" The sex appeal wears off."

[dobsin593Participant 239]

Heard many guys in long term marriages and common-law relationships mention to me that sex in a long term relationship loses its spark when he found out what he was psychologically up against.
A few of these guys were married to or were with really physically attractive women.
In the beginning the spark was there regarding sex.
However they came to find their wives/girlfriends so psychologically unattractive, the sexual appeal towards her could actually leave.
Some women who are considered beautiful have the notion that because of their physical appeal that it’s impossible for them to be unattractive no matter how bad they act, how irritating or abusive they are, etc.
The old joke,”It’s frustrating being physically attracted to a woman who makes you mentally ill.”
Have many of you were in a relationship with a really good looking woman who drove you nuts to the point that you couldn’t find her physically attractive anymore? Just curious.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Yes, but it’s even worse after kids and they turn the pussy “tap” to OFF.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I used to find my ex wife attractive. Many men still do. But now, I am repulsed when I look at her, because I know all too well what is going on in that little mind of hers. I’ve often said about first impressions “you look like what you look like, and then your personality moves you from there.” A 6 can be a 9 if she’s really cool, and a 10 can be a 1 because she’s such a bitch.

Yup, the sex appeal wears off. The only question is how long it takes.

Order the good wine

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

(Raises hand)

I actually had one who believed that if two people love each other, they should become more attracted to each other as the relationship progresses.

She said she loved me, the sex stopped soon after she moved in.

That one sentence about attraction was enough to exhaust me to the point where I wasn’t even going to argue about fantasy vs. reality.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

I want to add that I have a pretty attractive ex-wife. I can guarantee most of you would want to f~~~ her based on her appearance, even though she is post-wall. I have lost respect for her, but it does not necessarily make her sex appeal wear off. It makes me want to grudge f~~~ her, which I have many times. There is a very distinct difference.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

For the last 12 years I’ve used a local swingers’ club as a way to get easy sex from women that crave sex, without paying for it, and without hurting anybody. These are the best places to see a particular side of female psyche which arises from rejecting women who are obviously very good looking, and better looking than you.

It’s not often a stunner will approach a man in these places, however, it occasionally happens if she just wants c~~~. On my first night there, I began chatting with a man who showed me around and told me about the place. Whilst chatting, a younger gorgeous girl suddenly appeared in front of me, and simply stared at me, expecting me to initiate something. Back then I was still quite shy in situations like that, and I was genuinely stumped for words, so I said the first thing that popped into my mind: “hello, first time here?”. She flashed a petulant and irritated look at me, and with a tone of voice suggesting I was stupid she barked “NO!”. She was a huge bitch, obviously used to men falling all over her. So the man with me gave me a little bro punch on the arm and said “you’ve pulled, see you later man”. I instinctively said “I’m coming with you man”, and he was speechless. She came after me and gave me a mouthful of name calling abuse. Then, half an hour later I was downstairs by the entrance, again with the same man, and she came over again and gave me an even more heated mouthful of abuse, lol. In my eyes she went from a 9 to a 1 when she responded to my initial question. She wasn’t getting my DICK, and I will never forget how alpha I felt in those moments. It made up for all my past beta calamities.

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Nero wrote:

Yes, but it’s even worse after kids and they turn the pussy “tap” to OFF.

… and the pin on the fat grenade to PULLED!

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

As they say, “Beauty is Only Skin Deep”.

After SEEING and EXPERIENCING how dam Mean, Nasty, and Ungrateful she can be towards you, I guess you could say that the “Sex Appeal Wears Off”.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Behind every beautiful women is a guy who is tired of f~~~ing her.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

Behind every beautiful women is a guy who is tired of f~~~ing her.

AND, for MANY sweet lil cupcakes we could adjust your saying to; Behind every beautiful women are MANY Men that have GROWN tired of f~~~ing her.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

dobsin593 wrote:

Have many of you were in a relationship with a really good looking woman who drove you nuts to the point that you couldn’t find her physically attractive anymore?

This definitely happens, but it hasn’t to me. I cut off relationships at the first sign of bitchiness from her. As you can imagine, that doesn’t tend to take long (under four months, usually). As a result, I still find her hot afterwards, but I won’t drive even the nicest car if I know that under the hood, the timing chain is about to snap.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[joetechParticipant]

Behind every woman is a gynecologist that knows all her secrets.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Yea, number 1 was smoking and a blast till she went crazy. Number 2 was also a looker, but after a few years of seeing the stinking pile of s~~~ camouflaged by a nice ass that she was, I had no interest in sex with it.

3 months, oil change dating, while they are in intrapment mode, hit it then quit it. If the c~~~ lasts that long before you hit eject. I grow tired of the predictability of the chase with these c~~~s.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

Behind every beautiful women is a guy who is tired of f~~~ing her.

It’s no different to everything in life, the novelty wears off after a while and it ends up becoming a chore. Most married men I know cannot wait for their wife to go out for the evening so they can jerk off to porn in peace.

It’s no different to owning a brand new sports car.

1st Drive) This is f~~~ing amazing, I cannot believe how great this is I am never going to get bored of this.
25th Drive) I don’t get that excited feeling when I get inside it anymore, it feels just like every other car I have ever driven now.
50th Drive)The fuel economy sucks and I can’t park it anywhere.
100th drive)The seats are uncomfortable and it is really impractical. Driving it is too much like hard work, I will leave it at home today and take the Ford Focus.

If you are f~~~ing the same woman all the time, driving the same car, using the same phone or eating the same food every day you will soon get utterly sick of it.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

If you are f~~~ing the same woman all the time, driving the same car, using the same phone or eating the same food every day you will soon get utterly sick of it.

True. But you can make good things last forever if you space them out enough (at least, that’s been my experience). This doesn’t apply to women, unfortunately because, you know, the wall.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Because after a few sexual partners sex to a women is no longer a pair bonding tool now its a means. Thats why so many married men feel ambushed like they were sold false goods. She never desired you in the first place so she used her sex as a means to your resources and provision. I really believe women have 6 months from the time she has sex with a guy to determine if her claws are in him, after that the clown dancing starts.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Sure it wears off, sleeping with the same person every day , her being ill, he being p~~~ed off, you being ill.

Paying the rent , paying bills going through the motions.

Marriage is bad for a man always , it bad for a women if she cant get his money.

Marriage for man is a Ponzi scheme.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Best way to do it, is to shut off all avenues with “hot” women.

Those days need to start. The sooner the better.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[RumpoleParticipant 994]

Beauty is skin-deep; ugliness goes down to the subatomic level.

[TheStormWithinParticipant 778]

dobsin593 wrote:

Have many of you were in a relationship with a really good looking woman who drove you nuts to the point that you couldn’t find her physically attractive anymore? Just curious.

About 10 years ago I was with a woman who was a real life Barbie doll. A total bombshell. However, she did more than just “drive me crazy”. She was f~~~ing dangerous. She was an alcoholic and on Wellbutrin for her bi-polar disorder. She kept it well hidden until we actually lived together in her house. That’s when the insanity began.

We had pizza one night, and after we finished, she got silent on me. Wouldn’t say a f~~~ing word. After a few hours, she finally spoke, insisting I sleep on the couch. She said we would discuss her “problem” the next day.

This ended up being the “problem” – she was upset because I put a slice of pizza on my plate first instead of her’s after cutting it.

A few weeks later, I was teaching her basic chords on the guitar. One night, she had formed an E minor chord, but insisted it was major. I told her it was incorrect. She said to me “don’t you EVER correct me again. If you do, I will smash this guitar against the entertainment center!” This was a 12 string Taylor. Not cheap by any stretch of the imagination.

This was the proverbial straw that broke the camel’s back for me, and I moved out the next day while she was at work. Later that night, her mom called me to tell me what a coward I was for hurting her daughter. I hung up on her.

About an hour later, I got a call from the ex begging me to come back. She said “we need to just talk and then just f~~~ like rabbits all night.” The idea of even laying a finger on her was nauseating at this point. I told her there was no chance of me getting back together with her. The next thing I know, I heard a gunshot and the phone drop. I damn near had a heart attack. Anyway, after the police made it out to her house, I was told she was fine. She staged a suicide.

This was the only time I ever lived with a woman, and it was most definitely my last.

Aunt Esther: Fred, I'll have you know this body was blessed by Mother Nature!! Fred: Well, too bad your face was cursed by Father Time!

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