The Economic Basis of Oneitis

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

It has traditionally always been men that have had to:

Work, provide, and dedicate precious time to planning for survival.

When it comes to a woman he is with, (if he is still blue pill) – Once the amount of effort he exerts into working, time consumed and factoring a finite resource known as money, assuming he is not a millionaire. A blue pill man by default, almost has to adhere to a oneitis game plan – Since so much of his time, effort and energy is expended just to secure a female partner:

The majority of men lack the resources and money to pursue and/or provide for multiple women. Especially taking into consideration the amount of time, resources and money just one woman inherently expects a man to invest in her for routine access to her vagina, within the parameters of a charade known as monogamy & ‘love’ – both which are things a woman is incapable of.

In contrast, a woman can have many suitors, orbiters, current sexual partners and men in line waiting for her presence, primarily because absolutely no real effort or expending of money and resources is required of her at any point in time.

So where a man’s options are limited by practical reasons, leaving him by default and as a matter of necessity, following a oneitis course.

Women can have as many men as they can logistically manage in their lives, tearing up their holes and giving them sex, attention and ‘love’.

And in closing, that is why a woman can cheat so easily and even transition to a new relationship with relative ease and quickly:

Because they are never invested in the previous guy / relationship and nothing was required of them with the prior guy. The will inherently always gravitate towards a new relationship based on how they calculate securing a maximum return based on minimal invested and the least amount of reciprocation, or even no reciprocation when and if possible.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

And to add:

That is why I feel there might be a biological (& psychological) tendency for men to suffer from oneitis and the reasons might have roots in male evolutionary biology. In a sense, given all relevant factors – and considering finite resources such as time, money and results from working.

Men, by default are prone to oneitis.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Totally of subject sky, but have you ever given a girl the “dog in a bathtub”?

It’s where you stick both your nuts in her ass.

Named, as such, because it’s as hard to do as keeping a dog in a bathtub

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[Anonymous 18]

Unfortunately I see the key element of Oneitis is on basis of a man accepting his own disposability unless he provides things above and beyond what a woman expects him to do. He ‘earns’ her love and respect essentially paying for it.

Hence the -itis. It is an infection. Of his own self-respect and autonomy.

It is not women’s fault men fall for them emotionally on a scale 1000-folds than any given woman is capable of.

Oneitis worked in 1952, and also when women’s values were artificially inflated by societal norms and patriarchal pressures to keep them in line. Cue: men duelling to their deaths in ancient societies to earn some ‘respectable’ women’s hand in marriage. Like she ever gave a f~~~ but now she gives even less of a f~~~ because she has 3 dicks stuffed in her.

Sky-O wrote:

the amount of time, resources and money just one woman inherently expects a man to invest in her for routine access to her vagina,

Like a woman’s expectations have any basis or validity. The more baggage she collects the more expectations she has. It is not quite real expectations but a sour grape defence mechanism. At 35 she couldn’t land a decent man because her expectations were so high. And yea they are high. Now. But at 20 she spread it like nutella.

[RennieParticipant]

Don’t get stuck in that crap. There is always another better model out there somewhere than the one you are fixated on. ALWAYS.

Never allow yourself to get thinking that there is none like her. Aside from the facade they’re all the same inside.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

I believe society is part of oneitis over anything else. We live in a culture that teaches men to stick with one partner for life and all that true love bulls~~~ so when one c~~~ leaves that destroys men’s plans because they do not think it could happen to them they bought into the true love narrative.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

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