So I Finally find a place that understands where i am Coming from.

[CursedgenieParticipant 26]

I always knew i was Mgtow, just never had a name to put to what i was feeling and thinking.

Where do i begin i would like to say this site has educated me in so many things and areas that i never thought existed, it is just how should i put it without sounding lame but a goldmine or goodstuff, without all the crap piled on for flavor it is direct and to the point just the way i like it.

My True awakening came when i was set to get engaged…. yes stupid me i had the ring and all ( but as luck would have it, mgtow though i didn’t know the name back then clicked). She started talking about having kids, which on numerous occassions i told her when we first started dating i never wanted them and she said was “you’ll come around ” that should of been my first warning and i missed it.

The second one was when it was coming close to proposing, her family knew because being raised by my grandmother(not mother i will explain why my mother also sent me mgtow later) i asked her dad for permission etc etc so the family knew and one let it slip. she started talking around that time of me moving over to her side of town and selling my house and getting a new job, cause she didn’t want to be to far away from her family, and bang thats when it clicked, i looked at her brother inlaw and her sister and he always used to joke mock about never living more than 5 minutes away from the parents, underneath his jokes were resentment a warning. Thats when i went screw this i am out, why put so much effort into something which if doesn’t work out i am the only one inconvienced.

And That was my major awakening to what the world has become and why i opted out

Another interesting factoid if you have read this far is that my biological mother( i no longer call her my mother for reasons coming up) i think started the ball rolling of why i am even more sceptical of women. I remember from when i was young i never saw my dad and from since i could remember she always used to say to me and my brother if your dad wanted to see you he would. i only found out 5 yrs ago through the grape vine that she had a dvo against him which means he couldn’t contact us at all. but yet she was always blaming him saying he pretty much didn’t want us which made me grow up hating my father. My Mother didn’t care how i felt about my father all she did was use us as weapons to get money out of him and emotionally hurt him.

I have a few more stories but it feels good to just get some of that off my chest to like minded people i am noticing alot more people are mgtow they just haven’t woken up yet.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Welcome. Hard times and a hard life …. are also character building … they give a man …. that makes it through …. inner strength and a sense of whats right.

You found a place of like minds ☺

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Cursedgenie wrote:

i only found out 5 yrs ago through the grape vine that she had a dvo against him which means he couldn’t contact us at all. but yet she was always blaming him saying he pretty much didn’t want us which made me grow up hating my father. My Mother didn’t care how i felt about my father all she did was use us as weapons to get money out of him and emotionally hurt him.

I can relate.

 

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[UntamedParticipant]

@cursedgenie Welcome!

Treat yourself 🙂

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 42]

I like your thread title; “So I Finally find a place that understands where i am Coming from.”

To answer that in as few words as possible (2 words)

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