Some blue-pill angst

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I was sitting around the lunch table today with a bunch of guys.
I’m not sure how it started; we ended up swapping stories of blue-pill angst.

I’ve heard all the stories before, since after all they are common and universal to any MGTOW.

“She didn’t pay a dime into our retirement (so she could spend more), but when she left she took half of mine”
“That was the plan all along”.

“If I had a better lawyer this would have gone better”
“Yeah you think so. Courts are against men”.

“I gave her the house to avoid alimony”
“big win??”.

“I’m getting a raise soon cause my kid is almost 18”
“You call not being mugged every month a raise”.

I didn’t say it any of it out loud, just thought it. No point in rubbing salt in a person’s wound. Especially when you have to work with them every day.

Sad part is all these guys (except me) remarried, or are living with another woman.

I’m not about to throw myself under the bus by using the word MGTOW, but I did say out loud, “My strategy is to not get married, live alone, don’t make any babies, and spend every dime I make on me”.

I almost got applause for that.
“Good strategy”.
“I wish I had done that”.
“I would like to get my girlfriend out of the house”.
“I should have hid some cash from her”.

It’s moments like this that validate the MGTOW strategy and reinforce you can spread MGTOW ideals without exposing yourself.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

I know a woman who was planning divorce and started paying down any debt that was only in her name with her husband’s money.

He made a solid 70k+ a year and she gave him a weekly allowance of about 50$ out of his check. Everything else was hers.

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[DocParticipant]

An old friends ex wife had a female friend who’s husband would wet the bed when he got drunk.

He was a nice guy and totally loyal to his wife.
She was penniless when he met her. He owned his own Volvo dealership and was very comfortable.

I heard her talking to my friends ex wife at their place one day saying how she was going to divorce him and take his business off him.

She did divorce him in the end but didn’t get her hands on the dealership. The interesting thing was that even the women in our then circle of friends thought she was a f~~~ing mercenary.

He had showered her with everything.
She walked into the marriage with nothing. He brought a bought and paid for house, brand new cars and more money then both needed.

All because he wet the bed when he drank she wanted to ruin him and take all she could.

That was 12-13 years ago now and I was still a bit naive about women’s nature. But her behaviour opened my eyes.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Doc wrote:

She did divorce him in the end but didn’t get her hands on the dealership.

Good thing she didn’t get it. She would have made some stupid decision and lost the dealership in no time. You have to have skills to run a business. I bet the hive was hoping she would leave and get nothing, so they could bid on being the next Mrs. and start spending his money for him.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[DocParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

Doc wrote:

She did divorce him in the end but didn’t get her hands on the dealership.

Good thing she didn’t get it. She would have made some stupid decision and lost the dealership in no time. You have to have skills to run a business. I bet the hive was hoping she would leave and get nothing, so they could bid on being the next Mrs. and start spending his money for him.

She just drifted off into new social circles but not into any with money or anything.
Just a group of single mothers with older children in the same neighbourhood.

The guy moved to another part of the town.
He still has the business but has married again.
He seems happy but I don’t know his new wife.

His ex who tried to the dealership was useless with money which partly explained why she had none when they met and why she tried to get her hands on his when she divorced him.

You are right – had she done so she would have ruined the business.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[MonkParticipant 16984]

I had a friend whose lardbucket wife used to wait by the front door on payday, and as soon as he walked through, the hand snapped out for the wage packet.

One day he came home early and … yeah, you guessed it.

[Anonymous 3]

FrostByte wrote:

“She didn’t pay a dime into our retirement (so she could spend more), but when she left she took half of mine”

F~~~ed up a system you have there. Retirements should be linked to that one person only.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

F~~~ed up a system you have there. Retirements should be linked to that one person only.

The geocentric system covered all their bases.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[AutoliteParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

I’m not about to throw myself under the bus by using the word MGTOW, but I did say out loud, “My strategy is to not get married, live alone, don’t make any babies, and spend every dime I make on me”.

I almost got applause for that.

But deep down I bet they resent you! People can be very small minded and petty. They tend to despise others who they know are smarter than them…

[AttonParticipant]

Nags4Cash wrote:

I know a woman who was planning divorce and started paying down any debt that was only in her name with her husband’s money.

He made a solid 70k+ a year and she gave him a weekly allowance of about 50$ out of his check. Everything else was hers.

That is slavery.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3758]

Autolite wrote:

But deep down I bet they resent you! People can be very small minded and petty. They tend to despise others who they know are smarter than them…

Agreed. I’ve had to deal with assholes in the past because of that.

Cool post, Frostbyte. It happens once in a awhile at my work too and it’s fun to just take a step back and look at it through a MGTOW lens.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Autolite wrote:

But deep down I bet they resent you! People can be very small minded and petty. They tend to despise others who they know are smarter than them…

Or they resent their choices. One thing for sure if you ask why they have an excuse.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

SpiderHerder wrote:

Cool post, Frostbyte. It happens once in a awhile at my work too and it’s fun to just take a step back and look at it through a MGTOW lens.

Listening to bluepills is taking a redpill.
They chased that pussy and once they got it it wasn’t what they thought it would be.

It’s like the short story “The Monkey’s Paw” you get your wish but the price is so high you’re sorry you wished it.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[MonkParticipant 16984]

FrostByte wrote:

It’s like the short story “The Monkey’s Paw” you get your wish but the price is so high you’re sorry you wished it.

Excellent analogy!

[HermitParticipant]

I love listening to the married men I work with bitch about their lives. One guy in particular is always complaining about what stupid thing his wife did or said, or about his kids getting out of hand. I always smile at him and tell him how much more I appreciate my single life when I hear him bitching about his married life.

His excuse is, “If I wasn’t married, I’d probably be in the bars every night.” I look at him with a confused look and ask him why he can’t control his own life and why he needs a woman to control him. I know he’s just saying that s~~~ to try to convince himself that he’s doing the right thing by being married and having a family.

I often ask him if he wants to meet me at the local hangout after work and he always says, “I don’t know, I’ll have to see what the wife has going on tonight.”, and I always say, “Sure glad I’m not married so I can go do whatever I want, whenever I want, you pathetic f~~~.” Yes, I say exactly that.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Hermit wrote:

“Sure glad I’m not married so I can go do whatever I want, whenever I want, . . .”

That is all the reason I need to be MGTOW.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

If you told everyone you were MGTOW and what that means, the blue pillers would freak out and shun you. However when they moan about their lives and women, when you drop red pills or your knowledge on them, they nearly applaud you.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

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