I am a new MGTOW member from Italy.

I wanted to ask you what are your personal strategy, your set of rules in dealing with women.  I know everyone has his own, the one that fit better his person and his experiences, but I think it is valuable for all if we share them.

One example of a rule may be: cut all the contacts with a girl maximum one week after the first time you f~~~ her (this rule is important for me to avoid emotional commitment).

Bye.

It’s when you’re just going about your day and she does or says something and immediately I think ‘oh dear, that’s it. We’re done.’

From that moment on she’s on borrowed time.

Another example, is criticizing my dog.  Comments like, “should you really let him sit on the couch?”  Translation:  “he’s a filthy dog that rolls in the dirt and he’s going to ruin the furniture”.  Without commenting on the fact that its my furniture, news flash, the dog lives here, its his furniture too and he can sit on it.  The dog likes baseball, hunting, fishing, driving, swimming and he hangs on every word I say.  He never criticizes me, he thinks I am the smartest man in the world, he brings me dead animals so I will never starve and he’s a good listener.  So no woman should pretend that she can compete with that.

I’m an equalist, I don’t ever ask any female why she shops, gossips, complains, hits parked cars, spends so much time getting ready to go anywhere, etc. because I know the answer, they enjoy it.  They need to understand that I do the things that I like, because I enjoy them.  That should be enough, but its not.

In summary, watch for any attempts to modify hard wired behavior that is our nature.  Its the beginning of the end.

Keith

They cant explain why I should care. How they respond to that depends on how much longer I speak to them.

Simply said, if a girl takes more than she gives I dump her ass in no time. ( this apply to friendship , casual sex and relationship with girls)

I wait for the ‘oh dear’ moment. It could be anything at anytime but I will know it when I hear or see it. It’s when you’re just going about your day and she does or says something and immediately I think ‘oh dear, that’s it. We’re done.’ From that moment on she’s on borrowed time.

What if the “oh dear” moment come after one or two months of good sex? Have you got the strenght to cut brutally the relation?

MrMe wrote:

I am OK with a girl as long as her efforts in the relationship or her commitment to my wellbeing or her financial dedication are equal or greater than my own , for the sake of the relationship. Simply said, if a girl takes more than she gives I dump her ass in no time. ( this apply to friendship , casual sex and relationship with girls)

Same in this case… What if the relation starts well, with her putting more effort than you and then slowly turns into a nightmare relation?

I ask this because it was my case and that of many other men… LTRs usually start very well and then gradually turn to hell. Like the frog in the boiling water you find yourself boiled when it is too late.  After the firsts months of good sex and good relation you don’t have the strenght to cut it when it turn bad and she starts to exploit you, the pattern is always this.

So I decided tu cut relations always at the very beginning even if she seems perfect, not waiting for a signal that can come when it is too late.

NO wo-man is worth it EVER.

It’s the reciprocation that threatens women. Men with meaningful reciprocate relationships are just plain harder to manipulate. That equals to higher expectations that the man will have of the woman in order for him to give up any of his money, attention, and resources. Since men also have reciprocate relationships with each other, that’s the same reason that wives tend to drive wedges in between their husbands and their husbands’ bachelor friends.