Struggling with oneitis

[Anonymous 0]

My girlfriend and I brokeup almost 2 months ago, and that’s when I decided to go monk. It’s not been too difficult so far. Usually if I start to feel the absence of a woman in my life, I rub one out and I’m fine. But the last couple days, I’m missing not just sex, but hanging out with her. I missed the conversations we had that I could connect with her unlike any other person, woman or man. I’m not sure how to deal with it. I feel like contacting her again, so we can hang out again, and of course I want to f~~~ her.

I’ve been avoiding women since we broke up. I don’t think sex with another woman is going to help, and I’m not that interested in having sex with another woman anyways.

Thoughts? Comments?

[ghostParticipant]

You need more time. Be patient. You will come out of this. Believe me.

Enjoy your own company and the company of your fellow MGTOW men. Do not attempt to try and talk to women.

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

Anonymous wrote:

I missed the conversations we had that I could connect with her unlike any other person, woman or man.

That is one of the things they do to make you think they are a unicorn. It will end as soon as you get married or make a serious commitment.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

ONE CHANCE, PER PERSON, PER LIFETIME. NO EXCEPTIONS!

Why did you break up? Why couldn’t the two of you make it work the first time?

If you come crawling back to her, she will think she has all the power in the relationship and will torture you with it. It’s just what women do. You need her more than she needs you now.

While you’re thinking about calling her, she has another guy’s dick in her mouth. Sorry to be so crass, but she was probably giving it up the next day. The best way to get over a guy is to get under the next one….a favorite saying for women. I assume for a reason.

I made that mistake once. We ended up getting married. It only cost me about a half million dollars and 15 years of my life to learn the lesson.

One chance, per person, per lifetime. NO exceptions.

Order the good wine

[HermitParticipant]

Why did you break up with her? There must’ve been some bad times or you’d still be together. When you feel like “reconnecting” with her, think about the reasons you broke up, even if and especially if she was the one to end it. Why get burned and go back to be burned again? Maybe you haven’t been burned bad enough……or maybe you just aren’t ready to go your own way……….

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Ok.

Now let go with logic.

You have learned about women nature right?

You say you “connected “ with her…. do you think she conected with you?

How can you create a one side conection?

Learn the truth, it was a dream, you where alone all this time, there was no one by your side, except an hazzard to your life.

You have to accept that you where living in a dream.

Women never connect with men. They don’t understand us or care.
Most women don’t even have emotions, they just imitate them, like me, I have a few emotions I’m incapapble of feeling, I fake them if the social environment requires it.

Why we fake it? Becouse we wanna be “normal”

I repeat MOST WOMEN DO NOT HAVE EMOTIONS.

A lot of us fake some emotions.

Is because is what is supposed to make us humans. DROP YOU HUMANITY.

The truth is a kid today will be dead in 80. To universe, time, is all the same if he dies today or in 100 years

Just stop caring about insignificant and stupid things.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[ghostParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

While you’re thinking about calling her, she has another guy’s dick in her mouth.

Guaranteed.

[Anonymous 7]

My last ex I was with over a decade, and I thought I had hit the jackpot.

Everything was fantastic for about five or six years. She learned to scuba dive so we could be together on adventures. She got outfitted with camping and backpacking gear by me to hangout more. Rock climbing too. She decided to get into adventure racing with me. We would go antique shopping. Out to dinner. Watch movies together. Take road trips. Cook together. On and on.

I really miss that stuff with her!

It took quite some time for me to figure out, but she is not that person.

Females are really good at sales and marketing. Look how they dress. See the actions they take. They are so good that you will believe it.

I remember what brought me here. You should too.

She will not respect you if you contact her. To her, you will be even less of a man in her eyes.

She needs to understand you have bigger and better things going on, and not that some poor sap isn’t able to be strong enough to pull himself up out of the muck.

Are you the type that wants her to know you can’t survive without her – she has to do for you what mommy used to? This is how she will perceive the situation.

It all sounds so petty, but that is how they think and act. Remove yourself from the bulls~~~.

[Anonymous 42]

Let that which is broken stay broken. You’ll only go round and round again and again until finally you let broken stay broken forever.

1 woman, 1 chance, 1 lifetime. —(Keymaster)

Tear out the heartstrings and move on…

[DocParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

My girlfriend and I brokeup almost 2 months ago, and that’s when I decided to go monk. It’s not been too difficult so far. Usually if I start to feel the absence of a woman in my life, I rub one out and I’m fine. But the last couple days, I’m missing not just sex, but hanging out with her. I missed the conversations we had that I could connect with her unlike any other person, woman or man. I’m not sure how to deal with it. I feel like contacting her again, so we can hang out again, and of course I want to f~~~ her.

I’ve been avoiding women since we broke up. I don’t think sex with another woman is going to help, and I’m not that interested in having sex with another woman anyways.

Thoughts? Comments?

Did you break up with her or did she break up with you?

Search inside and ask yourself what exactly are you missing. Is it actually HER or are you missing the company of a woman you find attractive.
Naturally she is going to leave a gap but it does get easy.
My wife bailed on me. Broke my heart at the time but I am better than I was.

Another thing to ask yourself – is your mind filtering out all the s~~~ that went on?
In other words are you being unconsciously selective in what you remember about your time together.

Also ask yourself what would happen if you called her?
If she broke up with you you will only reduce your attractiveness by chasing.
Just don’t chase.
Hang out with us as often as you can.
Get your reality checks here.
TAKE YOUR TIME AND THINK THINGS THROUGH.
Good luck My friend.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

You’ll only go round and round again and again.

Totally true. It’s never worked in my life and I’m 62 years old.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

I feel like contacting her again, so we can hang out again, and of course I want to f~~~ her.

Personally, I’m not trying to achieve some purity award. I have a few female friends. I may like an individual woman…but I can still see times they act like a c~~~ to some man in their life. Thing is, I’m not that man, and I don’t suffer from the c~~~ attack. Because I don’t have a romantic/physical relationship and I don’t live in the same house. So…what is it…

…do you miss her and want to hang out with her occasionally cause you like to talk?

…or do you miss her, want to have a physical relationship with her and hang out all the time, as in live together or spend a lot of your non- work time together?

If fit in to the former, as females are half the world’s population, I’m bound to meet one or two I may develop a friendship with.

I don’t do the latter (have sex or live together) and if you do I predict you have simply jumped right back in and should expect the usual pussy whipped results.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

They do connect with men. Not the way men connect with them.

They connect to our resources. Our energy. Whats yours becomes theirs. You become an accessory for them.

Oh hell yes, they connect to us. Same word, way different definition.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Going Monk IS a BIG STEP, and you should probable EASE yourself into it.

Trying to do it fresh off a break up may be to much to handle, and could send ya running back to the plantation.

Missing your ex is a natural part of letting go, but YOU WILL HAVE A BETTER LIFE WITHOUT HER IN IT !!

Keep Assimilating Red Pills !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Carnage wrote:

Women never connect with men. They don’t understand us or care.
Most women don’t even have emotions, they just imitate them, like me, I have a few emotions I’m incapapble of feeling, I fake them if the social environment requires it.

Why we fake it? Becouse we wanna be “normal”

I repeat MOST WOMEN DO NOT HAVE EMOTIONS.

A lot of us fake some emotions.

Is because is what is supposed to make us humans. DROP YOU HUMANITY.

The truth is a kid today will be dead in 80. To universe, time, is all the same if he dies today or in 100 years

Just stop caring about insignificant and stupid things.

I have to agree; women don’t have positive emotions towards men, greed is their most genuine emotion.

Carnage sounds a lot like me, except that I spent most of a year training myself to not have most emotions. I am incapable of falling in love with any female now.

I recognize what females really are and that romantic love is a delusion. My girlfriend claims she loves me. I figure she is either deluded or lying. I don’t feel or love.

I simply choose to be with her for now because it is not having a negative impact on me. As soon as she seems to be a net negative on me, I’ll dump her.

GenXRex: the closeness you felt with her was an illusion. Think of Plato’s Allegory of the Cave. You might consider doing something like banging 3 or 4 different women with in a couple weeks like I did when my ex left. Its just a biological function, like eating and s~~~ting.

Where I’m at now, in a relationship: *I* am the Cave in Plato’s Allegory. She projects her emotions or what she thinks she feels onto me. I just reflect back what she projects, so that I fit in. It doesn’t matter to her that I feel nothing, because she thinks that I do feel something. I AM the Cave.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 12]

This is a simple one.
Answer me this:

What are the reasons you punted her?

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Just keep taking red pills daily, that oneitis will clear up soon enough.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[ghostParticipant]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Just keep taking red pills daily, that oneitis will clear up soon enough.

Dr. Scarberian offers some sound advice here. His signature is also one of the best quotes you will ever read.

[MaddladParticipant 765]

Its natural to feel that way mate, but its just missing company and rose coloured glasses. Go out and find yourself some new hobbies that take up your time and if possible improve you as a person or your life.

We’ve all been through it, and it gets better if you keep working at it. Find good company that enjoy similar things, especially males who wont give you grief like women will. Good luck. 🙂

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

ghost wrote:

ScarberianMGTOW wrote:

Just keep taking red pills daily, that oneitis will clear up soon enough.

Dr. Scarberian offers some sound advice here. His signature is also one of the best quotes you will ever read.

Thanks, Gambit! Couldn’t have come up with it without you guys.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

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