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The whole idea of being alone and loneliness is really quite different depending upon a Man’s personal experiences.
I think for MANY Men as they get older, and especially if they have SURVIVED the whole marriage/kids experience than they are more apt to desire being alone, but there are also Men that have Never lived with a Woman or have fathered children, and they’re VERY CONTENT to continue to live alone their entire lives.
The non-stop demands, expectations, servitude, ungratefulness, greed, whining, bitching, talking etc. etc. etc. of many woman in marriage is ENOUGH for Many Men, and the LAST thing they want is a replacement model after they divorce.
For example, at the gym the other morning a Woman came in with very tight athletic ware on, and her ass, hips, and t~~~ were all busting at the seems in a good way. I happened to be seated in the lobby when she came in, and was having a LOUD Spanish Conversation on the phone as she entered. So as GOOD as she looked her LOUD MOUTH kinda killed it for me as I could NOT handle a steady diet of that regardless of what else came along with the package.
THIS being said there are also Many Men that become “conditioned” to being the resident male servant and feel they’re “lonely” if they do not have “their” woman to serve.
It’s an “individual” thing. For example, I know one older gentleman that still seeks out woman for sexual liaisons, but really can’t stand their non-stop talking and drama. So, he remains single and has lived alone for decades. He’s perfectly happy and the last thing he wants is a woman hanging around 24/7.
I know another older gentlemen that has been married for decades, and complains that his wife is lazy in certain areas and he can’t really stand when she gets talking to him, but also claims to “enjoy” her company more often than not, and he is “lonely’ when she’s away visiting family.
There’s another man that has been divorced TWICE, and has been “alone” for about 20 years, and he too is not in any rush for anymore room mates.
Someone else comes to mind that is in his early 50’s, and he too has never been married or had kids. He has had a live in girlfriend for long periods of time, and has gotten rid of her within the past year, and is not looking for a new live in either.
So, like life it’s not one size fits all.
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All of my closest friends are married. None of them are very happy. One of my boys has a BEAUTIFUL, SEXY wife who, when in public is an absolute joy to all around her. The problem is she suffers from severe emotional mood swings, depression and the like. So when shes happy, we all understand its the “mania”. When she’s out of the public eye, and my friend is around he looks tired and beaten down.
He’s living with a wild bi-polar woman. That’s a living nightmare I sure as hell don’t want to deal with. I have friends who are on their 3rd marriage and just turning 40. Guys who have to BEG they’re wives just to get out. Another one of my buddies came to my place, saw how I was living and flat out said… “Dude, can I make your place my escape sanctuary??”
Marriage is hard and all too often people don’t realize that “happily ever after” doesn’t exist unless you WORK at it. I’ll stay single. Hook up if I want to and maintain my own sovereignty. It’s an easier happier life.
#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT
#HIDEYOURWEALTH
#VAGINAISWORTHLESS#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS
“happily ever after” doesn’t exist unless you WORK at it
Yeah, “working” at it’s no guarantee either. For example, your friend with the bi-polar wife, they can both work at it DAILY, but it’s not going to solve HER MEDICAL PROBLEMS.
Also, many people “grow” and “change” in polar opposite directions with time, and you can end up literally just not having anything in common with a Woman that you once shared mutual life goals.
Other people just get tired of being with the SAME person and putting up with their assorted issues. And, they just stop “trying” in many areas of the relationship because things only seem to get worse, and the other partner just gets tired of their lack of interest.
Regardless, of the reasons WHY, the bottom line is EVERYTHING is Temporary.
WHY INVEST in a Long Term relationship when they are destined to fail over time??
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“happily ever after” doesn’t exist unless you WORK at it
Yeah, “working” at it’s no guarantee either. For example, your friend with the bi-polar wife, they can both work at it DAILY, but it’s not going to solve HER MEDICAL PROBLEMS.
Thats very true. Life has no guarantees. They do love each other from what I can tell, but damn… I don’t envy him at all… LoL
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They do love each other from what I can tell
Love or No Love….. living with that s~~~ gets OLD OVER TIME especially if her illness worsens with time.
I don’t envy him at all…
NOTHING to envy…Just be grateful that it’s NOT YOU. Life is hard, and marriage is about impossible for Many, but throw mental illness in along with the package, and GOOD LUCK with ALL THAT !!!
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I was married 39 years. I’ve been alone for going on 4. I’m fine as I am.
It can be difficult for some to let go of their need for company, even if bad company. I am one of those. I struggled (and sometimes still do) with being alone.
But, the struggle is nothing compared to the struggle of being with a BPD, toxic alcoholic.
No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.
I have a gf for 2+ years now, but she is not going to replace my ex-wife, nor will I have her moving in with me.
That ship has sailed.
Ultimately there are only 3 people I really trust: me, myself, and I. I am okay with that.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
When I was young, early 20’s, I used get lonely, or at least thought I was. Looking back now, I wish I knew how well I had it made. Now, the older I get the more I want to be alone. It’s quieter, less stressful, more peaceful……….it’s just so much easier.
Sometimes, if I need help moving something heavy, I can call someone to help, but mostly, I try to figure out a way to do it myself. Like when I bought a new piece of big furniture, I backed my truck up to the steps of the deck and slowly rolled the box out of the truck and onto the steps and then up on the deck. Then I unboxed it and took it inside in pieces and put it back together. Would’ve been much easier if I had help, but then I’d have to deal with someone else. If I can somehow manage by myself, I’d prefer to do so, even if it’s a struggle and takes longer.
The last time I can remember being lonely was a lifetime ago before I got married. I cannot foresee ever being lonely again.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
When I was young, early 20’s, I used get lonely, or at least thought I was. Looking back now, I wish I knew how well I had it made.
EXACTLY, If only I/WE could go back knowing NOW what we didn’t know then how DIFFERENT/BETTER TODAY WOULD BE…..Regrets is my middle name….
Now, the older I get the more I want to be alone. It’s quieter, less stressful, more peaceful……….it’s just so much easier.
Being alone becomes the desired state.
I try to figure out a way to do it myself……If I can somehow manage by myself, I’d prefer to do so, even if it’s a struggle and takes longer.
I TRY to impress upon my son the IMPORTANCE of being SELF-SUFFICIENT from everything from Cooking to Cleaning to Home Repair and as much as everything else.
I find it F~~~in SAD whenever I hear a Man say that HE NEEDS a Woman because HE CAN’T COOK……REALLY ???? Buy a crockpot ya SIMP!!
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
Anonymous1He’s living with a wild bi-polar woman. That’s a living nightmare I sure as hell don’t want to deal with.
Men in such situations become Alcoholics or Drug Addicts to cope with the nightmare. Sometimes suicide results.
As for me…I’ll keep living alone.
Let me remind you how horrible life is without a woman in your life.
You are tired every day. Always having to go to work, and dangerous stuff like this:
Life just really blows. You got some POS car, and man, everyone is telling you to keep running that line.
And don’t forget about having to drive a S~~~y Workvan. God its HORRIBLE being single.
Just look at how miserable these single people are. Man, $46 bucks a night, and can you imagine how expensive mexico trips are? The people are so sad there.
Just look at these 40 year old men. DAMN! They must be F~~~ING MISERABLE!
Come on guys, THIS IS REAL HAPPINESS!
Who wants all those skinny women! Yiuk! Man, give me a family, and women watching me alike a hawk each day. THAT’S THE LIFE BOY!
MMmmm Nothing like having a wife in your life. SO AmaZING!
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Let me remind you how horrible life is without a woman in your life.
You are tired every day. Always having to go to work, and dangerous stuff like this:I don’t do lots of “exciting” stuff like that.
But I do have my computer games, my music, my various guitars (electric, acoustic, classical) and other instruments. I have my garden, my model trains. I don’t travel often, and when I do it is usually not that far from home.
I do have plenty of stuff to do at home, to keep myself amused. I figure I paid over $200K for it, I might as well get my money’s worth, LOL! And no females will LIVE here — that would defeat the purpose of having a house, of having a Fortress of Solitude. Just look what happened after Superman brought Lois to his place to bed… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=495zMgV2T3A
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
Ultimately there are only 3 people I really trust: me, myself, and I. I am okay with that.
Good for you, Ranger. Everyone ends up betraying or disappointing us anyway.
The last time I can remember being lonely was a lifetime ago before I got married. I cannot foresee ever being lonely again.
Sooooo… can I stay for the weekend ? lol jk
Several years ago I had a 70 something old man, very frail, coome to our office for checkup. When I say frail, i mean shuffling his feet, 100 lbs soaking wet, poor eyesight.
Towards the end of the visit, I asked him if he lives with anybody, which he replied no. This was still before my journey to mgtow. I felt it shouldn’t be that way and said so.
He replied that he rather live alone than to put up with a woman’s bulls~~~. His exact words. If course, now I get it. Back then I was still swimming in sea of blue pill nirvana. Now I presume the man has passed on and he did it his way, without the “bulls~~~” of a woman. I’m gonna be that guy someday, passing on alone in a room. And it’s just fine with me. Now I get what he said.
God bless peace and freedom.
You don’t understand being lonely until you get married. Then all your friends are suddenly not good enough or allowed to be at your house. Women push your friends and family away in an attempt to have the ultimate control over a man.
I TRY to impress upon my son the IMPORTANCE of being SELF-SUFFICIENT from everything from Cooking to Cleaning to Home Repair and as much as everything else.
I find it F~~~in SAD whenever I hear a Man say that HE NEEDS a Woman because HE CAN’T COOK……REALLY ???? Buy a crockpot ya SIMP!!I have a friend who pays someone to change his oil, which is fine by me, but he always asks why I change my own oil in my truck. Why not? If it’s nice weather, go out and breath the fresh air and get a little dirty and change my own oil. What else am I going to do, lay around in the recliner all day? Yeah, I gotta’ drag out the floor jack and jack stands and the cardboard to lay on so the rocks don’t poke my back and the tools…..then drag it all back in the shed…….but s~~~ man, it’s not that hard and doesn’t take that long. I think it’s good to get out and do something because I hate exercising just for the sake of exercising. I have a real big tree limb that blew down during a storm. It’ll be good to fire up the chainsaw and cut up some firewood for my back yard fire pit. I’m old and not in the greatest of shape, I’ll have to take a lot of breaks, but cutting and hauling wood is a great outdoor activity. I will have earned my cold beer that day.
“……..can’t cook……” Does he have no hands? Is he incapable of learning? I chose to learn how to cook because my x was a s~~~ty cook and I wanted to eat some good food. I asked her to cook some chicken and noodles and it was bland and watery, so I found someone who could make good chicken and noodles and asked them how and then I learned. Like you said, how hard is it to throw some stuff in a crockpot and wait? I’ve been thinking about buying a pressure cooker, because you can cook some great stuff a lot faster in a pressure cooker. Right now I mostly use a big 8 quart stock pot and let stuff simmer for a few hours and stir it once in a while. I put some in the fridge and some in the freezer. I’ll make a couple different dishes that way and then all I have to do is reheat in the microwave.
“……..need a woman to cook for me……” That’s insane. I’d rather eat canned food the rest of my life than deal with a woman, even if she was the best cook in the world.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
I TRY to impress upon my son the IMPORTANCE of being SELF-SUFFICIENT from everything from Cooking to Cleaning to Home Repair and as much as everything else.I find it F~~~in SAD whenever I hear a Man say that HE NEEDS a Woman because HE CAN’T COOK……REALLY ???? Buy a crockpot ya SIMP!!
I have a friend who pays someone to change his oil, which is fine by me, but he always asks why I change my own oil in my truck. Why not? If it’s nice weather, go out and breath the fresh air and get a little dirty and change my own oil. What else am I going to do, lay around in the recliner all day? Yeah, I gotta’ drag out the floor jack and jack stands and the cardboard to lay on so the rocks don’t poke my back and the tools…..then drag it all back in the shed…….but s~~~ man, it’s not that hard and doesn’t take that long. I think it’s good to get out and do something because I hate exercising just for the sake of exercising. I have a real big tree limb that blew down during a storm. It’ll be good to fire up the chainsaw and cut up some firewood for my back yard fire pit. I’m old and not in the greatest of shape, I’ll have to take a lot of breaks, but cutting and hauling wood is a great outdoor activity. I will have earned my cold beer that day.
“……..can’t cook……” Does he have no hands? Is he incapable of learning? I chose to learn how to cook because my x was a s~~~ty cook and I wanted to eat some good food. I asked her to cook some chicken and noodles and it was bland and watery, so I found someone who could make good chicken and noodles and asked them how and then I learned. Like you said, how hard is it to throw some stuff in a crockpot and wait? I’ve been thinking about buying a pressure cooker, because you can cook some great stuff a lot faster in a pressure cooker. Right now I mostly use a big 8 quart stock pot and let stuff simmer for a few hours and stir it once in a while. I put some in the fridge and some in the freezer. I’ll make a couple different dishes that way and then all I have to do is reheat in the microwave.
“……..need a woman to cook for me……” That’s insane. I’d rather eat canned food the rest of my life than deal with a woman, even if she was the best cook in the world.You may be my brother from another mother.
I love changing my own oil and now my 21 year old son and I make it a ritual. Save a s~~~ton of money as well.
Cutting trees is my middle name. My son and I rented the largest chipper they had – that f~~~er ate 16″ diameter trees like they were toothpicks! I estimate we saved almost $4k by doing this ourselves, even factoring in buying a new Stihl saw, climbing rope and renting the chipper. And it was great to get out and do the manual labor together, then go drink beer and eat wings. F~~~ – what a great day.
Get the InstaPot – I have the other brand and have been making incredible meals in it. Ribs that fall off the bone in 30 minutes! Everything cooks so quickly and is so damn good. My ex sucked at almost everything in life including cooking. She believed cooking was taking something out of a cardboard box. The InstaPot is the way to go. I’ve used it 4 times in the last 10 days.
I TRY to impress upon my son the IMPORTANCE of being SELF-SUFFICIENT from everything from Cooking to Cleaning to Home Repair and as much as everything else.I find it F~~~in SAD whenever I hear a Man say that HE NEEDS a Woman because HE CAN’T COOK……REALLY ???? Buy a crockpot ya SIMP!!
I have a friend who pays someone to change his oil, which is fine by me, but he always asks why I change my own oil in my truck. Why not? If it’s nice weather, go out and breath the fresh air and get a little dirty and change my own oil. What else am I going to do, lay around in the recliner all day? Yeah, I gotta’ drag out the floor jack and jack stands and the cardboard to lay on so the rocks don’t poke my back and the tools…..then drag it all back in the shed…….but s~~~ man, it’s not that hard and doesn’t take that long. I think it’s good to get out and do something because I hate exercising just for the sake of exercising. I have a real big tree limb that blew down during a storm. It’ll be good to fire up the chainsaw and cut up some firewood for my back yard fire pit. I’m old and not in the greatest of shape, I’ll have to take a lot of breaks, but cutting and hauling wood is a great outdoor activity. I will have earned my cold beer that day.
“……..can’t cook……” Does he have no hands? Is he incapable of learning? I chose to learn how to cook because my x was a s~~~ty cook and I wanted to eat some good food. I asked her to cook some chicken and noodles and it was bland and watery, so I found someone who could make good chicken and noodles and asked them how and then I learned. Like you said, how hard is it to throw some stuff in a crockpot and wait? I’ve been thinking about buying a pressure cooker, because you can cook some great stuff a lot faster in a pressure cooker. Right now I mostly use a big 8 quart stock pot and let stuff simmer for a few hours and stir it once in a while. I put some in the fridge and some in the freezer. I’ll make a couple different dishes that way and then all I have to do is reheat in the microwave.
“……..need a woman to cook for me……” That’s insane. I’d rather eat canned food the rest of my life than deal with a woman, even if she was the best cook in the world.I had my oil changes down to a 20 minute routine at my old home, still working on getting it organized at the new one.
No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.
Sooooo… can I stay for the weekend ? lol jk
You can come sit by my fire and drink some beer……..then you gotta’ go. LOL
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
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