That ‘was’ me.

[neutrinoParticipant 25]

Hi.
I’ve always been a playful guy. Had a good job, kept myself in good shape going to gym. Then I met her, and married her. She convinced me to change my job, leave the gym, quit playing soccer. All my friends became bad companions, my only brother a fool I’d better not to talk to. We’ve lost a lot of money trying to buy a house we cannot afford, my job is going really bad.
Now I wake up at 7am, for our 3 children to go to school. Every, *every* morning I think I cannot make another day. I feel sad, tired. I hold on just because of those three wonderful kids. I don’t see any light at the end of my tunnel, maybe because I’m in a well.
MGTOW has been a lucky find. Hope to have some good time here.

Bye!

[Anonymous 42]

Bummer dude. I “don’t” know how you feel. I was lucky to have escaped being bound to a narcissistic self entitled woman. Unfortunately your story is not the rarity, it’s the common denominator in these long wayward times.
Do you have an escape plan? Are you willing to take your chances?

Grabbing the water bucket is all we have to offer, if you do so, I’m sure with the help of others, we can crank the handle to lift you to safety. No man should dwell in deep well of gynocentric hell! Look at you, you’re all wet, shivering, and cold!
That’s the reality of modern marriage, it starts as a wonderful dream, then it turns Freddy Kruegar, and you’re living on Elm St.!

You’ve just taken your first step, the realization of where you are, the rest of your steps are entirely up to you, you can go back through the blue door, or continue opening the red door.

It’s all up to YOU.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome Brother
Sanity reigns here. Classic emotional and manipulative and bullying behaviour by your wife. She is cutting you off from all your support groups and trying to establish herself as your only support. When she has you in her control she will get really demanding. Don’t buy it. Trolling, lying c~~~s get sniffed out and punted off the site real quick. The guys here are a real brotherhood with the occasional barfight.. I assume from you intro that you are still married?

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! The previous posts say it for me.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome Neutrino. First, an extended hand of brotherhood to you. As others have stated, your situation, unfortunately, is not the exception – and I say this not to diminish what you are going through – rather to make you realize you are not to be blamed. You are to be commended for recognizing the value and joy of your children first and foremost. Despite the crazy feminist laws in the western world, those kids are yours forever, no matter what anyone says. I have been married twice. But I was relatively lucky both times. I only had one child (and that was from my first wife) – and she was cooperative in raising our son and demanded very little from me financially. What I have learned from reading countless postings on MGTOW is that women, no matter how well intended they may be CANNOT control or change their basic biology. They run on emotion not logic. This does not bode well for a stable relationship. I can attest to the emotional rollercoaster that is modern marriage. Most would rival the turbulence of any Six Flags thrill. I have been emotionally torn to shreds, questioned my own strength and judgement. But the light at the end of the tunnel is yourself. You will prosper by putting your kids and yourself first. Not her. She is not deserving of a second thought beyond being your kids mother. Best wishes brother and we are here for you.

[neutrinoParticipant 25]

Yep, still married. We live in a house that’s mine, cannot risk to lose it. But my motivation is more complex than that. MG asked if I got a plan: yes. I want to fight. I will not lose my children, my house, whatever, without fight. I started a while ago: she asks to do something, I don’t. No excuses, no explanation. She asks for some help, for some reason I am always “unavailable”. I didn’t buy her a present for xmas, nor for her birthday or wedding anniversary.
I know exactly how to get her mad, and I’ll do. I know she (as any other woman) wants to isolate me from any other living being, as well as trying to cut my freedom away inch by inch. She will not have this the easy way,

Thank you guys.

[neutrinoParticipant 25]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

You will prosper by putting your kids and yourself first

Yep. That’s what is all about. Just, sometimes along the day I feel like I can’t make it.
I have not been officially married before, but I have had another 6 yrs relationship before. One day she decided we couldn’t fit anymore, and leaved. Luckily, there were no kids around, I only lost my car (sounds like a battle report: no casualties, one car destroyed).

Thanks again for your warm welcome.

[AttonParticipant]

Sounds like a pretty tough situation either way welcome.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[HitmanParticipant]

You are not alone. I went my own way when my ex wife took the kid and ran to her mom’s house. .then I got pulled into court and into debt to pay lawyer fee’s. .in 3 tough years I have been able to get back on my feet financially, and see my child every other day of the week, ..now I’m in a “Mexican standoff “..With the ex,got her to be civil (for now )i pay child support like clockwork, and there’s no end in sight for the divorce to be done with. But I learned to be happier without a crazy lady in the house! With time, perspectives change. Welcome to the inner strength center! .I owe this place and the men here my life.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Welcome Brother.

We can help, or at least give you some moral support.

I have an inkling of what it is like to be in your situation. I was in a situation like that with my kid’s mom, only by the grace of flying spaghetti monster, I didn’t marry her. Just remember, it’s not going to be like this forever. I understand wanting to be there with your kids. Keep in mind, once they know who Daddy is, they don’t forget.

You’re not doing them any favors by showing them how to “soldier on” in a horrid situation. They learn the most by watching the parents behavior. If you’re miserable, they will pick that up, if only on a subconscious level. You have to ask yourself, do you want your kids learning that it’s “normal” to be married and suffering horribly? Guess what their future will look like if that’s what they learn in these formative years?

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Neutrino. Saddened by your story and the way you tell it. Thank you for your honesty. Welcome and we’re glad your happy about finding your way here. Please join in anytime. Good people here.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

welcome pal……..i am determined to never stop playing soccer until my body fails.

enjoy the forums, enjoy the website

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 29]

Welcome.

[Elijah BaleyParticipant 3]

Anonymous wrote:

Now I wake up at 7am, for our 3 children to go to school. Every, *every* morning I think I cannot make another day. I feel sad, tired. I hold on just because of those three wonderful kids. I don’t see any light at the end of my tunnel, maybe because I’m in a well.

Hi there.
I’m similar positition. I Wake up 6.50 every morning to take a 40′ walking around the city to leave children in 2 different school and be at 9.00 on the office. Is hard, a lot. I miss a lot when I played videogames till midnight or take a very slowly breakfast in front of my computer.
Only I can think is that all this is provisional and with time I will be “more free” to waste my time.
Hope you too.

ps sorry my english

[Anonymous 42]

Elijah Baley wrote:

MG-ɹǝʍo┴ wrote:

Now I wake up at 7am, for our 3 children to go to school. Every, *every* morning I think I cannot make another day. I feel sad, tired. I hold on just because of those three wonderful kids. I don’t see any light at the end of my tunnel, maybe because I’m in a well.

I didn’t say that! if that were true, someone hand me a loaded shotgun!

[Elijah BaleyParticipant 3]

Sorry MG-ɹǝʍo┴, I don’t know why ‘quote’ has written your nick! sorry again

[Anonymous 42]

No apology necessary Elijah, I like to joke around, I couldn’t pass it up.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Wow you.in deep s~~~ there my friend seems to.me she want to control.you.thats not good

[Anonymous 5]

Fight. Collect as much evidence as you can. Record her abusing you, yelling at you, hitting you etc. Put devices to see her e-mail/text history and pray she is cheating on you. Use that to really f~~~ her over in court.

Keep financial records of every single penny you spend. Keep a paper trail. Always use debit/credit. NEVER withdraw money. You want to PROVE you NEVER spend your money on drugs/alcohol which that C~~~ will accuse you of. That is c~~~ tactic 101 in divorce. The female lies and accuses you of beating her and the kids while drunk.

[DJKevgeezParticipant 141]

Your post makes me want to read your story.

OP start putting things in your brothers name.
So she can’t claim it in court. Do it now.

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