The Awakening/Red Pill IS a PROCESS

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

I started as a complete Blue Pill SIMP, and have a horrible marriage as well as multiple children to attest to this fact.

As my marriage went on, and I was exposed to the REAl Women that became my wife,and I was awakened from my Blue pill HAZE that was Pulled over my eyes/brain.

I went through the Red Pill Rage phase as well as the Peace and Tranquility that sets in after the rage subsides, and I FEALT No F~~~s Given taking over larger and larger chunks of my life.

I used to think that I would probably still want to date when I divorce, but the older I get; I just don’t see the point. I don’t know if I’ll ever Go Monk, but that’s the point is that I DO NOT KNOW.

I will take it as it comes. I will see where this whole PROCESS takes me in TIME.

Whenever, I see a newer member mentioning one day that he was just awakened, and within a very short period of time saying he’s going Monk, I’m ALWAYS a lil concerned that he’s Trying to do WAY to Much to SOON.

I’m NOT saying that he has to continue to be involved with Women, but to make SUCH a HEAVY PROCLOMATION so SOON may make him throw the whole MGTOW thing out the window if he can’t initially stick to the Monk lifestyle.

The “process” is DIFFERENT and Unique for each MAN, but I just don’t see the point of rushing towards the Monk Label.

What do YOU think ?

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[JVBParticipant]

What do I think……?

Hammer, head, nail.
Spot on bro.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 42]

Awakened wrote:

Peace and Tranquility that sets in after the rage subsides

It’s almost heartwarming in such a cold and hostile environment.

Awakened wrote:

I will take it as it comes. I will see where this whole PROCESS takes me in TIME.

Sounds like you have your feet firmly planted in the allotted time at hand, prevents allot of stumbling and injuries. Wisdom at it’s finest!

Awakened wrote:

The “process” is DIFFERENT and Unique for each MAN, but I just don’t see the point of rushing towards the Monk Label, What think YOU ?

My life has been free of all the unpredictable heartache and endless strife found in the modern indoctrinated and brainwashed women.

I’m enjoying true and lasting peace! A gorilla couldn’t pry it from my hands! It’s all I have that’s worth living for!

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Well said Awakened. I do feel bad for you and any guys stuck in that situation. I admire your mental fortitude and endurance. In the latter part of my marriage i felt so alone and sank deep into hopelessness and despair.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Monk living will come to you automatically. After a f~~~ed up relations~~~, you will have so many hidden allergies on woman behavior that the first c~~~ you meet will most likely trigger them. And then your new “relations~~~s” will last only a few days, if not just hours.

Until you had enough.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Anonymous 1]

Awesome post awakened. You are spot on as always.

It is an individual journey and every one of us are at a different point of our unique journey.

I find that age and the multiple bullets I have dodged over the years is incentive enough for me to limit my time and distance from women.

If I was in my 20’s I would find it much harder to at least not to pump and dump. I see two paths in front of me now. One leads to destruction. The other who knows what the future holds.

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

Gargamel wrote:

Monk living will come to you automatically. After a f~~~ed up relations~~~, you will have so many hidden allergies on woman behavior that the first c~~~ you meet will most likely trigger them. And then your new “relations~~~s” will last only a few days, if not just hours.

Until you had enough.

Some of the best parts of MY DAY are when I’m FREE of OTHER PEOPLE’S NEEDS, WANTS, DESIRES, Expectations ETC. of ME. I am FREE to enjoy the company of a friend, watch an old movie/show, listen to music, use the internet ETC.

The other part that is becoming more INFLUENTIAL in my thought process is actually being FREE of just having someone in the back, or forefront, of my mind that has THEIR OWN AGENDA in relation to ME. Just the whole process of having to do, plan, be involved with another Women on a regular basis takes AWAY from my psychological FREEDOM/PEACE of MIND.

It’s just so damn nice to have LESS and LESS of that with each passing day. I just can’t see after finally breaking FREE to VOLUNTARILY put MYSELF and MY FREEOM in such a position EVER AGAIN.

TIME will TELL, as it DOES with EVERYTHING !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 42]

Trying to match up with modern women for a happy life is like trying to use a vulcanized rubber camshaft in a dragster engine running on ethanol!

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Awakened wrote:

TIME will TELL, as it DOES with EVERYTHING !!

Yes, Awakened when freedom finally sets in, then you will surely fall in love with it and your desire for company might even hit rock bottom.

I was on the forefront and known by thousands of people all over the towns and villages here. They would follow me around and approach me everywhere I went until I almost had to hide whenever I was “off-duty”. Popularity can be challenging and you need to make big bucks in order to stand these drawbacks.

No more privacy for years. And every little thing I did would become the talk of the town.

Then I got sick and have to stay away from society forever now. MCS is incurable. But I don’t miss getting chased all day.

But it was better than lying in bed all day. And I was a proud earner of my own money.

But as time goes by, I realize that if ever I recover I will no longer want a “spotlight” job with “all eyes on me”.

Wood preservatives cause over-irritation of the hearing nerves and that can happen too if you had an annoying family.

Then you want to live in silence forever.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

The “process” is DIFFERENT and Unique for each MAN, but I just don’t see the point of rushing towards the Monk Label.

What do YOU think ?

My experience is somewhat close to what Awakened describes…I too started as a complete Blue Pill SIMP, and have a horrible marriageS to attest to this fact.

I’m still not in full “Monk” mode, but I can safely say I will not marry or live with a woman again in my life. I have a pretty full life with lots of hobbies and interest to keep me engaged. The more I develop in the MGTOW philosophy, the more full Monk appeals to me.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[DocParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Whenever, I see a newer member mentioning one day that he was just awakened, and within a very short period of time saying he’s going Monk, I’m ALWAYS a lil concerned that he’s Trying to do WAY to Much to SOON.

I’m NOT saying that he has to continue to be involved with Women, but to make SUCH a HEAVY PROCLOMATION so SOON may make him throw the whole MGTOW thing out the window if he can’t initially stick to the Monk lifestyle.

What do YOU think ?

I think you have a valid point but I also think that we will lose very few who are genuine MGTOW.
Some will profess Monk, f~~~ someone and rethink. They may tell us. They may not.

But to find the red pill mindset before finding this place I think most will be fairly solid. They may f~~~ about with women but the mindset will be fixed. What drew them this way otherwise.

I think youngster have a harder time being MGTOW. WHAT AN ASK.

I am mightily impressed with those in their 20s who are genuine MGTOW.

But I guess I admire us all.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

Doc wrote:

I am mightily impressed with those in their 20s who are genuine MGTOW

I also think that Many Young Men may bounce around in their “beliefs” just as Young Men should. They are trying on “different” sizes to they see what fits. Some will stay and some will go, but ALL will at least have the seeds planted.

On the plus side, the Daily False Rape Accusations, Increase Number of divorces, Slut Walks, and Tinder Sluts ETC. can definitely turn young Men OFF from the whole “relationship” THING.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

I think youngster have a harder time being MGTOW. WHAT AN ASK.

I am mightily impressed with those in their 20s who are genuine MGTOW.

Would have been damn difficult for me when I was in my 20s. Besides the physical urges, I didn’t have the mindset yet to see through the smoke.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[DocParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

DocDJ wrote:

I am mightily impressed with those in their 20s who are genuine MGTOW

I also think that Many Young Men may bounce around in their “beliefs” just as Young Men should. They are trying on “different” sizes to they see what fits. Some will stay and some will go, but ALL will at least have the seeds planted.

On the plus side, the Daily False Rape Accusations, Increase Number of divorces, Slut Walks, and Tinder Sluts ETC. can definitely turn young Men OFF from the whole “relationship” THING.

Good analysis of the state of affairs Awakened.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[goodkid43Spectator 550]

Awakened wrote:

I started as a complete Blue Pill SIMP, and have a horrible marriage as well as multiple children to attest to this fact.

As my marriage went on, and I was exposed to the REAl Women that became my wife,and I was awakened from my Blue pill HAZE that was Pulled over my eyes/brain.

I went through the Red Pill Rage phase as well as the Peace and Tranquility that sets in after the rage subsides, and I FEALT No F~~~s Given taking over larger and larger chunks of my life.

I used to think that I would probably still want to date when I divorce, but the older I get; I just don’t see the point. I don’t know if I’ll ever Go Monk, but that’s the point is that I DO NOT KNOW.

I will take it as it comes. I will see where this whole PROCESS takes me in TIME.

Whenever, I see a newer member mentioning one day that he was just awakened, and within a very short period of time saying he’s going Monk, I’m ALWAYS a lil concerned that he’s Trying to do WAY to Much to SOON.

I’m NOT saying that he has to continue to be involved with Women, but to make SUCH a HEAVY PROCLOMATION so SOON may make him throw the whole MGTOW thing out the window if he can’t initially stick to the Monk lifestyle.

The “process” is DIFFERENT and Unique for each MAN, but I just don’t see the point of rushing towards the Monk Label.

What do YOU think ?

If one has spent a reasonable length of time on this site, one is presented with the realistic option that living as a single person for life is a real option that contains its challenges and contentment.

A man does not “rush” into this life but rather is able to consider it based on evidence, experience and the suffering of others.

Although you concern is genuine, rushing into this lifestyle does not have the downside for a man that it does for a woman (biological clock).

Your contribution and those of others on this site only confirm many who are considering this lifestyle giving them a confidence that you and I were not given when we were younger.

God bless, Michael

[goodkid43Spectator 550]

Anonymous wrote:

Trying to match up with modern women for a happy life is like trying to use a vulcanized rubber camshaft in a dragster engine running on ethanol!

That engine is a work of engineering art!!!!!

God bless, Michael

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