So, here goes my little story

[WandererParticipant 11]

Hello everyone!

So where to start ? I’m 32 now and sit here alone sipping my green tea in the morning,
but it wasn’t always calm like that. If i rewind my life 15 years back, I see myself
quitting high school because I was fed up with one of the female teachers, because I
disagreed with her on some technical matters.

When I was 18-19, my first real “love” came. It seemed that we could live together
and did so. After few years, daughter was born. Things went downhill from there. We
moved to larger apartment and I kept doing the daily grind (had good paying job in
the automotive).

The days were like:
1. Work
2. Buy some s~~~
3. Get back to messy place (she became increasingly messier)
4. Try to maintain mental sanity
5. Rinse & repeat

No, I won’t suddenly start to watch retarded TV shows with you, because I never did that.
Her interest in all the cool things (metal, literature, hiking) was gone. I was suddenly
stuck with someone else and someone with whom I didn’t wanted to be. But I kept going,
because one doesn’t breaks family or does he ? I switched jobs at some point and went
back to IT industry.

My days were like:
1. Work
2. Beer
3. Buy some s~~~ & take daughter outside
4. Do some s~~~ outside (we had a band, had a small workshop in the basement, etc.)
5. Rinse & repeat

I held for some more years. But had a mental breakdown in 2013. Heavy depression set in.
I was put on medication and was at home, staring at the wall and trying to figure out
what the f~~~ did I do wrong. After some time I gathered my remaining strength and switched
companies, worked in IT again, but this time I spent lot of time travelling abroad.
Nothing has changed, I still came back to messy place when I finally arrived back home on
the end of the week and went for a beer and tried to be with the daughter on the weekends.

Then there was another mental breakdown that lasted longer. It was just my body telling me
that it’s all wrong. I couldn’t handle this anymore. You just shouldn’t pick up her hair
from the clogged shower plumbing every f~~~ing day (and I told her to do that every f~~~ing
day). I wanted to use kitchen table for dining again (it served as her “shelf” for her mess).

So I quit. Packed my books and CDs into my old Volvo and moved in back to mother’s house at
age of 30. My sister just moved out of the house, so it had free flat on the first floor.
We never married, so the situation was without any legal issues. I just left her all the s~~~
and started with clean table. I pay only minimalist alimony, since i get daughter exactly 50%
of days in a month.

Later I met a woman in her late 30’s, she had a son of same age like my daughter and we were
going along it seems. Lived together briefly, but I saw the same manipulative patterns emerging
again. So I quit again.

Then there were some others, I quit it all. I don’t want this, I f~~~ing don’t.

These days I’m working as a IT freelancer and spend rest of the time doing cool s~~~ with my
daughter. We travel a lot, go out hiking & camping and generally do s~~~ our way and It will
stay that way.

Lessons were learned. Value your freedom and yourself. Shape your life the way you want it.
Think critically all the f~~~ing time! Majority of women have very little to offer to a
reasonable man these days.

Forgive me my non-native English and take care.

Tom

If you're going through hell, keep going. - Winston Churchill

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome home Wanderer, nice intro you will enjoy the forums. 🍺

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 7]

Hello and welcome home.

[ghostParticipant]

Thanks for sharing your story. Welcome and enjoy!

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Welcome brother! You’re english is fine. Relax and unwind.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings W,

Appreciate your introduction.

Your perspectives, explanations, and lessons learned are good examples for other men.

Wanderer wrote:

The days were like:
1. Work
2. Buy some s~~~
3. Get back to messy place (she became increasingly messier)
4. Try to maintain mental sanity
5. Rinse & repeat

Nice summery & visual of married life.

I would like to see a topic in the Blue Pill Hell section of the Forums called “What is it with wives and buying s~~~?”

It is interesting that the only difference between the messy womyn and the rare tidy womyn is that the neater one will throw out the s~~~.

However, the rare tidy womyn is still the same as her untidy sister in many ways. One of them, is that they both love to goes out and buy s~~~, especially using their “Provider’s” hard earned money and/ or credit.

And none of these womyn are into repair/ maintenance.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Good summary, good perspectives and very good English.
And “Manipulated Man”….ain’t that the truth about women and repair/maintenance??!
My bloody useless ex managed to pour 2 litres of coolant into the bloody oil tank ffs!! I only found out when she came into the house looking smug telling me how the car ” needed loads of fluids “…took me nearly a full day to put that right!

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Princekie wrote:

….ain’t that the truth about women and repair/maintenance??!

Cars, the Garage, mechanical rooms… are all Man’s Country.

Woman do not belong in Man’s Country.

When I wrote the reply above, I was actually thinking about “Woman’s Work” where wives once made some efforts in the home which was considered their responsibility/ honor.

When did wives lose the ability, need, and willingness to sew a button?

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 3]

hello and welcome! glad to see another brother…

[Anonymous 43]

Excellent English brother. Excellent story

Sorry, not into beer, but I’ll refill yer green tea

umm after I go to the store.

Welcome Amigo! um I’ll be right back

[UntamedParticipant]

Thanks for the intro, Wanderer. I’m glad you found some normalcy after trying the “thing to do”. Society tries to convince a Man he needs to put up with things that’ll make him go nuts and broke to be a “good father and husband” without letting it be known that a father’s and a husband’s roles are reprehensible and practically rejected by the leftist social engineers.
What they don’t want to acknowledge is that weemins have abandoned the traditional roles that made of them ladies but they’re still expecting men to behave like gentlemen. One weight two measures.
I’m a gentleman when I meet a lady but you can imagine how often that happens.
Welcome to MGTOW, bro. For Men ONLY!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Welcome to the jungle.

[Anonymous 3]

Welcome!
Untamed your on point. The social engineers & mainstream media have destroyed even the idea of respecting a man. We are seen as the enemy to all progress when in fact everything you see was brought into being by men.
Look at the tombstones in Arlington cemetery. How many women do you think are buried there. I could go on, but the fact is Red Pill knowledge extends far beyond women & feminism into how things are in the world & society in general.
I want to say also there was a time when woman loved their home, the security it gave them & kept it as a welcoming place for all who entered, now we have the era of Man caves.
I love my little place. Its Sunday morning with a fresh cup of on the stove old fashioned home brewed coffee.
No one here to tell me how to fix it & I’ll clean up the grounds myself.
F~~~ all that Blue Pill nonsense. What is better than sovereignty, solitude, peace & quiet right in the midst of the s~~~hole that we call the modern world

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Anonymous wrote:

…..The social engineers & mainstream media have destroyed even the idea of respecting a man….

Remember that s~~~ about womyn refusing to “Make A Sandwich?”

It is something that requires NO cooking skills.

And these Commie Feminists want everyone to believe that it is too much.

Anonymous wrote:

………What is better than sovereignty, solitude, peace & quiet right in the midst of the s~~~hole that we call the modern world.

Amen, Brother!!!

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 8]

Welcome to MGTOW brother.

You speak English well, there is no cause to apologize.

[UntamedParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome!
Untamed your on point. The social engineers & mainstream media have destroyed even the idea of respecting a man. We are seen as the enemy to all progress when in fact everything you see was brought into being by men.
Look at the tombstones in Arlington cemetery. How many women do you think are buried there. I could go on, but the fact is Red Pill knowledge extends far beyond women & feminism into how things are in the world & society in general.
I want to say also there was a time when woman loved their home, the security it gave them & kept it as a welcoming place for all who entered, now we have the era of Man caves.
I love my little place. Its Sunday morning with a fresh cup of on the stove old fashioned home brewed coffee.
No one here to tell me how to fix it & I’ll clean up the grounds myself.
F~~~ all that Blue Pill nonsense. What is better than sovereignty, solitude, peace & quiet right in the midst of the s~~~hole that we call the modern world

That’s exactly right, Jonny Zero. The haters of Human Being have worked hate and politically correct speech into their death-cult agenda they misnamed feminism where only hate speech against Men is tolerated.
They’ve destroyed the Family, good men and boys in a bid to feminize the Western world and they’re STILL not happy with their s~~~ work, crying and moaning about “innaqualities”.
Someone should’ve told them that Man and Woman are two DIFFERENT creatures who fall on two different sides of reality, the masculine and the feminine, and hence cannot be equalled to each other but would they have listened? I doubt it.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 3]

There is a biological reality which the feminists & their Blue Pill minions have totally disregarded.
In my view,which may in fact be horribly out dated & politically incorrect is the sexes are supposed to complement each. There are still just 2 of them.
Today we have gender confusion & alphabet soup. ( a sign of the times)

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Welcome home Tom.

BTW. Your English is quite good.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Welcome Wanderer. Thanks for sharing your story.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[LuckieLuukeParticipant 9]

Thanks for sharing your story. Im 34 and would love to have a family, kids. But im starting to realize there is no woman who can maintain a healthy relationship. Thing is I still really want kids. My brother is having one so i guess that will have to be enough. So I envy you, you have a kid 50% of your time and dont need to put up with living with a woman, enjoy and be thankful that. Im thinking if i could adopt a kid as single parent somehow but I think you need to share the work it takes. Sounds like if you stayed with your ex she would slowly grind you down and broke you. No man can stand up and fight women at their own psychological games, ive tried and failed at that as well. You are finally free! Let me refill that green tea of yours and enjoy the taste of freedom!

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