Strategy in dealing with women

[fififi89Participant 48]

Hi everyone!

I am a new MGTOW member from Italy.

I wanted to ask you what are your personal strategy, your set of rules in dealing with women.  I know everyone has his own, the one that fit better his person and his experiences, but I think it is valuable for all if we share them.

One example of a rule may be: cut all the contacts with a girl maximum one week after the first time you f~~~ her (this rule is important for me to avoid emotional commitment).

Bye.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I wait for the ‘oh dear’ moment. It could be anything at anytime but I will know it when I hear or see it.

It’s when you’re just going about your day and she does or says something and immediately I think ‘oh dear, that’s it. We’re done.’

From that moment on she’s on borrowed time.

[KeithParticipant 482]

Hmmm, for me, its the very first time I hear any subtle comment that attempts to change or modify my social behavior.  By example, “why do you spend so much time watching baseball (or football, hockey, etc.)”?  In translation, what that really says is:  “Its a waste of time to watch sports when you could be engaged in something much more productive”.  

Another example, is criticizing my dog.  Comments like, “should you really let him sit on the couch?”  Translation:  “he’s a filthy dog that rolls in the dirt and he’s going to ruin the furniture”.  Without commenting on the fact that its my furniture, news flash, the dog lives here, its his furniture too and he can sit on it.  The dog likes baseball, hunting, fishing, driving, swimming and he hangs on every word I say.  He never criticizes me, he thinks I am the smartest man in the world, he brings me dead animals so I will never starve and he’s a good listener.  So no woman should pretend that she can compete with that.

I’m an equalist, I don’t ever ask any female why she shops, gossips, complains, hits parked cars, spends so much time getting ready to go anywhere, etc. because I know the answer, they enjoy it.  They need to understand that I do the things that I like, because I enjoy them.  That should be enough, but its not.

In summary, watch for any attempts to modify hard wired behavior that is our nature.  Its the beginning of the end.

Keith

 

ONCE UPON A TIME there was a man who never found a wife and he lived happily ever after. The End.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

Same with Keith but also when they start talking at me about their lives or whatever drama theyre into etc. the inevitable “Why should I give a f~~~?”

They cant explain why I should care. How they respond to that depends on how much longer I speak to them.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[MrMeParticipant 651]

I am OK with a girl as long as her efforts in the relationship or her commitment to my wellbeing or her financial dedication are equal or greater than my own , for the sake of the relationship.

Simply said, if a girl takes more than she gives I dump her ass in no time. ( this apply to friendship , casual sex and relationship with girls)

[RoyDalParticipant]

Stop way, way before this happens!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[fififi89Participant 48]

ILiveAgain wrote:

I wait for the ‘oh dear’ moment. It could be anything at anytime but I will know it when I hear or see it. It’s when you’re just going about your day and she does or says something and immediately I think ‘oh dear, that’s it. We’re done.’ From that moment on she’s on borrowed time.

What if the “oh dear” moment come after one or two months of good sex? Have you got the strenght to cut brutally the relation?

MrMe wrote:

I am OK with a girl as long as her efforts in the relationship or her commitment to my wellbeing or her financial dedication are equal or greater than my own , for the sake of the relationship. Simply said, if a girl takes more than she gives I dump her ass in no time. ( this apply to friendship , casual sex and relationship with girls)

Same in this case… What if the relation starts well, with her putting more effort than you and then slowly turns into a nightmare relation?

I ask this because it was my case and that of many other men… LTRs usually start very well and then gradually turn to hell. Like the frog in the boiling water you find yourself boiled when it is too late.  After the firsts months of good sex and good relation you don’t have the strenght to cut it when it turn bad and she starts to exploit you, the pattern is always this.

So I decided tu cut relations always at the very beginning even if she seems perfect, not waiting for a signal that can come when it is too late.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I’ve been there and had that. It took many many years for the lessons to sink in ….. but now they have ….. I’m so hypersensitive with signals that my health, sanity and equilibrium will all ring the alarm.

NO wo-man is worth it EVER.

[….Participant 305]

@ Keith…I’m with you on the dog thing…it ‘s hilarious when  women when they find they are below  dogs on our priority list. Maybe if a woman would display the same unconditional love and loyalty of a dog ,  she might move up the list…which means she will never move up the list. More likely they will try to make you get rid of the dog…there is actually a show called “It’s me or the dog”.  I’d LOVE to be asked on that show…my segment would last just long enough to tell her  THAT’S A NO BRAINER” and F~~~ OFF. As for picking up women, dogs might help start a conversation, but I think 99% of women are thinking “can I get him to get rid that dammed animal”?  As they see dogs, they only take money , resources and attention away from  them.

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

Dogs get it. Dogs don’t love unconditionally. If you starve and beat a dog, the dog will fear and resent you. If you feed, walk, and play fetch with your dog, the dog reciprocates with love and loyalty. It’s in the best interest of both parties. Most of us men think that it’s unconditional because we instinctively treat our dogs well. There has been a symbiosis between men and dogs for so long that it’s part of our genetic memory, or something like that.

It’s the reciprocation that threatens women. Men with meaningful reciprocate relationships are just plain harder to manipulate. That equals to higher expectations that the man will have of the woman in order for him to give up any of his money, attention, and resources. Since men also have reciprocate relationships with each other, that’s the same reason that wives tend to drive wedges in between their husbands and their husbands’ bachelor friends.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

When the quality and quantity of sex falls below the degree of pain that I have in my ass from being around this ho bag.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[….Participant 305]

Good point Vector…didn’t think about it like that but like you said, it wouldn’t occur to me to be mean to them…  I have noticed one thing though…many women’s dogs behave like the kids of single moms…usually hyper and out of control.

[HunterParticipant 44]

LOL@ the dog observations because I am the same way!   My dog and I have had 10 happy years together.  He just let himself into my yard one day and decided he would take a swim.   He got out of the water and looked around and must have said to himself “hey, I think this guy needs me, so I’ll stay” and he did.  I have treated him well and he has treated me well.  There is no misbehaving or suspicions, dishonesty or duplicity so he is better than a wife by a light year.

P.S.  We both have had vasectomies and are childless.  LOL

[peterfaParticipant 833]

Just say, “Am I really good enough for you, because I don’t think I am.” Then she has to tell you that you have to prove it, and then you can say, “Do you really think I can prove it,” move moves her back a bit, or just kill it by saying, “No, I certainly am not.”

[hmskl’dParticipant 6413]

Strategy in dealing with women is that I don’t. Haven’t seen one for over a week.

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