So I'm free of my Relations~~~

[22DeeboiParticipant 259]

So today my girlfriend whom I’ve been on and off again for the past 5 years has finally left me.  I didn’t even feel bad for it. She left because I was talking to other girls on okcupid even though I haven’t met any of em. For awhile I thought it was all starting to get good but I realized after a bit she started acting controlling, manipulative and just really emotional about everything. She deleted all my female contacts off my phone, started making rules so I couldn’t even talk to another female or even hug em and yet just told me that last week a bunch of guys were trying to talk to her. I didnt let it bother me. I was like yea they are and if you do something I will leave. For years she had blamed me for her insecurities, blaming everyone but herself for her shortcomings. (she has gained a lot of weight over the years) all the awhile trying to make sure I was “hers” when I told her I don’t belong to anybody. It’s suppose to be a relationship between two people. Not ownership. She never understood it. I had gotten to the point of starting to hate myself because how she made it seem constantly I had to cater to her every emotion instead of her being in control of her body, mind and soul. I felt I had to baby sit and be careful with my words. Constantly I had to make sure she was ok, constantly check in and all that bulls~~~, she would even go through my stuff which is invasion of property and just plain rude. But she didn’t think it was!! I didn’t feel I was free. I wasn’t free. Now I’m free and I feel a lot better. No stress, no expectations. Just me

[MantelarParticipant 77]

i’ve had a couple girlfriends like that, and i’ve always wondered if the unfaithful behavior they projected onto me had more to do with their own behavior than real insecurity.  in the end, it doesn’t matter, because either way they’re gone.

enjoy your freedom.  and don’t try to stuff the hole she leaves behind with anyone else any time soon…

[22DeeboiParticipant 259]

I wont brother, just wanna concentrate on myself and make myself better

[Elgos_GrimParticipant 254]

<small>I wont brother, just wanna concentrate on myself and make myself better</small>

Good for you man!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Free, free, free at at last!
I know how it feels. It’s great!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Congratulations man ! Awesome

PS. this game ending screen is hilarious

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[BDParticipant 1146]

22Deeboi wrote:

on and off again for the past 5 years

22Deeboi wrote:

(she has gained a lot of weight over the years

22Deeboi wrote:

She deleted all my female contacts off my phone

22Deeboi wrote:

started acting controlling, manipulative

22Deeboi wrote:

starting to hate myself because how she

22Deeboi wrote:

Constantly I had to make sure she was ok

22Deeboi wrote:

she would even go through my stuff w

Welcome 22Deeboi,

Endless red flags brother, you should have pulled the rip cord a long time ago. Our time is limited, and you already wasted enough on her, so never let her return.

One chance, per chick, per lifetime.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Anonymous 42]

22Deeboi wrote:

I felt I had to baby sit and be careful with my words.

Mangina walking……

 

 

MGTOW! Up hers!

With a little imagination and construction we MEN can do ANYTHING! WELCOME to MGTOW!

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