So, I think I may have had a form of Red Pill Rage

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Due to my lack of experience in certain way, I can in no way say what I have had recently, and now it is within me, can be classified as classic Red Pill Rage.  But it is a form of rage of some sort.  With this rage, which I am looking to harness as a power source to do things, I have a purpose and clarity in my YouTube channel.  This rage has two parts, the first part is the lack of useful information for single men to live lives as single.  Try to google “Single men” and “Single Christian Men” and you either get dating site, or articles by women on “Where have all the good men gone?” In short, it isn’t liberation of identity for a single man, but one where he has to be connected to a woman somehow.

A second one, which is arguably more major, is this BS I am seeing over and over and over in Churches that push single men to man up and get married.  Despite what may be best, and it really doesn’t benefit anyone personally, it is there.  This one REALLY, REALLY, REALLY… no REALLY.  Wait, did I say REALLY?  Well, yes REALLY gets on my nerves. I was dropping a bunch of F-Bombs at the computer seeing both of these yesterday when I was search the internet, trying to look up resources that were useful.

Here is my video on the rant:

Maybe it isn’t real Red Pill Rage, but I see it related and I consider it my form of it.  And with that, I am seeing a way to deal with stuff.  If individual groups want to focus on pet issues, I say let them.  MGTOW can have different flavors as I see it.  And now you know mine.  I am to try to get single men resources to try to help out, and live more content and better lives, and I want to rip churches a new one on this BS they are pushing that benefits no one.  Now, this may not be for too many here, but at least you know where I am heading with things.

Just consider I respect your rage now, more than I had in the past, not really experiencing it.  Now I just need to press on and be constructive with it.

Peace out all.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

I see and experience this often as well. The church must be more supportive of those who desire to be single and not use the Bible and scripture to shame those who have no desire to deal with women. The frustration and anger within me has subsided and I finally see eternal singlehood as a gift from God and not a curse to be shamed by. The willingness to perform an open and honest reflection of what God actually has planned for your life, rather than pigeonhole Him into your plans for naive dreams of bliss and happiness (be it marital or otherwise) is one of the many lessons MGTOW has taught me and more videos like yours need to address spirituality and bachelorhood. Less focus on “spinning plates” and taking advantage of perpetual female folly and immaturity and more on spiritual and mental growth for seeing the world as it really is. Only then can one avoid the nonsense this fallen world has to offer.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Fermat wrote:

I see and experience this often as well. The church must be more supportive of those who desire to be single and not use the Bible and scripture to shame those who have no desire to deal with women. The frustration and anger within me has subsided and I finally see eternal singlehood as a gift from God and not a curse to be shamed by. The willingness to perform an open and honest reflection of what God actually has planned for your life, rather than pigeonhole Him into your plans for naive dreams of bliss and happiness (be it marital or otherwise) is one of the many lessons MGTOW has taught me and more videos like yours need to address spirituality and bachelorhood. Less focus on “spinning plates” and taking advantage of perpetual female folly and immaturity and more on spiritual and mental growth for seeing the world as it really is. Only then can one avoid the nonsense this fallen world has to offer.

What you have said her resonates with me.  Thank you for your words.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[RoyDalParticipant]

It is indisputable that the modern church is pure blue pill. Mine has bishops in same-sex marriages. Go figure.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

And I see articles like this, which is an example of the mindset of marriage is the default for all men.  It is just a matter of degree.  It doesn’t matter if marriage fits a man or not, they have to do a sweeping generality it needs to be addressed.  This is NOT by a minister, just some blogger, but it reflects the atttitude:

http://geeksjourney.com/how-churches-today-abandoned-the-christian-single

See, apparently “abandoning the Christian single” is that you don’t get them a spouse.  I ended up commenting in the comments below about the issues with this, and the writer of that blog post said that marriage is the norm, and a rare exception to be single.  Idea is to get singles spouses so they can avoid porn, shacking up and so on.  Idea of being able to move past sex for single men was not on the radar apparently, I guess unless there is some biological dysfunction.  So, it looks like the air of True Forced Loneliness, and whining the church had to get singles a spouse.

Nope, not a single thought as to what is relevant to a man in his life, and what lifestyle would work, just some vague pleading for “the leadership of the church”.  Stuff like that is whining to the world to do something, rather than doing anything yourself.  This is the noise of the world, making vague demands that create a thought matrix of delusion because you aren’t aware of it, but assume it is real.

The Red Pill, as I see it, is when this thought matrix is interrupted and you begin to see the illusion that shapes the world around you.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[AFTParticipant 2726]

Red Pill Rage, felt the symptoms, I like the label, well done.

If any priest dared shame me with marriage, I would instantly point him in the right direction:
In Colossians 3:18 it says “Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.” So it is not me, but rather the unmarriageable women that are the problem. Modern women can’t reconcile with:

Ephesians 5:23 “For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.”

1 Timothy 2:12 “I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.”

Before my judgement I would like to ask God about:

Genesis 2:18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”

Was Eve a helper FIT for ADAM, is there any such UNICORN?

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[BeerParticipant 11832]

If I actually went to church and they tried to shame me into marriage I’d just laugh in their faces.  Probably 0% of the unwed women in there over the age of 20 are virgins, and half of the single ones have kids.  If I was a good christian man why should I have to settle for something other than a good, submissive christian woman?

[Anonymous 42]

My red pill rage comes in two forms; directly and ricochet. Directly is when I pull the knife out myself and bandage the wound. A ricochet is when years later I figure something out and realize how I was methodically used and abused. Being a kind hearted person to begin with is my weakness. Wolves can smell the blood of kindness from miles around. I completely stopped being generous and kind to women, ask yourself; how kind and generous have women have been to me? By rights and “equal” exchange, I should be plundering them like the little whores they are, but no, I cut my losses and abandoned them forever……   

AFT wrote:

Genesis 2:18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”

  That was spoken “before” the snake got in there and f~~~ed things up! I’m sure God agrees we MGTOW are much better off alone. We’re blessed to have survived being bitten by the viper.

Women are the downfall of men! No woman, no downfall! It’s that simple! Or do you need to be dropped over and over until you’re just a skin bag of broken bones and bloody pulp?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

As I am reading it, Jesus took marriage VERY seriously and said it was better not to, and make oneself as a eunich, than get married if one can’t get it to work.  And there is Proverbs 30:23 that says it is horrible to marry a woman who doesn’t know what it is like to be loved.

Yes, get a needy codependent woman as a wife, and you are asking for trouble.

And there are more, as I had in a video I did.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Get out of the church. I realize this may not be a popular sentiment but I view membership in an organized religion to be just as much at odds with MGTOW as is marriage.

To my mind, you can’t go your own way if you’ve got a wife and you can’t go your own way if you’ve got a God.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Stargazer wrote:

Get out of the church. I realize this may not be a popular sentiment but I view membership in an organized religion to be just as much at odds with MGTOW as is marriage. To my mind, you can’t go your own way if you’ve got a wife and you can’t go your own way if you’ve got a God.

I am hovering around the Eastern Orthodox Church, and they don’t have a problem with men not marrying.  That path is usually for the monk or hermit, but Bishops in the church come out of those men who don’t marry, because they were found better at tended to the needs of a Bishop (it isn’t like the Catholic Church with priests also).  In the Orthodox Church, unmarried men are honored, so it isn’t as odds.  I don’t view going my own way as an end in itself, but as the road to somewhere that fits me personally the best.

I can say, overall, I can agree with you mostly.  I am finding such a void in material.  I actually see an area I can do something in, particularly with men going the way of MGTOW, growing.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

I’m a Christian, and I can tell you why Churches are pushing for Marriage.

1.  Who is going to pay for all the babies make by the Pastor/Minister/Priest with the single ladies he made a mistake with?
2. Family men eat a lot of propaganda and are easier to convince to tithe to pay for that BMW the pastor is driving.
3.  Family men will help the “community” a lot more than a single guy.  Thus free labor.

Most Churches have abandoned the teachings of the Bible all together.  What they should be doing is supporting men who will not marry harlots.  As a Christian, you are not supposed to marry a woman who is not a Christian.  Bastard children, drug use, divorce, and other things that women are known for excludes them from being a Christian Woman.  Real Christians do not go to Church.  They may congregate with other Christians and have discussions, but they do not go to a building just to go to a building.  This concept was forced upon upstart Christians by the remnants of the Roman Empire, which is now called the Catholic Church.  It is a form of control and manipulation.  Nothing controls someone quite like threatening their eternal soul.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I went east with my Christianity, because I just had big issues with a judicial framework on the nature of salvation, and saw churches in the Churches of Christ split over tons of petty doctrine.  The Churches of Christ are Protestantism on steroids.  The East split from Rome before anyone else. So, where I am is my own quirks, but I do have centuries of patterns I can look to, and a long tradition of Christian men going MGTOW away from the world, and women, and it is honored and revered.  I am going to see what I can pull out of the legacy here, that would be of value to MGTOW.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

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