Temptation to 'Catch Up' and Relapse

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

This is just a simple suggestion, you can take it or leave it however you choose.

Try and remember, every nasty thing she has ever said to you, and try and remember the times she humiliated you, made you feel less than a man, or said things that were just down right hurtful and f~~~ed up (let’s face it, all women have).

Now write it all down, it doesn’t have to be all within an hour, it can be day by day. You can be at subway munching on a sandwich then all of a sudden, *BOOM* some f~~~ed up memory pops back in your head, write it down on your cell phone note pad, then write all that s~~~ down on paper. You need to have a visual confirmation as to WHY you’re not with her, and WHY it’s not healthy and WHY the relations~~~ is dead and needed to die.

The mind has this f~~~ed up part where it sometimes wants to return to it’s abuser. it’s Stockholm syndrome Bud, take it from me i was in an abusive relationship, and i tried to justify her abuse towards me as “My Fault”. BULLS~~~, i had to wake up and smell the fresh coffee and say nope, i gotta get outta here.

Listen, there is nothing wrong with holding on to good memories of your past with your ex. Hell, as f~~~ed up as my ex was, we had some funny and fun times that i will always cherish and smile. However!, i can’t erase the fact that there was this dark side, and very evil side to her that i will and never will forget.

when you write things down, it sort of validates on WHY you shouldn’t return, and it also helps you move on. Now, write down the awesome and positive things that have happened to you since you left you her, like for example your FREEDOM, your peace of mind, the ability to go where you want whenever the f~~~ you want!.

Wish you all the best. and please DO NOT GO BACK!!!.

Cheers.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Anonymous 13]

Never go back to what broke you.

[TicParticipant 4329]

There’s no going back. Unless you want to be f~~~ed over again. As the godfather said with a slap across the face, “you can act like a man.” Go your own way, bro. Seriously. Be strong.

God bless peace and freedom.

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