Keeping up with the schedule of this month this next contribution was sponsored by Sidecar, our distinct member and most valid contributor.
would you give it a chance?
You give them a chance because you know they’ll fuck it up long before they have an opportunity to screw you. AWALT.
This way their rejection is their fault in a way that you can rub their noses in.
Men who get fucked by women get fucked only after giving them second chances. It’s giving her that second chance that gives her the confidence that she can safely go for his throat.
There is a statement from KM that is a great advice:”one chance, per woman, per lifetime”.
If we think about this, what is the context? It is clear that you give women a chance in the context of a relationship, most likely romantic.
Now, as the quote of our distinct college says, women will always screw up, because its their nature and society encourages them. AWALT! All women are like that.
Like what? For the sake of clarity, and lurker education, I will state what happens: eventually women try to control you with their mind games, or lose their self-control and create drama.
This is a simple statement, with huge implications.
Female nature is predatory, it preys on men. It is not only for resources, but also for services, and emotional security.
As any hunter they set up the bait, and that is looks, sex and emotional validation. That is how women get men.
But, as other hunters, the bait is just to distract the prey, they secure men with psychological weapons or set up traps.
The traps are easy to see. Commitment is the most common, usually based on society contracts like marriage or other relationships, bonding the man through his pledges. The greatest trap is children, that women use with great effectiveness, since men usually sacrifice a lot for their kids.
But the psychological weapons at their disposal are also formidable. They explore the man’s psyche to understand what makes him tick. What does he like, what does the hate, what is his fear. Then they play with words, events, and develop amazingly cunning narratives. The purpose is to weaken the men’s will and security, in order to establish a dependency. They MAKE HIM abandon friend, hobbies, and sometimes family. The is how powerful this weapons are.
I am not talking of extreme examples, but a general mode of operation. The level of success of these strategies depends on the man, on his resilience, his awareness, willpower and experience.
So, what I am saying is that women have this standard mode of operation that will wreak havoc in your life, and possibly bind you with long term commitments.
What KeyMaster was saying, and Sidecar explained, is that YOU KNOW IT WILL HAPPEN, so you MUST BE ALERT to the first sign and use it to WALK AWAY.
That my friends, is like saying: you take the bait and RUN when the Hunter comes for the kill.
Saying it like that doesn’t sound good, does it?
Even KM, with his great story about that date at dinner hinting to the staff about domestic violence, had to deploy that safeguard of calling the cab just for her, and tipping the driver so that he called him when she was safely delivered to the destination, and then staying in the restaurant for a while just to make sure nobody could accuse him of anything…
See where I am going? Being the prey is not a good position, you have to be looking all the time, with the utmost attention, for the inevitable blow. And what is the nature of the attack? Its unpredictable, because we are not dealing with rational and stable people.
All for what? For the small, infinitesimal chance, of finding a unicorn?
Or is it the hunger so great that we must live from scraps, out of BAIT laid out to get us?
That might be enough for some men, but they are living dangerously, and especially living a lie.
Because that “bait”, that “sugar, spice, and everything nice” is not what women are. The true face of females is only seen by a man after he is caught (usually in marriage) and its not pretty. That is why the majority of marriages fail, and most of the remaining ones have miserable men.
And now women are quick to show their true nature, sometimes before even set up a trap or get any advantage… They are losing the restraints, the small amount of self-control that would allow them to behave until they trap a man. On the other hand society is brainwashing men to accept them anyway, and the dating poll is so bad that the unacceptable becomes normal.
So, I say, STAY AWAY FROM THEM! There is little to be gained, and the little remaining is fake anyway.
STAY AWAY FROM A LIFE OF MISERY.
STAY AWAY FROM THE LIE.
And last, I am just making my case based in experience, my own and of countless men.
There is no SHOULD, MUST or any call for OBLIGATIONS, SHAME or HONOR.
These are the manipulative tools used to make us go against our best interests. These are the female tools and the tools of gynocentric society.
I have no interests invest in what you do. I am just saying it as I see it. YOU go your own way.
But it would be to your best interests to STAY AWAY FROM THEM!
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