Staring at women

[LucanParticipant 25]

I’m fully aware that staring at women is basically the first failure point, but I have a real problem with it. I’ve not really had sex for about a year and even then, I’ve never actually come from any kind of sex. Anyway, as I’m sure you can imagine, I’m pretty frustrated. If I see a girl, I look. I can just about manage to not look, for maybe a minute, but then I do.

How do I sort my s~~~ out? Will sleeping with prostitutes a couple of times a year sort me out?

[RoyDalParticipant]

You need to decide if giving in to your desires is worth the inevitable consequences. Then choose accordingly.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[martygParticipant 103]

It’s not easy to go against our own 150,000 years of programming. Notice female/evaluate for mating potential. It is possible, just takes a little effort and willpower. Continue working on it, you will get better and better. There is the side benefit that it puzzles and annoys them when they do not receive the attention.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Lucan wrote:

I’m fully aware that staring at women is basically the first failure point, but I have a real problem with it. I’ve not really had sex for about a year and even then, I’ve never actually come from any kind of sex. Anyway, as I’m sure you can imagine, I’m pretty frustrated. If I see a girl, I look. I can just about manage to not look, for maybe a minute, but then I do.

How do I sort my s~~~ out? Will sleeping with prostitutes a couple of times a year sort me out?

You shouldn’t feel bad because you have biological man urges that have evolved in us over millions of years of evolution which have kept us from becoming extinct. All you can do is to keep them from being manipulated by them.
the sad situation is that women dress like sluts to get men to look at them and then act insulted when they do. All we can do is to grab a sneak peek. I would suggest using porn where you can’t get in trouble if the cost of prostitutes is too0 high.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

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[LucanParticipant 25]

bobphilo wrote:

Lucan wrote:

I’m fully aware that staring at women is basically the first failure point, but I have a real problem with it. I’ve not really had sex for about a year and even then, I’ve never actually come from any kind of sex. Anyway, as I’m sure you can imagine, I’m pretty frustrated. If I see a girl, I look. I can just about manage to not look, for maybe a minute, but then I do.

How do I sort my s~~~ out? Will sleeping with prostitutes a couple of times a year sort me out?

You shouldn’t feel bad because you have biological man urges that have evolved in us over millions of years of evolution which have kept us from becoming extinct. All you can do is to keep them from being manipulated by them.
the sad situation is that women dress like sluts to get men to look at them and then act insulted when they do. All we can do is to grab a sneak peek. I would suggest using porn where you can’t get in trouble if the cost of prostitutes is too0 high.

It isn’t so much that I feel guilty for being so rude, it’s more, I know the more I stare that less likely I am to ever sleep with them.

[Anonymous 42]

Lucan wrote:

I see a girl, I look. I can just about manage to not look, for maybe a minute, but then I do.

hey Lucan, I don’t usually give advice like this,,,, but when you look at a woman, don’t be afraid and show no fear, LOOK AT HER! first thing, let her know you’re looking and smile too, if she’s a c~~~, you’ll see it in her self centered additude , if not, she’ll smile back. Don’t fear rejection, master it! It’s all about additude!
If they don’t like you, or have a feminist mindf~~~ additude, give them one of these

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Lucan wrote:

It isn’t so much that I feel guilty for being so rude, it’s more, I know the more I stare that less likely I am to ever sleep with them.

Good. How is that a bad thing? That sounds like a good protection against being sexually manipulated and led around by your dick. In that case, stare away and use porn and prostitutes to fulfill your biological needs.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Lucan wrote:

I’m fully aware that staring at women is basically the first failure point, but I have a real problem with it. I’ve not really had sex for about a year and even then, I’ve never actually come from any kind of sex. Anyway, as I’m sure you can imagine, I’m pretty frustrated. If I see a girl, I look. I can just about manage to not look, for maybe a minute, but then I do.

How do I sort my s~~~ out? Will sleeping with prostitutes a couple of times a year sort me out?

Nope. It might help, but it won’t sort this out. What sorted it our for me was coming to the logical conclusion (verified by observation) that the more I completely ignored all women, them more interesting and even attractive I became to them.

When I’m at work, there are at least a few “hotties” that work in my vicinity, and I’ve never made eye contact with any of them. Like ever. In like the whole year I’ve been here.

The trick is to do it without seeming angry. Be cheerful and upbeat, but ignore them completely unless you absolutely have to interact with them. And in these cases you immediately go back to cheerfully ignoring immediately afterwards.

I do this at work, and caught more than one of them touching their hair after they caught sight of me (women touching/manipulating their hair after seeing someone is generally an indicator of attraction).

Not that I would dip into company ink, but it’s kinda neat to catch little things like that.

Think about it – when you stare at a female, unless you’re still in high school, it’s probably not to gather wanking material. Besides, porn is basically free now. No, when you stare at a girl, you’re hoping she will flirt back and give an indication of attraction, right? At least that’s what I am looking for. The paradox is, due to hypergamy and similar factors, the LESS you as a man notice, acknowledge, or recognize her in any way, the more attraction she will feel towards you. If you want, I can go into the evolutionary reasons behind this, but for now, just trust me – it works. Suffice it to say, cheerfully ignoring women is a huge sign of confidence. Staring is a huge sign of insecurity.

As MGTOW in theory, we shouldn’t care if she’s attracted or not, but I think for most of us, it still matters on some level, at least a little. When you continually remind yourself that ignoring is actually getting the results you wanted to get by staring, suddenly staring loses all of its appeal.

This used to be a big issue for me too, and this is how I overcame it.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I guess the difference between staring and leering.

To be fair looking at a person in public is ok , staring at people can be creepy.

Btw. Looking at women is tge same as rape.

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[LucanParticipant 25]

Haha. I am certainly glad my awkwardness saved me from impregnating any ladies when I was a teenager.

[HitmanParticipant]

You can stare all you want. .but it might not be appreciated every time. .Some women like it and some don’t. .get an escort and keep your pipes clean. .it helps to clear the mind. Especially when you’re young. .it time it gets easier. .now even the pretty one’s only get a quick look from me. .

[Anonymous 22]

I’ve noticed that women love to stare at men just as much as men stare at women. It’s only wrong if men stare at women though.

I wouldn’t stare at them. It gives them way too much importance. Let her earn the attention and let her come to you if she’s interested.

[Anonymous 7]

I almost never stare at women because I know it just gives them an ego rise.

What I think is when I look at them first I loose and am sacrificing my ego

The amount of disrespect Ive gotten from women (all men have) has lead me to this thought process.

The only time I do look is when they are staring at me and I just lock until they look away no smile just a stare.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Anonymous wrote:

I wouldn’t stare at them. It gives them way too much importance. Let her earn the attention and let her come to you if she’s interested.

Exactly. I know it’s hard, but trust me – this attitude works the best.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Anonymous 3]

In my experience women want you to look at them. If you don’t they will try to get your attention or get mad.

I prefer to not look at them. Let them work for your attention.

In the military they teach you the “thousand yard stare.” I think every Western man should learn this.

Unfortunately when you google it, for whatever reason it doesn’t show up and it’s considered something negative. I’m not going to tell you guys to join the military to learn it. It’s pretty easy to develop, more a mindset than anything else, although I have to admit I learned it in the military myself. I’m not sure about the enlisted guys, but every military officer is taught the thousand yard stare.

[Anonymous 11]

I’m of Lottery’s school of thought.

I will not stare at a woman simply to crush her ego. The more attractive one is the more I will ignore her. Do not interpret this as I do not find her attractive. I’m just not building her up at my expense.

Now, if I find one with whom I can carry am actual conversation. F~~~ing rare, I know. Then I may pay her a modicum of minimal attention. I fundamentally do not trust any woman for I’ve seen them play way too many silly games on me and my friends over the years.

[BudtaoParticipant 293]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

When I’m at work, there are at least a few “hotties” that work in my vicinity, and I’ve never made eye contact with any of them. Like ever. In like the whole year I’ve been here.

The trick is to do it without seeming angry. Be cheerful and upbeat, but ignore them completely unless you absolutely have to interact with them. And in these cases you immediately go back to cheerfully ignoring immediately afterwards.

I do work a bit of customer service from time to time. No eye contact generally doesn’t work in customer service. So, just enough eye contact to get the job done(1 or 2 sec) and then eyes on your work for them?

Nirvanna is never having to worry about a woman ever again.

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

I don’t call them attractive, beautiful or pretty anymore. Just healthy or say nothing.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Budtao wrote:

I do work a bit of customer service from time to time. No eye contact generally doesn’t work in customer service. So, just enough eye contact to get the job done(1 or 2 sec) and then eyes on your work for them?

My job and theirs never intersect, we just happen to be in close proximity in the office. Other guys around there, most/all married, stop and make the same sickening blue pill small talk we’re all familiar with.

“If the pretty girl talks to me for a few minutes every day, maybe my life has meaning!”

Keep telling yourself that bluebilly. How’s the wifey these days?

I, on the other hand cheerfully ignore them and have never spoken to them. Don’t get me wrong – there’s multiple other women I talk to fairly regularly because our work functions are related. But the hot marketing babe that all the beta manginas make small talk with all day? Never said a word to her.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

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