The problem with dating after divorce

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  • 2017-10-16 at 7:20 PM#632972
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    Stealth
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    . . . is that women who have been married before are essentially just like your ex. For the most part, they have screwed over their own husbands just like your wife did to you. They’ll mostly side with your ex wife when you mention the hundreds of thousands of dollars she stole from you and how she was physically violent. They’ve been that character. They know how to do it again, and have a proven track record. It’s like dating your ex wife, minus the years of investment you’ve already put in.

    Women who haven’t been married are naïve, with unrealistic fantasies about being married, destined to turn into sociopaths when their womanhood has ripened into full bloom. Then, once again, you’ll end up with a version of your ex wife, with a net energy loss.

    It is problematic either way.

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    2017-10-16 at 7:26 PM#632978
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    Ghost
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    Stealth wrote:

    It is problematic either way.

    Correct. There is no point to dating. It is a complete waste of time, energy and resources.

    2017-10-16 at 8:01 PM#633017
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    Nothing wrong with the title of your thread but wondered if it should just read

    ‘The problem with dating’

    The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

    2017-10-16 at 8:13 PM#633029
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    Russky
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    dating is a degrading ritual for a man

    proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

    2017-10-16 at 8:16 PM#633035
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    Ghost
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    Russky wrote:

    dating is a degrading ritual for a man

    Extremely degrading.

    2017-10-16 at 9:10 PM#633096
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    Sky-O
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    ‘minus the years of investment’

    (quote: above)

    That’s it right there.

    They just don’t understand it and never will.

    Men invest time, effort, energy and money into long term partners.

    But when in a relationship, Pumpkin is just along for the ride.

    Ready to roll on a moment’s whim. Ready to get on a new c~~~ when her tingles get activated. And ready to devalue and discard the previous guy for a new guy.

    They are literally one trick ponies. (AWALT)

    Narcissistic sluts

    2017-10-16 at 9:51 PM#633150
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    Ranger One
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    I guess the trick is to do what I’ve done: invest little time and even less money and still manage to hook someone, at least temporarily. Its been 10 months so far. Truth is, I don’t think I’ve wasted any money or time since everything is 50/50 and we don’t do stuff like eat out all that often, so I’m not burning up money.

    She says she loves me, but I don’t think love is real, and I don’t know if she believes what she says. I don’t feel romantic love for anyone at all anymore. The relationship continues as long as I am not incentivized to leave. I dumped the one gf because she did a s~~~-test on me.

    All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

    2017-10-16 at 10:03 PM#633166
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    If a guy is dating after divorce he hasn’t learned the lesson of divorce.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    2017-10-16 at 11:51 PM#633277
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    MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give
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    Just go for hookups only, dating is dated.

    Never lose sight of what brought you here.

    2017-10-17 at 1:58 AM#633395
    Carnage
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    Dating = problem

    Avoid problem

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    2017-10-17 at 6:06 PM#634220
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    The goal of dating for them is to end up married and taken care of for life. Everything they do is with that goal in mind.

    They look for resources, obtain those resources however possible, and then the host becomes expendable…..

    2017-10-17 at 7:35 PM#634287
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    Atton
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    Moral of the story go and rebuild an old car, better usage of time.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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