Teach them Young

[narwhalParticipant]

So I have an ex-step son who’s 16, a sophomore in High School. I found out a couple weeks ago that a senior girl had invited him to the Prom (A dance for seniors only, unless a senior invites you). I asked a few more questions. This was sort of an ‘as friend’ situation. The girl didn’t want to risk not having a date so she asked someone safe, a friend. And of course, he was asked to chip to all the various costs.

I found out last week, that said girl had changed her mind. Apparently a senior guy asked and accepted. She did ask my son if he was ok with that and he was. “It was getting too expensive and stressful anyways”. I made sure he understood that I supported his thought process on the matter.

He then told that he and this girl went to go see a move together…as friends. She asked him, and they met at the theatre. Once they got there, she told him she had some ‘bills to pay’ and asked if he could cover her. He agreed. Then she asked for drinks and popcorn. He said yes. Then she asked for ice cream afterwards and he said no.

So I sat down with him and my other two kids and made sure they understood how messed up that is. I mostly just asked questions. I asked my daughter to promise me she would never do what this girl just did to her brother. it was not at all hard to see when it’s brought to light. I told my ex-step son that if he does anything with this girl again, he needs to insist she pays his way.

It was pretty clear that my ex-step son knew it was messed up, but didn’t want to admit it since he’s been told that’s how it works. They need to know. You don’t even need to tell them what to fear when their older, just how to deal with life right now. Teach them to ask questions and think for themselves, and they’ll figure it out.

Ok. Then do it.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5639]

My son is also 16 and a sophomore. He’s the alpha and already knows what it’s about. It’s his way or the highway and these girls that are talking to him know it. He at best might split the cost with a girl. One of the girls asked me if I thought that was right. I told her she was lucky he was even doing that. She had a horrified look on her face when I said that to her. I got a call from her mother the next day. Go figure, huh?

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Sons need to be re-educated all the time because the gynocentric system is out to weaken them mentally and the feminists and gold-diggers are the pawns.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

It sounds like your step son has a good head on his shoulders. I’ve noticed that women who are older than their man (even if only by a year) seem to think they can do what they want, and the man should appreciate the fact that he is with an older woman. Ones who are younger than their man act that way too. But the few that have been a year or two older than me have been vile about it.

Good to know your step son got a dose of red pills at 16.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

My two (teen-aged) nephews see the same thing.
A girl asks them out “as friends”, and then expects them to pay for both of them.
After some questioning, both of them confirmed that every time, the girl would say “just as friends”, or “not a real date”, and then shames/guilts them into paying for everything.
I told both of them “The next time a girl tries that s~~~, LAUGH AT THEM and say NO!”

One a similar note, the older nephew now has a car.
He would tell me how girls would call him so they could ride to the mall, or the next town’s water park, etc, etc, and then ditch him for some other boys that they had already lined up.
I told him “The next time they they try that, LEAVE THEM THERE!”
He asks “But how would they get home?”
I said “First, they’ll call you, but after you LAUGH AT THEM, they will call another sucker.”

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Its a good lesson learned young when it only cost a few bucks for a movie and some snacks compared to learning it when older when it could have been much more damaging and expensive.

[gpnraanParticipant 100]

@narwhal: Next time, tell him to check out MGTOW.

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