Thankful that I don't have to be around my family this holiday season

[StealthParticipant 5330]

I’ve never seen holidays as an excuse to act any different than maximizing my time like I do every day. This year is no exception, and I’m working through today accomplishing some great things for myself, both personally and professionally.

During my divorce, when my ex-wife was doing her childish best to divorce-rape me and launch a smear campaign, one of my cousins who had just been through the same treatment from his wife used to call me up and we’d laugh about all of our shared experiences—no, actually that’s what one would expect to happen, but actually he would call me up to vent his hatred towards me and tell me what a terrible person I have always been. It didn’t quite make sense, and I felt some level of pity that my wife’s behavior had somehow agitated his psychological problems. That year my family stopped inviting me to holiday events. I took the cue and never made an issue out of it; I have rarely been invited to anything since, and when I have I have not been eager to accept, based on their odd behavior.

With my housemates out of town at their respective Thanksgiving Day parties, it underscores the question to other people why I’m still at home, particularly with my family just thirty minutes up the road. The surface answer is that I wasn’t invited, but the deeper answer is I can honestly say the biggest thing I am thankful for is to not have to be around my family. They are a twisted group, whether by their own free will or natural programming, I don’t care to know. I don’t have many friends, which I’m also thankful for; looking on facebook at all the stupidity that runs through their minds, I’m glad to be clean of it. The close friend or two that I do have presumably are spending the day as they wish, just as I am, and I’m happy for them. I sound like an old retired cermudgen, but truly I am thankful today, no more than every other day, to be free from all the bullshît other people generate, and living my life at high speeds without the trash other people create or themselves are. Cheers.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[MonkParticipant 16979]

Stealth wrote:

… but actually he would call me up to vent his hatred towards me and tell me what a terrible person I have always been. It didn’t quite make sense, and I felt some level of pity that my wife’s behavior had somehow agitated his psychological problems.

I think I see his problem.

His Blue Pill world collapsed. The programming requires him to believe that it’s all his fault. But being a man, he sees facts that contradict this, hence the cognitive dissonance.

Which he then projected on to you.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

My parents are long gone,

I haven’t spoken to any of my siblings or any extended family in at least 17 years. I have also had the fortune to write off the in-laws(outlaws) as well. I can’t say that I miss any of them.

The resident ole hag will be the next to go.

I have some kids kicking around, and it we’ll see how they play out in the long-run.

With my experience with “people” in general, it wouldn’t surprise me if they decide at some point for some reason that we too may have a parting of the ways.

Hopefully, they’ll still be around in some capacity, but that just doesn’t seem to be the way it works with people and ME.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2144]

Close relationships are over rated and the average person is far more toxic than most people care to admit.

Be thankful for your freedom and solitude.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

The Black Scorpion wrote:

Close relationships are over rated and the average person is far more toxic than most people care to admit.

When I think back over my life, it’s painfully obvious, as it probably is with most people, that the BIGGEST Problems that I have encountered all had to do with people.

The equation is simple. Fewer People = Fewer Problems

I’m not saying to become a complete hermit, but be careful about who you lt in and how long you allow them to stay.

When I was young, I gave most the benefit of the doubt, and I paid the price for my naivety.

Now, I do my best to Ghost as much as possible, and I’m not looking for any new “friends”.

I’ve just had enough…..

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[EGParticipant 1851]

I went to dinner at a straight married couple’s house around the corner. They never had kids and they’re sort-of beatnik-type people. Altogether there were around ten people for dinner with much imbibing and good times. My family was just across the river and I was invited by them, and this the first year I’ve turned them down in favor of friends. I have no regrets. Today was great fun and the food was top-notch. I brought the pasta dish.

My neighborhood bully was there. She’s one of these feminist SJW types and we’ve butted heads in a big way before, at this same couple’s house. She has since been declawed by the hosts because it turns out I’m not the only person she likes to attack publicly in the neighborhood, and her karma is coming back around. Today was a test, and we both passed. I’d call it a truce.

Today I can say I made a good choice.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9541]

I wish I didn’t go to family this Thanksgiving. Talk about drama and fighting on a large scale. First my dad yelled at me before we left about me eating his snacks and leaving a few dirty dishes in the sink (as if he never does that to me every day). Later while my grandmother was making dinner and it got crowded in the kitchen, my grandfather and grandmother had a major fight that almost got physical. A lot of screaming and shouting by all my relatives, leaving my grandma in tears. My grandma kept feeling worse, because my bitch aunt and cousins were harping on what happened with my grandpa raising a fist to her and my then my dad said “women!” Then I said to him, “this is why I joined MGTOW.”

So the Thanksgiving I was looking forward to turned out to be the Thanksgiving from Hell; screaming, fighting, blaming, crying, and physical threats all day. So yeah after dealing with Thanksgiving, I’m really looking forward to Christmas now!

Seriously, I wish my best friend and I would have enough money to move out of our parent’s house and get our place together and have a good manly single life together free from women and family. Just us and our man cave house. That’s why I keep trying to win the lottery, because I feel I have better odds of winning a jackpot than landing a job. Every time I try, I fail!

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

EG wrote:

My neighborhood bully was there. She’s one of these feminist SJW types and we’ve butted heads in a big way before, at this same couple’s house. She has since been declawed by the hosts because it turns out I’m not the only person she likes to attack publicly in the neighborhood, and her karma is coming back around. Today was a test, and we both passed. I’d call it a truce.

Manipulators gonna manipulate. She’s playing for the long hual. Never let your guard down. She’s plotting and using anything you did or said against you, or she’ll just make it up. If they can do it to Kavanaugh, they can do it to you. Be careful.

ResidentEvil7 wrote:

That’s why I keep trying to win the lottery, because I feel I have better odds of winning a jackpot than landing a job. Every time I try, I fail!

Why can’t you get a job? What is your specialty?

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3758]

Great topic, Stealth. Thanks to everyone who contributed.

I am also truly grateful for the empty home I come to every night. I’m glad I cut all ties with everyone.

It is really the way to go for me.

There are a couple coworkers for whom I have great respect and whom I could call “friends” but other than that, I don’t let anyone in my life. So much more peace now.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

The equation is simple. Fewer People = Fewer Problems

We are of the same mind. I no longer actively pursue friendships. As ‘friends’ move away and/or die off, I have no interest in replacing them. I have a couple of long distance true friends that I still maintain contact with and that is well enough for me…

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

I am almost certain that in the future? Thanksgiving is going to be an entire comercial event. And for the better if you ask me. Seems to many people get shafted with cooking or cleaning. Might be nice to just have it all done for you.

People seem to act better when they are around others. Seems odd. But I think some people just forgot what it is all about. That, or folks kind of forgot how lucky they are to have a family. Or people around. Its a shame really.

Seems it would be best to have a person that comes over to act like a mom or women, and be the spirit that people should have.

I guess they kind of killed all the happy people. That’s my take on it.

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[EGParticipant 1851]

Sandals wrote:

EG wrote:
My neighborhood bully was there. She’s one of these feminist SJW types and we’ve butted heads in a big way before, at this same couple’s house. She has since been declawed by the hosts because it turns out I’m not the only person she likes to attack publicly in the neighborhood, and her karma is coming back around. Today was a test, and we both passed. I’d call it a truce.

Manipulators gonna manipulate. She’s playing for the long hual. Never let your guard down. She’s plotting and using anything you did or said against you, or she’ll just make it up. If they can do it to Kavanaugh, they can do it to you. Be careful.

Oh no no! I made sure to never be alone in a room with her. But one other interesting thing did happen at the bar with everyone gathered around: the present females began interrogating me about whether I ever had sex with a woman. I did: one woman one time, back in college. Then the conversation turned toward my dating situation in college and for some reason they couldn’t understand that I only dated that one woman and then kept to myself till I came out. This answer didn’t satisfy them, so they kept pressing. And I kept reiterating the same thing. Yes there were prying women there, but she wasn’t one of them. She was trying her best to be good so she would continue getting invited back. But yes I have my eye on her. She’s certainly a bitch.

[MonkParticipant 16979]

EG wrote:

… the present females began interrogating me about whether I ever had sex with a woman. I did: one woman one time, back in college. Then the conversation turned toward my dating situation in college and for some reason they couldn’t understand that I only dated that one woman and then kept to myself till I came out. This answer didn’t satisfy them, so they kept pressing.

The worst of it is that they simply had no idea of how offensive their behaviour was. The upside is that the presence of a man with no interest in vagina clearly unsettled them.

I’m sure we can all picture what would have happened if a group of men had surrounded a female in a bar and subjected her to this.

[EGParticipant 1851]

Monk wrote:

EG wrote:

… the present females began interrogating me about whether I ever had sex with a woman. I did: one woman one time, back in college. Then the conversation turned toward my dating situation in college and for some reason they couldn’t understand that I only dated that one woman and then kept to myself till I came out. This answer didn’t satisfy them, so they kept pressing.

The worst of it is that they simply had no idea of how offensive their behaviour was. The upside is that the presence of a man with no interest in vagina clearly unsettled them.
I’m sure we can all picture what would have happened if a group of men had surrounded a female in a bar and subjected her to this.

Another upside is that I only represent one of TWO men taken out of circulation if I ever meet MY match. Believe me, they know this. 😉 Incidentally, the woman interrogating me was a single mom who was very open about the fact she’s husband-hunting. I took it in stride. It’s not the first time I’ve been exposed to this line of questioning.

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