So, my older brother has had this infatuation with a girl at his job. For a little context, we both were raised as traditional conservatives and Roman Catholics with an emphasis on family values; this means that we tend to look for women that match those values (needless to say, this wipes out practically all of the dating market). Just because this girl eats a home made lunch every day, is going back into school (probably because she picked a s~~~ major before), and takes care of her younger brothers he feels like she is a good enough person to date.
I have tried to show him that even though she “believes in family values” and also is religious, she is just as bad as any of the college floozies you can find on any campus. My evidence is as follows:
1. “Now isn’t the time to look for Mr. Right”. My brother heard her say this when she was talking with her friends on Friday while they were talking about bar plans. This is a pretty damning quote from the horse’s mouth. It pretty much sums up that she isn’t innocent at all and will try to find a beta provider when she finally hits the wall and she is approaching her thirties fast.
2. Her own father admits that she is a terrible nagger. She nags the s~~~ out of my brother and he has been the one doing most of the work on the job. Not only does he do most of the accounting, he also handles inventory, scheduling, meetings, presentations, and even IT. He has even helped her out when she was “sick” and has been pulling the rest of her shift while she is going back into school. That’s a bad sign because she is going to keep nagging him to do all the work.
3. Her friends are the spitting image of an entitled woman that uses their sick leave to have an extra vacation, drinks on the job, parties hard every Friday and comes back to work looking like s~~~, and sleeps around until the time they have to settle down. The company she keeps is a pretty good indicator of who she is.
Anyway, lately, she has been doing some manipulations:
1. She makes sure that her little brother remembers my brother’s name. She is like a single mother that tries to get the kid to bond to the guy she’s interested in so then he feels guilt or responsibility for a kid that isn’t even his. My brother feels like she must talk about him a lot if her brother remembers him. I try to point out that it’s so then he pays more attention to her or bonds with the little brother.
2. She has been making a point of displaying her “faith” lately. Where was all this piety when she was partying with her friends every weekend NOT looking for Mr. Right? I shouldn’t even have to explain how blatantly false this is to my brother, but I have to.
3. Randomly, after the holiday, she decides to give my brother a bunch of comedy movies that he never saw. This wouldn’t be so bad, my brother has given her and the rest of the staff gift cards and stuff, however she sprayed her perfume on the gift bag. She is trying to associate her with the joy he might feel from the comedies or even think about her more.
She has been trying the really get into his head lately. Maybe it’s because she is reaching thirty pretty soon. Maybe she has “changed”. I know she is bad news, how else can I convince my brother not to fall for this?
The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "Save us!"... and I'll whisper "no."
Samsquanch 2 years, 11 months ago.
