.”
There’s the problem right there, he was happy and since bitches believe that happiness is a zero-sum game, if he is happy, she will not be, so she will seek to destroy his happiness in a foolish bid to boost her own.
Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.
Hormones do play a big part, but so does experience. Not to mention how I view women now compared to before.
You hit the nail on the head.
I find it interesting that articles like this get published, but when the victims of these women decide to band together to help these men, they are maligned.
Reinventing marriage?!?! A woman takes a marriage vow, then decides it’s too much work and divorces him. She’s empowered and on the forefront of a new social paradigm. A man takes a marriage vow and gets served out of the blue. He laments with his fellow men on how marriage has little value. Gets derided for being a sexist and misogynist.
A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!
Anonymous13I’ll always blame them.
If men marry them armed with this knowledge then they’re idiots.
I agree with the latter but the former is your red pill rage talking. You made a mistake trusting a woman just like I did. It’s okay, we learn from it. The longer you go without making that mistake again, the better off you’ll be and less you’ll blame women.
I’m well passed the red pill rage, it was never that bad for me as I saw too much while married and the whole hideous divorce was what I expected.
I’ve never been calmer or felt more together since I got out of that horrendous marriage and have since walked away from women.
I now have very high levels of well being.
My experiences, though, have made me want to warn others in any way that I can.
There is something very ‘off’ about modern women and the message needs to be out there.
When I say I blame them, it’s not rage, not with me anyway.
I blame them in the same way I see someone break something deliberately. I see it with my own two eyes, I know who did it. They are to blame etc.
I blame women for going into marriage and deliberately hurting good men, when they know in the back of their minds, it’s just a ‘starter marriage’ to them or a ‘starter husbank’, however they view it.
They are to blame for this deliberate and despicable act to hurt a man, and then f~~~ him over in divorce.
The man, without redpill knowledge, is the victim.
Make NO mistake these women are PREDATORS.
As long as there are thirsty blue pill men out there, this will NOT change. We all need to quit blaming women for this. The problem is MEN. Specifically, BLUE PILL MANGINAS.
Exactly. Luckily for us, in general terms and saving exceptions, redpillers make far more money because they (we) have the traits that make money.
My observation has been that they tend to f~~~ me, and marry someone else. Suits me fine, btw.
I now have very high levels of well being.
My experiences, though, have made me want to warn others in any way that I can.
There is something very ‘off’ about modern women and the message needs to be out there.
When I say I blame them, it’s not rage, not with me anyway.
I blame them in the same way I see someone break something deliberately. I see it with my own two eyes, I know who did it. They are to blame etc.
I blame women for going into marriage and deliberately hurting good men, when they know in the back of their minds, it’s just a ‘starter marriage’ to them or a ‘starter husbank’, however they view it.
They are to blame for this deliberate and despicable act to hurt a man, and then f~~~ him over in divorce.
The man, without redpill knowledge, is the victim.
Make NO mistake these women are PREDATORS.
Perfectly said!
I don’t have personal red pill rage either. It’s a GLOBAL red pill rage that is inside of me for all of the injustice I see happening.
Yes, blue pill men enabled women to become like this but the actual crimes committed are done by women and not those that gave them power and freedom. Blue pill enablers and white knights are good-hearted fools that were tricked into thinking that women were EQUAL to us…
There is this saying:
“If you want to test someone, give him power”
Women were given power and we see that they failed the test. They are predators and callous creatures.
The blue pill men who enabled women to acquire power were often fooled like we were.
And blue pill-dom is nothing but some kind of foolish good-heartedness.Blue pill men live in a denial mechanism driven delusion about female nature.
We red pill men are different in our “no longer working” or “smashed” denial mechanism.
For me personally, dealing with women is off the charts anyway as I was not able to develop a denial mechanism on female nature in the first place.
Getting to know how they work and how evil they are from the day of my birth makes me some kind of reference witness to female nature.
And all of the MGTOW / Red pill teachings fit 1:1 to my countless observations.
And I can spend my time here ONLY because a third party inflicted illness took me out. And so I can do something of value in my involuntary bed time. Normally my time would be ruled by customers wishes and I would drop dead or do expensive hobbies in my spare time. One hobby that I miss is mind-f~~~ing gold diggers.
I would rather be divorced 5 times and jailed 10 times over false allegations than having a chemically wrecked nerve system. My REAL dark pill rage goes out to others, not to women…
And sometimes it’s not just rage, it’s action…
(It seems I made it though one post without using the word c u n t)
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