Solitude is Addictive /Rant

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

I really can’t handle other people’s s~~~ anymore. Other people just annoy me so much! Their stupidity, their entitled attitudes, their fake pleasantries, etc. I find that I’m happiest when I lock myself away in my house and don’t see anyone. Just going out to shop or whatever is such a f~~~ing ordeal these days…and when I say “shop” I’m talking about grocery shopping! Once I have enough investment properties to live comfortably, I’m handing over the big bag of s~~~ to a property management company and living my life the way I see fit. F~~~ this world and all its s~~~.

[AzraelParticipant 502]

Preach it, man. I feel the same way. I was just thinking about how I can’t go to a bar for a pint without fratboy assholes starting s~~~, spoiled whores harassing me for attention, etc. I shop when the store first opens because most people are too lazy to get up that early. I work graveyard just for the solitude.

Quit looking at my signature, queer-mo.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

That’s good.

Solitude is a way to breathe fresh air if you have been a victim of exploitation by others one too many times in your life.

Same with me, I am very careful around people. I help everyone in need and this has turned into total exploitation SO MANY TIMES that I even hate socializing.

I have too many skills in too many fields and whenever people (MOSTLY women) find out what I can do and what they can extract from me, they structure my day (burden me) by 100 per cent.

Or they get mad and s~~~ talk me when I refuse.

It’s like slavery.

That’s how I came to LOVE living on my own.

I have only very few friends that do not lead a one-way relationship with me.

And one more specialty with c~~~s: They have no shame in plundering your resources, request endless amounts of “favors” and use you as her taxi… And then get f~~~ed by the next best loser who doesn’t even have half of my dick size in his pants.

Women want drama and negativity. Not “solutions”. But her broken car or computer is – of course – YOUR problem.

And they never give you credit for it or something in return.

Solitude is peace.

“Party People” with hollow minds and no skills can’t understand this, since they are the problem.

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[Anonymous 3]

I agree with you, solitude is addictive. However, no extreme is healthy.

You will enjoy your solitude better after hanging out with some “friends”.

And “friends” can be people that get together to do things, like: cycling, running, fishing…

There is no need for big buddies. And its a good thing, because they are rare.

In this time and age people are conditioned by social media for being extremely selfish and self-centered. That is the outcome of having content shaped to your tastes and preferences.

So, there are small chances to find someone that can be a real friend. That does not means, however, that we do not have any kind of socialization… Its just that relationships need to be more shallow.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

DarkRyu wrote:

I find that I’m happiest when I lock myself away in my house and don’t see anyone.

Tell me about it brother! I do the EXACT same thing. I have VERY few friends. The last time I went out with a friend was nearly a year ago. The last time I used my cell phone to ring someone was more than 3 years a go. I have better things to do than associating with people who have nothing better to talk about than booze, pussy and football.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Azrael wrote:

Preach it, man. I feel the same way. I was just thinking about how I can’t go to a bar for a pint without fratboy assholes

I am more like Sam in TLOTR, minus his pussy addiction lol. I prefer to talk to wise men. Not little boys.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

I have better things to do than associating with people who have nothing better to talk about than booze, pussy and football.

All “highly gifted” boys seem to think like that.

And we have the capability to – later in life – move up and become wealthy…

And then the c~~~s suddenly start to hit on us and want to re-integrate us into her circle of stupid and annoying friends.

And that is not going to happen.

All of my “girlfriends” wanted me to be part of her stupid non-achieving hive and appeal to them… (By working for free and giving them tech support 24/7)

My answer was always: “That train has left the station long ago”.

I am not licking those people’s asses that tried to push me around or didn’t take me seriously back in school.

I enjoy their poverty and their “flirting girlfriends”, who are NOW trying to monkey branch to me, the former loser with his creepy hobby…

Women have no values and no honor.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[TwistParticipant]

Gargamel wrote:

And they never give you credit for it or something in return.

You can see this in how they request the help/assistance/favor.

An honest, appreciative, polite way, would be to phrase it “Could you PLEASE assist me with x?”

But you won’t hear that. What you will hear is “Could you JUST do x?”

Listen for it – “Just” has become the modifier of choice, and it reflects the value she places on you doing something for her. You are the one doing it, so it’s no big deal – it’s “just”.

You accomplish her wish, but all you did was “just”. See – no big deal that you did it. She valued it beforehand and determined the minimal gratitude necessary – because all you did was “just”.

So – when asked “can you just…..”, the proper reply is “No. I’d rather help you with something important enough that you would appreciate the help”

Listen for it – Please vs Just. It’s uncanny.

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2146]

Solitude is highly and wonderfully addictive.

I find most people so toxic and energy draining I avoid them as much as possible.

My ‘social equity’ is a mile wide and an inch deep. I know a lot of people and a lot of people know me, and I don’t mind a little bit of small talk – actually I’m pretty good at it, but I have no interest in deep relationships with any one.

People have nothing to offer me but problems, problems and more problems.

Think back to all of the friendships you’ve had in the past, you’ll probably realize that you didn’t get much or anything out of it despite all the time, effort and energy you’ve put into them.

The juice ain’t worth the squeeze.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Gentlemens, im currently not working, taking a few months off, my only interaction is when I go to the supermarket to buy some s~~~.

Im now relaxed as f~~~, I’m thinking on an early retirement. Been alone never felt Soo good and is becoming addictive, I WANT MORE.

My intention to get a job in other country outside Spain has resulted in failure (I did everything I could to meet the standards of this assholes), but there is no way in hell they give me a chance.

Anyway I tried to apply for a position I’m over qualified for, lowered my standards, still NOTHING, they gave the job to a guy from India… well f~~~ my life.

Im going back to the Caribbean, use the little money I have to buy cheap land, guns and ammo and go rogue for a few years.

It is all pending though in a last attempt to get out of Spain.

Seriusly, solitude and peace of mind is what a men should aspire to.

Why are we told “humans are social beens” “people need human contact” and some other bulls~~~ IT IS NOT TRUE.

F~~~ to the hell no.

I want people to leave me the f~~~ alone.

I swear if there is any island we could take and make our own MGTOW land, COUNT ME THE F~~~ IN.

Im serius, im down to leaving everything to rot and go away.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

The Black Scorpion wrote:

Solitude is highly and wonderfully addictive.

I find most people so toxic and energy draining I avoid them as much as possible.

My ‘social equity’ is a mile wide and an inch deep. I know a lot of people and a lot of people know me, and I don’t mind a little bit of small talk – actually I’m pretty good at it, but I have no interest in deep relationships with any one.

People have nothing to offer me but problems, problems and more problems.

Think back to all of the friendships you’ve had in the past, you’ll probably realize that you didn’t get much or anything out of it despite all the time, effort and energy you’ve put into them.

The juice ain’t worth the squeeze.

Exactly

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 12]

I’ve always been really introverted. My mother and teachers used to try and get me to be more social but it never worked out for me even when I would try and play the game. I could never understand the one upping and other bulls~~~ games people play.

But most of all I just didn’t relate to them.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

I’ve always been abrasive and by extension antisocial. Being abrasive operates as a sort of passive filtration system.

I am completely comfortable alone, in a quiet room, for extended periods of time (days). I find most other people insufferable and annoying. They’re all fake. All their pleasantries are a show. When you cut to the quick, most of them are almost nothing like the person they present as.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Thanks for sharing DarkRyu! Absolutely don’t mean any criticism, but got two thoughts… First, consider what might help you ignore all the bullsh*t we all gotta deal with every day. It could be meditation or something. Second (and I ain’t sayin’ it is), maybe you have a mild social anxiety issue that could be dealt with somehow. At any rate, good luck with your plans!

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[EvilcpuParticipant 217]

Gargamel wrote:

“Party People” with hollow minds and no skills can’t understand this, since they are the problem.

These words resonate in me. Since I stopped losing time going out, I started accumulating skill over skill. Really, if there’s not a 100% probability that if go out I’m going to have sex, the most of the time I just stay home studying and making money. The only exception to that is sport, but I usually swim so I don’t have to listen to useless chatter.

DarkRyu wrote:

I’m handing over the big bag of s~~~ to a property management company and living my life the way I see fit. F~~~ this world and all its s~~~.

You’re lucky you can do that. I would like to get a good career to do something similar, but the feemale dimwits of the various HR departments keep stunt my job hunting with impossible requirements.

Out of your prime, out of my sight.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

JB Books wrote:

Thanks for sharing DarkRyu! Absolutely don’t mean any criticism, but got two thoughts… First, consider what might help you ignore all the bullsh*t we all gotta deal with every day. It could be meditation or something. Second (and I ain’t sayin’ it is), maybe you have a mild social anxiety issue that could be dealt with somehow. At any rate, good luck with your plans!

Why ignore? Is like boxing
getting hit= bad
Blocking = good
Dodging = great
Dodging and counter= perfect.

If perfect is no a choice aspire for greatness.

There is no anxiety on you, anxiety is what is created when you interact with people because it generates expectations.

1) interact with people and join in the rat race. You become a dumb f~~~.

2) interact do your own thing, don’t give a s~~~, you become a weirdo or an asshole.

Lose-lose situation.

F~~~ everything walk away the further the better.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 38]

DarkRyu wrote:

Once I have enough investment properties to live comfortably

Dude, didn’t you recently say you had a net worth of several million dollars? If so, please explain how that is not enough to live comfortably on.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

It’s in DEALING With ALL the CRAP in the World that Makes ME APPRECIATE, ENJOY, and LOOK FORWARD TO MY PEACE AND QUIET.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 38]

Becoming wealthy often means you need skin in the (social) game, as you’re dealing with lots of customers and employees etc. This means you’re gonna have to put up with a lot of people’s bulls~~~.

There are lots of ways to make money. Some are going to involve you being fake as f~~~ to people you hate. That’s a choice you have to make.

I will be focusing my investments on things which do NOT require much social skin in the game, things like stocks and shares, ghost-type businesses where I don’t have to deal with lots of people. This suits me as an introvert and MGTOW.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

1) interact with people and join in the rat race. You become a dumb f~~~.

2) interact do your own thing, don’t give a s~~~, you become a weirdo or an asshole.

Exactly this.

If you play the stupid games to fit in and be “liked,” you fill your head with garbage and become an idiot.

If you don’t play the stupid games, but still try to be around other people (that was me 10 years ago), you will stick out like a sore thumb. You will attract unwanted attention. People will make fun of you, and if you’re genuinely trying to engage people it will frustrate you that you aren’t getting good results.

I learned the way of “minimum necessary.” That is how I approach being social. Minimum necessary to not stand out as that antisocial dude who’s probably going to bring a gun to work, while also not being that guy that everyone stops to interrogate and thus being unable to get anything done.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

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