So my fiance just sent me this

[experiencedParticipant]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

She is showing her true colours now, can you imagine what she would be like if you were married and things got a little difficult? She would never stick by you, she would be off looking for a better offer. Seriously, this is why you never marry, all women will divorce your ass without a second thought if they thing the grass is greener. They will make out it is all your fault so they can walk away guilt free to cheers of “You go girl!” from their friends whilst keeping your house and getting alimony. Take it from a divorced man, never marry and you had a lucky escape.

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

I have a blue-pill mate who has been carrying his girlfriend financially for four-years while she constantly changes what she studies at university, always looking for her “groove”. She’s now dropped-out completely and isn’t working, expecting him to pick up the tab for everything. I’m waiting for the pregnancy announcement any day now so she can avoid being an active, contributing member of society for far longer. I often wonder how longer this vag would support my friend when his job contract ends and he needs reciprocal financial support. My money’s on far less than four years.

When I got married I paid off my ex wife’s student debt and bought a house for us. Soon as she was pregnant she didn’t work for 6 years while I supported us all. Month before she started work again she decided she wanted out and had a Facebook affair because she wasn’t happy.

I then got the privilige of paying the mortgage on the house and giving her alimony while she moved her new boyfriend in.

Friend of mine married a woman 10 years older than him and she hated working so much that she was desperate to get pregnant. That didn’t happen so she decided to go to University for 3 years and do some bulls~~~ degree while he supported her. Once that was finished she put it to good use by getting a job in a supermarket. All that debt so she could get out of working for 3 years.

Think of how many men have f~~~ed your wife, hint it will be at least three times more than she admits. All of them got it for free, you are the sucker who gets to pay full retail [AND!!!!!] get taken to the cleaners.

The only reason women get married is because you are a walking wallet. They do not give a s~~~ about you, you are a tool so that they can give up work. They think they deserve this because vagina.

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Oz-Bloke wrote:

I have a blue-pill mate who has been carrying his girlfriend financially for four-years while she constantly changes what she studies at university, always looking for her “groove”. She’s now dropped-out completely and isn’t working, expecting him to pick up the tab for everything. I’m waiting for the pregnancy announcement any day now so she can avoid being an active, contributing member of society for far longer. I often wonder how longer this vag would support my friend when his job contract ends and he needs reciprocal financial support. My money’s on far less than four years.

When I got married I paid off my ex wife’s student debt and bought a house for us. Soon as she was pregnant she didn’t work for 6 years while I supported us all. Month before she started work again she decided she wanted out and had a Facebook affair because she wasn’t happy.

I then got the privilige of paying the mortgage on the house and giving her alimnony while she moved her new boyfriend in.

Friend of mine married a woman 10 years older than him and she hated working so much that she was desperate to get pregnant. That didn’t happen so she decided to go to University for 3 years and do some bulls~~~ degree while he supported her. Once that was finished she put it to good use by getting a job in a supermarket. All that debt so she could get out of working for 3 years.

Think of how many men have f~~~ed your wife, hint it will be at least three times more than she admits. All of them got it for free, you are the sucker who gets to pay full retail and get taken to the cleaners.

The only reason women get married is because you are a walking wallet.

They do not give a s~~~ about you,

you are a tool so that they can give up work.

They think they deserve this because vagina.

Hats off to all above contributors of BRUTALLY HONEST TRUTH!!
Best f~~~ing thread in a long time.
Threads like this should be MANDATORY reading for all non ass-caps.

Just keep leaning back and reading laydeez, and we’ll pretend you don’t have Basset Hound ears for breasts.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 0]

This is a great opportunity!! Get out and cutoff ALL contact. If all you had to pay for was an engagement ring you got off easier than most. Good luck.

[Veritech AceParticipant 699]

Dip out while you can.

[AttonParticipant]

Make a U turn and speed off before you pay dearly.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[BokehParticipant 65]

My take from this wall of s~~~ this woman just threw at you:

1. She’s not your fiance anymore. Don’t call her that anymore. She’s now your “ex”.

2. She abandoned you at your weakest moment. You’re done. If you keep on with her, she knows no matter how horribly your life becomes, she can bail at any moment, and it’s your fault.

3. She didn’t even give you the god damned courtesy of giving an honest reaction to her bulls~~~, and created a fantasy of you being abusive to rationalize it. There’s a term in psychology called “gas lighting”, which is changing the past, to benefit the present. “That’s not what happened”, etc. In this case – she’s gaslighting you in the future. She’s gaslighting your reaction before you have a chance to have any. This is pro level manipulation.

4. When a woman says “it’s not about money” – it’s about money. SHe’s giving you an ultimatum to get a new job, or she’s breaking the glass on her emergency back-up dick. (All women have them) If you stay with her, your relationship will now be based on your income – and you will be expected to perform. You’re basically guaranteeing a nasty divorce if you go back to her after this cute note she sent you.

5. She’s delusion. She thinks she can have a stress free life, in today’s modern world? Do you know what that means? Financial problems – your problem. Problem with the kids – your problem. Her car breaks down, your problem. House/furniture/clothing not good enough – your problem. She’s laying EVERYTHING in her f~~~ing life in your lap. Are you going to sit there and take that? Because if you go back to her now, every problem in her life is now yours to deal with and solve, because hey, she’s entitled to a stress free life. She’s INSANE. LEAVE.

I had something similar happen, the last time I attempted a long term relationship. Everything was great – made a good living, had a cool job and side work with bragging rights and perks, had a nice sports car, looked good, felt good, was good in bed – met a cute girl, everything was great for 3 years – and my father died, suddenly.

She went from awesome to “Bokeh isn’t fun anymore – I’m outta here.” She even refused to come to my father’s funeral. That conversation on the phone was one of the lowest points of my life, and I’ve sworn to never feel that way again.

My friend, you are at the point. This is rock bottom. You have a choice to make – her, and your b~~~~ in a jar in her purse, or freedom. Which side of the pit are you going to climb out of? You have allowed a woman to become so disrespectful of you, that she has the nerve to say these things to you. Bail. There’s no fixing this. She’ll never respect you now – unless you leave, because then she’ll see you have b~~~~ and a spine, and you’ll be attractive again. And you’ll keep saying no – because you f~~~ing deserve better. You deserve a LOT more than this bulls~~~.

The only response this letter deserves is silence. I’d never speak to any woman who said this to me again. I’d go home, pack my s~~~, put it in storage, and couch surf until I found a new place. This woman has reached a place in her mind where she has the upper hand over you, and it’s over, unless you sign up to be her peon for the rest of your life. She put her F~~~ING CAT ahead of you in her list of grievances!

But – it’s okay. You f~~~ed up. We’re here to help you back up, brush you off, and give you a back slap to get back in the game – without her.

[MelkiorrParticipant 200]

A princess doesn’t want to live poor.

[narwhalParticipant]

Agree with everything said here. However, I’ll throw a different look in case you’re still waffling.

– Her first sentence is in direct contradiction to the commitment. You cannot hold the title of fiancé if you are not sure if you want to be in a relationship with the person, much less married to them. I can understand if that’s hard to accept, and sure, she could be just trying to manipulate you. Regardless, you must take her at her word and accept that she is breaking off the engagement. She needs to be responsible for her words.

– Second, she is a horrible communicator. She is all over the place and contradicting herself. She said she wants to do her own thinking in one sentence, then she wants to be oblivious to anything around her in the next.

– She only seems to be aware of how she feels. Not once does she mention how you may be feeling being out of work or anything of that nature. That is not the sign of someone who is ready and preparing to make a vow to love someone else.

– last, I was going to suggest that you try and take something from what she said as constructive criticism. There is usually an opportunity to learn and improve yourself with these sort of things. However, I honestly couldn’t find it. There may be something bothering that you could change that might make you happier as well, but it’s buried in pages if it’s there at all.

Because I’m sure you’re emotional tied to her, it’s difficult to just walk away. Perhaps the best is simply get your head in the right place, then ask her to clearly tell you what the hell she wants, give her the exit she wants, and start getting on with your life.

Ok. Then do it.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

This is the best thing to happen to you in a while! You’re free! NOW RUN. NO CONTACT NO NOTHING.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Be Her DaddyParticipant 410]

“Run for the hills-pick up your feet and lets go.”

That’s my advice. It’s a tough and s~~~ty circumstance to be in and you can do whatever is best for you, here is my experience with that situation. It all started with her questioning whether she wanted to be in a relationship with me anymore or ever get married.

I was in a relationship with a woman for about 6 years and she became indecisive about continuing a relationship after about 4 years and I’m sure much earlier, but 5 years was when we started to have these little talks. I was a total loser and did everything I could to convince her to stick around and that we would fix things up and all that nonsense. Those last 2 years were hell on me, mentally, physically and emotionally. She had graduated college with her degree in women’s studies and creative writing and couldn’t get a job anywhere so started to become extra bitter and mean. Things quickly deteriorated.

When she got a job 45 miles from her home she told me she was going to move because she “didn’t deserve” to have to commute. Like a sucker I moved closer to her and commuted about 35 miles to my work and then eventually bought a home about 4 miles down city streets to her work. When I surprised her with by taking her over there after I had closed the sale, her first words were literally “This isn’t what I wanted. I don’t want to be tied down to this area. I am applying for jobs in NYC and LA and if I get one you will have to figure out how to keep our relationship going. You’re the one who made this mistake” LMFAO!!!!!

That was it for the relationship. She kept me away from all of her new friends and coworkers, I never met any of them, ever. She began drinking 5+ nights a week after work with these people and would grace me with her presence 1 weekday night per week and sometimes a Sunday if I had been a real good boy that week… She would either be drunk or hungover and always in a real nasty mood. She crashed 2 cars driving drunk in a 6 month period and forced me to white knight and run damage control for her on those incidents. This made me try harder to “win her back” as I thought of it to myself…. “This was the woman I am going to marry and I love her. She is just having some issues that we can work out together with a little time and effort.” I tried to reason with myself.

That never worked out and completely destroyed my emotions, made me feel like a weak little pussy and added a lot of anger and stress to my life. Not to mention I wasted nearly 2 years trying to fix the problems that were inevitably unfixable. Eventually one day she invited me to a Chili’s for happy hour and told me she had met someone else and this was the last time we would ever talk to each other. Right there at the bar for everyone to hear and see. That’s how she ended a 6 year relationship with the man she dated from freshman year in college until the careers and home buying stages of life.

Currently I am still stuck here where I bought my home to be close to her work. She’s been gone for 5 years now. I have made a killing on the place, but am still not in a position to sell just yet. My plan is to sell my place here in California and buy a home and land in cash in North Carolina and live mortgage free. MGTOW has helped me realize that I can do something like that and enjoy my life, rather than be caught up in the rat race watching life sail by because I have to keep a woman happy, who demands to live in a place where the median home is $800,000+ that she can never afford on her woman’s studies degree, so she can put more value into material BS, and not quality of life. I like to go fishing, camping, hiking, travel to National Parks and places of scenic beauty, not go to some city and go wine tasting and eat at fancy restaurants like 95% of the women here in California like to do on my wallet.

It’s your decision, but in my situation it didn’t get better from that point, and by that point, it was already irreparable.

[RagDollRatParticipant 57]

bigboy83 wrote:

Welcome to the women cant survive the tough times club. Thick and thin, rich and poor, and she was going to say, “I do.”

thats actually a really good point

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

That’s someone you cannot count on, cannot trust. Move on and be thankful you dodged a bullet.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

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