Thank you?

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

I’ve been sifting through the burnt ashes of my few long term relationships. Yes, I’m that bored. What I’ve realized is how easy it would’ve been for the woman in each case to have kept me.

In every situation I was the bread winner. I treated them well. I always stayed loyal and rarely ever had arguments with any of them.

The one thing I never heard from any of them was a genuine “thank you”

Sure, I’ve heard the OMG! Thank you!! When she would get a gift. However, a simple, no strings attached, no gift given, genuine thank you for what you do every day, has never been said.

The only logical explanation is. They’re NOT THANKFUL. What you do is expected. It is expected today, it will be tomorrow and she assumes for as long as she wants. No thanks needed, she’s allowing you to serve her. You should be honored.

Well, I WASN’T

I was dishonored.

I can’t be the only guy to look back and consider this.

Has the bar been lowered so low that achieving Unicorn status is a genuine thank you? For me it would’ve mattered. It would’ve been remembered! If she handed me a cold beer with the thank you, I’d have walked on water that day. I have to shake my head and laugh at how simple it really would’ve been for any of them.

I’m better off how things worked out. They certainly aren’t. No genuine thanks? Then you’re genuinely NOT WELCOME!

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Simply Stated; Most Women are Cold, Ungrateful, Useless, Lying, Greedy, Gold Diggin, Bitchin, HO’S Most of their waking hours (IE: 95 – 99 % of the time).

I’m guessing I probably left out a couple/few dozen adjectives that could describe the average cupcake.

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[WPLParticipant 2390]

Your experience is the same as mine. There’s a certain progression: you do something for them; they begin to take it for granted; soon after that, it’s expected and if you don’t do it, they’ll resent you. Never any thanks. No appreciation of sacrifice. Just more demands.

My ex-wife actually got upset when I told her that I expected to be appreciated for supporting her lazy ass. Just an occasional spoken “thank you” would have been enough… I’d already given up on getting laid; a “thank you” was — literally — the only thing I wanted.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I’ve said it another way: My only requirement for dating a woman is that she must be a nice person. A nice person, by the way, would do exactly what you said.

A nice person doesn’t stir up s~~~ just to watch it fly. A nice person would be thankful for what you do, the same way you are thankful for what she does. A nice person won’t bust your b~~~~ because you didn’t vacuum the stairs the right way or fold the towels the right way.

Yup. My only requirement is for a woman to be nice. I expect to die a single man.

Order the good wine

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

TaxGuy wrote:

Yup. My only requirement is for a woman to be nice. I expect to die a single man

It’s VERY POSSIBLE to “date” a “nice women”, but it’s impossible to marry one.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 54]

Women are simply not capeable of gratatude. You will go insane waiting for it to happen.

You felt “Dishonord” because Honor is a Male concept.

Ive helpded guys out, and you get a look right in your eye, and a firm handshake and a thank you, almost with tears in their eyes.

Never waste your good efforts on women.

[Anonymous 13]

Trapper wrote:

The one thing I never heard from any of them was a genuine “thank you”

Sure, I’ve heard the OMG! Thank you!! When she would get a gift. However, a simple, no strings attached, no gift given, genuine thank you for what you do every day, has never been said.

The only logical explanation is. They’re NOT THANKFUL. What you do is expected. It is expected today, it will be tomorrow and she assumes for as long as she wants. No thanks needed, she’s allowing you to serve her. You should be honored.

Well, I WASN’T

I was dishonored.

I can’t be the only guy to look back and consider this.

Has the bar been lowered so low that achieving Unicorn status is a genuine thank you? For me it would’ve mattered. It would’ve been remembered! If she handed me a cold beer with the thank you, I’d have walked on water that day. I have to shake my head and laugh at how simple it really would’ve been for any of them.

I’m better off how things worked out. They certainly aren’t. No genuine thanks? Then you’re genuinely NOT WELCOME!

This ABSOF~~~INLUTELY!

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Anymore I would never let a relationship go this far.

I’ve preemptively stopped giving anything for them to be thankful for. Problem solved.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Women don’t give thanks, we don’t give f~~~s. -MGTOW in a nutshell.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Thank you?

I guess a momentary pause in the incessant bitching is about as good as it gets…

[Anonymous 18]

In my uber magina days I was with a single mother of 2 kids. She orders pizza and unbeknownst to me devoured it with her kids up on its arrival. However, she did leave some for me.

The same woman expected a man to invest his worth and resources in raising another man’s sperm.

Women are selfish. But you can’t hate children for what they are.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Trapper wrote:

I’ve been sifting through the burnt ashes of my few long term relationships. Yes, I’m that bored. What I’ve realized is how easy it would’ve been for the woman in each case to have kept me.

In every situation I was the bread winner. I treated them well. I always stayed loyal and rarely ever had arguments with any of them.

The one thing I never heard from any of them was a genuine “thank you”

Sure, I’ve heard the OMG! Thank you!! When she would get a gift. However, a simple, no strings attached, no gift given, genuine thank you for what you do every day, has never been said.

The only logical explanation is. They’re NOT THANKFUL. What you do is expected. It is expected today, it will be tomorrow and she assumes for as long as she wants. No thanks needed, she’s allowing you to serve her. You should be honored.

Well, I WASN’T

I was dishonored.

I can’t be the only guy to look back and consider this.

Has the bar been lowered so low that achieving Unicorn status is a genuine thank you? For me it would’ve mattered. It would’ve been remembered! If she handed me a cold beer with the thank you, I’d have walked on water that day. I have to shake my head and laugh at how simple it really would’ve been for any of them.

I’m better off how things worked out. They certainly aren’t. No genuine thanks? Then you’re genuinely NOT WELCOME!

I know a few women in relationships who genuinely ARE grateful, but they’re such a small amount of women it doesn’t even register on the radar. Good luck finding these types. And even more to the point, there’s some women who ARE grateful, but still end up using guys for s~~~.

[Anonymous 42]

I’m thankful to me, mostly for abstaining from temptation every time it arose! It’s easy to say never again but when you’re in the fires of temptation it’s another thing to do never again!

Women present themselves as someone delightful but in the end they’re very unpleasant to be around, so I skip over all the bulls~~~ and go straight for the bitter separation without the chain of bitter events ever taking place.

Something I learned from Mizzzzz Parkins; just skip school and there’s no more Mizzzzzz Parkins and all her hate inspired bulls~~~!

Same thing with marriage, commitment, cohabitation, and dating. Skip it all and there’s no more bulls~~~!

[joetechParticipant]

The only thing I’ve ever seen women appreciate are shoe sales and coupons. Oh yeah, and diamonds…that’ll shut her up…for a while.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[GeraldParticipant 3628]

The thank you’d came for my relationship too late. She began thanking me when she determined it was over, in a effort to keep me. I am still there but not because of them, because I am too broke to leave and not prepared, but she thinks they have done some good. Actions not words show how thankful they are. They are not at all.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Gerald wrote:

The thank you’d came for my relationship too late. She began thanking me when she determined it was over, in a effort to keep me. I am still there but not because of them, because I am too broke to leave and not prepared, but she thinks they have done some good. Actions not words show how thankful they are. They are not at all.

You would think with all the LYING that women do that they would actually get better at it. Instead, after sharing with you her “true’ side that “it was over”, she quickly tries to cover up the truth with more Lies in the form of empty thank-you’s.

You are correct, after assimilation of the red pill, Men KNOW ALL WOMEN LIE, and only judge them by their actions which ALWAYS show THEIR TRUE COLORS !!

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[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Saying thank you is a sign of contentment, appreciation and understanding.

Easy to see now why it’s so difficult for them.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Trapper wrote:

Saying thank you is a sign of contentment, appreciation and understanding.

Easy to see now why it’s so difficult for them.

This post just keeps spinning more and more Red Pill Truths !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Great topic.

Trapper wrote:

For me it would’ve mattered. It would’ve been remembered! If she handed me a cold beer with the thank you, I’d have walked on water that day. I have to shake my head and laugh at how simple it really would’ve been for any of them.

That’s actually a big problem.

Men are “too impressed” by even the smallest gestures, and this is dangerous to him as well. I remember a man speaking about how he was considering going back to an ex because she was “the only women who ever looked at him like that”.

All she has to do is bat her eyelashes a certain way, and he contemplates signing a marriage contract for that? THAT separates her from other women?? A coy smile and cute expression is reason enough to sweep her off into his future??? Is that the BEST he has to say about her?? She LOOKED at him a certain way???

No.

Women have lowered the bar SO LOW, that basic decency and not gazing at her phone every 5 minutes is something to be “impressed” by or thankful for. And since women stand there with their arms folded looking at men while saying “I’m not impressed”, men can probably afford to do more of that themselves. 1000 TIMES MORE OF IT.

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I aonce said I would have a heart attack and die on the spot if she ever asked “is there anything I can do for YOU?” . . . after I entertained and spoiled her and all I really received was “what have you done for me lately”. And thats’ why we broke it OFF. More demands is not NEARLY enough to keep us together.

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Pop Quiz

Back in 2008 a women stayed with me for 4 days. I went off to work while she lounged poolside all day. I chauffeured her around to and from them airport. Took 2 days off to be the perfect host. Made and paid for all meals. Scheduled events, bought tickets, took her out, and really showed her good time wile she was in town.

When I came home early she had made the bed , vacuumed, emptied the dishwasher, and done TWO loads of laundry and had folded my socks underwear.

“WOW!!!” I said and dropped my bag , stunned.

But WHY?

Isn’t that the LEAST she could do? Load and press a couple of buttons on an appliance and do something useful while watching a movie that I preset for her incase she was “bored”? Isn’t that minimal expectation from a guest in my home?

IT WAS A BIG MISTAKE TO BE SO IMPRESSED.
In doing so, I had now lowered the bar for her, too.
That’s all she THINKS she now needs to do.

I should have walked in, looked around, silently nodded and said “good”.

Trapper wrote:

I have to shake my head and laugh

It really isn’t funny at all. It’s SAD what men consider extraordinary or memorable female behavior to be a glass of water handed to you, and a “thank you”. Just because other women wouldn’t . . . . is not a reason to be impressed by one who does.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 43]

trapper, I was right there in the same canoe as you…treated everyone well, did s~~~ for everyone, and never got a thank you. got surprise divorce

f~~~em all to hell!

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