The Allure of Non-Single Men

[peterfaParticipant 833]

I knew a long time ago that women don’t go for single men, ever. I would walk to the mall with my cute female friend and girls would flirt. Alone, I was invisible.

When I took human sexuality, the highly-feminist female teacher was surprised to hear a woman say that her friends only go for non-single men.

When I was dating my ex, she was obsessed with controlling everything in my life, and was always worried about other women. She knew that women went after taken men, even if only to destroy their relationships. It seems women won’t touch you at all if you are alone, but if you’re not alone, suddenly the bombard you with attention.

I’ve even seen scenarios where all the women were tearing each other down over some stupid guy. I was at a church college age group and these girls were all clamoring for the one guy. I looked at him, nothing in particular. He had no talents, wasn’t wealthy, handsome, intelligent, charm or anything. The only thing he had was that he was kind of a country boy.

One day, this dialogue occurred where one girl had a “dream.” In it “God” reveals her future husband. The man is apparently this Hawaiian man. I asked my gf at the time and she said that that one country boy is Hawaiian. She was telling her friends this, added in another girl had that same dream to affirm it. It was just a super-passive aggressive attack on the other girl (who by the way wasn’t a very nice person either). With total shamelessness she delivered that massive lie.

For those of you who don’t know, this is a church setting, and that woman committed blaspheme. That’s huge. To her, the rules didn’t matter in the least.

It seems there’s a problem with women and single men. I even get asked, “Why have you been single?” The girl qualified her question to say, “I don’t see how a guy as good as you could be single for so long?” So, there must be something wrong with me.

“Where have all the good men gone?” They ask. Well, try your friendzone. I’m sure there are at least 10 there.

Anyways, so what the heck is with it and the lust for non-single men? When someone is alone, the girls ignore him, but when he even looks like there’s something, all the girls storm him like a sale at Payless Shoes.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

About a year ago – I ran a test study. Summer 2014 when I went out to bars with my buddies on weekends. I bought a titanium ring on Amazon.

Five weekend nights without wearing it: was not approached by a woman a single time.

Five weekend nights while wearing it: a total of 11 women approached and started talking to me over the course of five bar runs.

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I also did a separate study on alternate nights.

Wearing a button down shirt: Contact by women – O

Wearing one of my shirts that has a skydiving drop zone logo and/or related skydiving image and content – 15

 

In the case of the wedding ring: Women think if a guy is married that he is prequalified on some level and/or good enough that a woman would want to marry him. Combined with their competitive instinct in terms of wanting what they can’t have.

As far as the skydiving shirts: Two words. . . . . Bad boys.

 

Women are superficial parasites that don’t even know what they want but some kind of warped and twisted internal programming leads them to initiate contact with some guys while ignoring others.

My next test has yet to be funded. I want to walk into a bar with $50 bills taped to my head, body, legs, etc and see how quickly the money hungry, estrogen based parasites start approaching.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I skydived in Europe, but I was told that in US you need to jump at least 10 times with instructor first, before you get the green light to jump by yourself – is that true?

I have no intention of experiencing the most amazing feeling when I have a grown man strapped to my ass – this is the only thing that prevents me from skydiving here

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Russky wrote:

I skydived in Europe, but I was told that in US you need to jump at least 10 times with instructor first, before you get the green light to jump by yourself – is that true?

 

No. Not true.

Some drop zones require that you do two tandems first (at $225 each) before you transition to student jumps so that they can squeeze $450 out of you before your first student jump.

I offered to prepay for my first five student jumps if they let me not do the two required tandems first and it was a win-win for both of us. As a result, I never had to do a tandem and never will.

As far as jumping ‘with’ an instructor first. If you start via the static line method in the US, you will not be with an instructor as the static line pulls the main canopy out. If you start via the AFF method, you will have two instructors on the first three jumps and one instructor on jumps 4 to 7 but he won’t be holding on by jump five.

The static line method of learning costs less than the AFF program.

Sky-O

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Yep, it’s sad isn’t it? I always was told this and always knew this. Women are only interested in guys who are taken.

That tells you something about women’s character, doesn’t it?

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

My ex-fiance would love to go out, she would be all up on me kissing at bars.

Couldn’t tell you the number of women that would gather around us looking for some 3 some action.

I never ventured there. No. Still, I agree.

[Anonymous 42]

Sheezzzesss, so true! So damn true! When I had a married girlfriend, it was like being a rooster in a hen house! Three other married woman approached me, not just approached me, but wanted to have sex with me, I declined at the time because one wife was too many girlfriends, Especially not being married myself! One of these woman I had known for about 15 years. I was shocked at how bold their proposals were, one of them came into my house and went to my bedroom and laid down on my bed and started with sexual innuendos, like how its easy and natural to be with someone, and that she could give her love to anyone she pleases, I freaked out in shock, and felt the same way I did when I stripped in a room full of girls on a dare.

Another time I was with my psychotic high maintenance girlfriend, her girlfriend (I barely knew) chased me down the street yelling “I love you”, I thought to myself, no f~~~ing way! Not two psychotic women, I couldn’t handle it! My mind was pizza slush from the psycho GF. I never was a juggler with women, I chose to be with them one at a time. I could have had more than one GF at a time, but didn’t have the mental capacity.

Now I just live in relative peace, and quiet, I’m not interested in women anymore, I’ve seen how loose they really are! It’s f~~~ed up! I opted out to salvage my sanity, preserve my STD free body, and get on with my life. I give women no signals anymore, however I see them giving me the looks with that thousand c~~~ stare! they’re all branch grabbing monkeys! I’ve become a MGTOW grease pole to these branch grabbing vampire chimps! Not sorry to say, ALL the women I ever been with are AWALT….. I wouldn’t know a unicorn, even if it shoved it’s horn up my ass!

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

It’s called polyamorous behavior.

AKA, a slut, or promiscuous.

This girl in Texas I still talk to on occasion told me how she’d f~~~ my brains out if I ever came back, to which I replied, “Well what if you have a BF?”

She says I’m “polyamorous” so I give my love to whom I choose, and she chooses often.

Nothing like knowing there’s always a good ol all american slut you can bang anytime you want, the downside is, they’re f~~~ing everywhere these days. Not enough of the women you’d want to marry. (Not that I’d ever stick it in this trick, bleeccchhh.)

 

[GrumpyParticipant]

Seems to me it’s a life long s~~~ test.

Nobody wants you, until someone has you. Then others have to see if they can take you away, just for the sake of their ego. If you stay, someone thinks your a loser, if you go… its the same s~~~.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

About 30 years ago, I was living in a rural area of the province and, unless it involved sports or partying, there wasn’t much for an educated person my age to do there.  I eventually began socializing with a group of people, most of which were single women.

 

It turned out that they weren’t particularly interested in me, which baffled me because I thought that a well-educated bachelor might get their attention.  As it turned out, he did, but it wasn’t me.  He was the unofficial leader of that group but, when we started getting together, he admitted that he had a girlfriend.  The latter detail might be the reason that they gave me the cold shoulder; I was unattached.

 

Later, when he finally got engaged to that GF, the sight of them fawning over him was something to behold.  I’m sure they all had itchy crotches when they were in his presence.  I guess the allure of forbidden fruit was hard to resist.

 

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

I agree with Sky-O: Women want to be wanted and they want a man with higher status than themselves. How they choose to classify that standard of “status” typically revolves around what they lacked during childhood (poor women want more money, heavy want fit and attractive, mean want kind). When women see a man with a woman, it puts them on the fast-track/prequalifies them because women believe if he has a man, he must have something going for him. It is kind of funny how the competitive element plays, though. Especially if the woman interested in you feels she is better than the one you are currently with.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

The primitive core of every female’s brain knows it’s less risky and more efficient to poach a mate that’s already been selected by another female than to go looking on her own.  Female birds do it.  Female mammals do it.  Female humans do it.

Where it breaks down for female humans is the long duration pair bond necessary to raise human children; a mate who they can easily poach will be easily poached from them, but the primitive part of their brain hasn’t evolved enough to realize that.

This is one of the reasons why a relatively small segment of the male population get to enjoy the sexual favors of a relatively large segment of the female population.  While their physical, social, and financial attractiveness have an influence on this, it’s not a great as might be thought.  In fact the men themselves are mostly irrelevant.  Women are largely attracted them based solely on the attraction of other women to them.  This is a big motivator behind what we call the c~~~ carousel.

I touched on this behavior in another thread.  There’s a simple experiment to test it that any man can do: buy a used wedding band from a pawn shop and compare how unfamiliar women respond to you while wearing it to how they behave towards you normally.

Don’t expect your opinion of women to be improved by this experiment.

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