Struggling today guys… for those in the same boat, stay strong

[GeraldParticipant 3628]

Out here in the world today, struggling a bit to keep it together and not blow up at everyone. Events in the past few days, under the new light of being ‘unplugged’ have really shown me true colors… and I’m p~~~ed. I know it is the rage phase, and I know it will get better.

I am holding my own, being as stoic as possible… but wanted to let those of you starting this journey know… it is tough, and though I don’t know how it will end… I’m staying the course. I can’t make a full break yet, but my mind is not where my appearances are…

Hang in there. We weren’t promised anything but the truth… and that truth can be very painful when you are completely ‘plugged in’

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

You to hang in there because you won’t feel the rage one day and you’ll feel at peace with yourself no matter what anyone does with you. My suggestion is to place yourself in an area where you can be alone with your thoughts and think about all the good things have happened to you to get you here. All of us have to hang in every day I just had a blonde haired Uber driver hit on me and I had to say no. This will get easier for all if we stick around and simply say no. It’s pretty easy when you think of Nancy Reagan just say no. It would be really easy to just say no Nancy Reagan

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22522]

The way I look at it is. Society does not want me to be a part of it. No matter the work, I will never get the credit, nor any reward. That will go to someone else.

As such, I have no desire for the hamster wheel.

Instead, I will use my time more constructively. Reading a book, or doing some other hobby. At least I won’t be wasting time doing something I would not like for the benefit of everyone else by myself.

[Anonymous 54]

Hang in there. Just dont let your anger get you in any trouble.

[SunStormParticipant 1277]

Learn to love yourself……..then there will be nothing women can give you….and you will be free.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Gerald you are not alone. I feel this way nearly everyday. We are going against many things that were meant to enslave the male species. They expected us to never see behind the curtain. We were never supposed to know the true nature of women. We were supposed to be blind to subliminal messages in commercials. We were supposed to be ok with corporations putting wear and tear on us each day. We weren’t supposed to notice the mental conditioning, programming us from the toilet bowls of mainstream news, and hollywood. We were never meant to notice the systematic disorganization and chaos combined with childish behaviors surrounding us day and night. We were never meant to wake up to the fact, that the entire system itself, is a system of mental slavery and imprisonment.

All you can do is try to remember that you’re not alone in this struggle, and press on. Each day is an uphill battle, and every last one of us are in a war, trying to break through the lines drawn to keep our minds enslaved. Best of luck.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Just being able to recognize it makes me laugh. Remember grade school when the teacher told you to get in line and be quiet? Well, pretend you are who you are now, only in that little boys body….just walk out the door laughing at her.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Chaff/Flare wrote:

Just being able to recognize it makes me laugh. Remember grade school when the teacher told you to get in line and be quiet? Well, pretend you are who you are now, only in that little boys body….just walk out the door laughing at her.

Exactly all I feel about these things and people now are pity and amusement.

SunStorm wrote:

Learn to love yourself……..then there will be nothing women can give you….and you will be free.

Making yourself your own best friend instead of your worst enemy like most people do will really help you becoming independent and reaching goals.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Anonymous 0]

Gerald wrote:

I am holding my own, being as stoic as possible… but wanted to let those of you starting this journey know… it is tough, and though I don’t know how it will end… I’m staying the course. I can’t make a full break yet, but my mind is not where my appearances are…

If you’re having a hard time, maybe it’s time to reinvent yourself. Need more fun in your life? Drop your current hobbies and recreations and try some new ones. Hit the gym hard this year. Then try scuba diving next year. Then get into hiking and camping the year after that.

Keep it fresh and give yourself new horizons and challenges to look forward to. That’s something you can’t do with a ball and chain around your ankle. You can’t do that with a woman in your life because the women always make your life all about them.

You’re a free man. If you’re not enjoying your life, figure out what you can change that will make it more fun. Reinvent.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

RedTow, I love your curtain analogy. And you’re right, we were never meant to see behind the curtain of female behavior.

As a matter of fact, we weren’t meant to see behind any one of the many curtains that hide the truth of the modern world — a thinking man has many, Santa-is-not-real moments in his life.

And each of those reveals come with it’s own redpill rage that must be internalize. And I’m of the opinion that it’s not so much the truth we have just discovered that causes the rage, but rather the extent to which it’s been hidden from us our entire life.

Hope that helps a bit, Gerald. You’ll get through this, and the next time will be easier.

Cheers!

[HitmanParticipant]

We all have times that can be so tough we wonder if we can survive. .
You can’t lose if you don’t quit.
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Don’t quit!

[Anonymous 18]

Anonymous wrote:

If you’re having a hard time, maybe it’s time to reinvent yourself. Need more fun in your life? Drop your current hobbies and recreations and try some new ones. Hit the gym hard this year. Then try scuba diving next year. Then get into hiking and camping the year after that.

+1

It’s ALWAYS going to be empty and you can very well let yourself consumed by anger, despair, and the obvious alienation that comes along seeing things for what they truly are.

Untangle if you can with what you can live without.

Start afresh. List on things you need/want to work on. Hate yourself (if you must) but START. Today.

Few things along the way-
Throw your TV away. Get physical. Regardless of what it is- move. It will improve your mood.
Finish a task you want to.

Remember there is a chimp inside you that is reacting and being emotional. Your human knows pondering over things one can’t change is a moot point. Instead focus on things you can. It will also help alleviate the useless burden that the chimp concerns itself of which it has no business concerning itself of.

Feeling lonely or amidst selfish women or their white knight slaves – that’s the chimps doing. The human is happy to have unplugged and in the long run avoided erosion of oneself and countless doubts.

Take it one day at a time. At least now it is entirely up to you to direct your ship as you may. You can’t control the sea but you can control pretty much everything else to avoid disaster.

You must have a GOAL. It’s not women or family now – but without a goal you can very well be driven into insanity. Find a purpose that excites you.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Change is not easy, but those feeling will pass.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

I will add some points that are likely not going to be popular.

I have been MGTOW for several years. And the ‘Rage Phase’ can easily be confused with general frustration, anxiety, depression etc etc. I have always been a frustrated person, since I was a young kid even. Going MGTOW is not a promise of being happy, infact it is at best, a likelihood of more peace, and being able to save more money. If you have felt down and out, or frustrated .. for as far back as you can humanly remember .. MGTOW isn’t going to suddenly change that.

Peoples minds work differently on a psychological level. Sometimes the chemical balance is different from others. Some are stronger than others, some can withstand more than others. Don’t believe me ? Ask yourself why 80% – 90% of guys that try out for elite special forces units don’t make it, and only a few do. They all started with the same idea in their mind. That being they would never quit until they reached their goal. But very few ended on the same note.

There is this notion that gets thrown around by some of my fellow MGTOW’s, that once you go your own way, you’re free and happy. The Red Pill Rage will end they say. They are correct, however the Red Pill Rage, is not the same thing, as feeling frustrated with the world since as far back as you can humanly remember.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Antipathy wrote:

I will add some points that are likely not going to be popular.

Not at all. You are 100% right. We are all different. We all react differently. I do believe if you want anger and rage to stop, and admit they control you more, than you control them, you can take steps to educate yourself on emotion control, meditation etc. Granted there are people this will not work on either. Do try though. It’s fight worth fighting. I see how easy it is to go down that black hole with every feminist I meet and I say f~~~ no that won’t be me. I’m taking the high road no matter how steep the climb.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

from my experience, the red pill rage is just a temporary phase.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Clear your mind (workplace/house/body) of everything/anyone that drags you down, stop overthinking about bad stuff, breathe, let it out and concentrate on improving your state of being, relax. Find relaxing things to do while thinking about your goals. Do projects/activity. For me personally – nature/walks in evening, Learning medicine, MTB rides, Friends etc. it all helps. I concentrate on good things, things that bring me joy.

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