Short anecdote as to if a girl would keep a flame alive, or go for ego boost

[LightBringerParticipant 440]

Kind of a short little story here that my MGTOW bros would like. So back in high school there was the geeky/awkward girl that literally stalked me and ‘loved’ me. I didn’t like her and generally avoided her. She got really hot like at 22, did swimsuit modeling (we were NOT in contact after HS, I merely laughed it off as ironic).

I recently thought about her and messaged her on facebook with my fake profile, it was short, saying who it was, and basically hi. She responded pretty fast. I wrote back we should meet up sometime – silence out of her.

At this point, I was laughing ‘you bitch’ about why would she respond once, but not again? I decided to send a short message about ‘I’ll be in town, hit me with your number and we can meet up’ at this point there was two things that would happen.
1: The girl that once loved me would still like me after 10+ years
2: Having rode the c~~~ carousel (confirmed) I was just another guy who ‘couldn’t resist me hehe!~’

I checked. Message read. No response.
#2 it is. I am kind of surprised, but AWALT so what else is there to say.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

LightBringer wrote:

I am kind of surprised,

I’m not.

LightBringer wrote:

I recently thought about her and messaged her on facebook with my fake profile, it was short, saying who it was, and basically hi. She responded pretty fast. I wrote back we should meet up sometime – silence out of her.

Its’ classic and predictable. Have been through similar when a VERY special old flame contacted and asked ME out. We really meant something to each other once. When I agreed and thought it would be fun to see her again she TOTALLY did a 180…. and unloaded 5 long paragraphs of ISSUES, ISSUES, ISSUES, and was like “It was a mistake to ask you out”.

I said “Honey, you’re looking at 40 in a couple of years. Are you still trying to play those infantile come-here-go-away games at your age? Don’t you girls get TIRED of that s~~~?”

Never heard from her again.

Good.

Your story is not a one off. And neither is mine. Not by a long shot. I could take about a dozen more like that. It’s the “imagining” they get off on. When you CONFIRM it and make it real, they freak themselves the f~~~ out with all kinds of silly baggage that’s got nothing to do with you.

Don’t let it mean anything to you.

The f~~~ing mental gymnastics women torture themselves with are unreal.
Her personal happiness is not my f~~~ing cardio.

You say “It would be nice to see you again”… and she does backflips in her mind about what that “MEANS”.
It doesn’t MEAN anything. It means “it would be nice to see you again”. That’s it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

LightBringer wrote:

She got really hot like at 22,

[…]

I checked. Message read. No response.

Of course not. She’ll respond when she’s 32. Wait and see.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

When a woman wants a man and is rejected, either real or implied, her fantasy becomes “Someday he’ll want me and he’ll be sorry he rejected me. I’ll show him.” I’m guessing that’s all she wanted was to have you “want” her and then she could not want you back. It’s why they have those makeover episodes on those Oprah and Jenny shows. “I’m sexy now and want to show my ex/crush what he could have had” crap. It’s childish and just shows they never forget and never grow up.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Predictable. women are allways f~~~ing up and trying to mess with your mind.

[RoyDalParticipant]

uchibenkei wrote:

“Someday he’ll want me and he’ll be sorry he rejected me. I’ll show him.”

I have heard with my own ears almost those exact words and more than a few times too.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[LightBringerParticipant 440]

Hahaha, yeah, so for her it was a ‘victory’ that after all these years she knew I would come ‘crawling back’.

The irony is the only reason I even thought of her is a friend showed me she was on tinder and looked really worn out and I figured I could get a quick smash.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I’ll give you three stories like this, and these were not girlfriend / potential girlfriend situations.

1. A girl that will watch your house and dogs while you are on vacation. We used to use her in my married days. She “friended” me or whatever you do on LinkedIn. So a couple years go by and a few people at work are talking about going on vacation and don’t know what to do with their dogs. So I reach out to her to give her some business. Doing her a favor. No response. What is the point of connecting with someone if you don’t want the free business?

2. A girl that used to work for me. She left and moved a state over. She needed a reference, which I was happy to give. She is a good tax accountant and we were friends. About a month goes by and I had to message her to see if she got the job. She did, a little back and forth, and I said “if you are ever in town give me a call. Lunch is on me.” No response. I did her a favor and had to ask if she got the job.

3. A girl I worked with about 20 years ago. One I actually thought might be one of the few NAWALT’s I’ve ever known. Found out her job is being relocated and she was looking for contract work. I reached out to her and told her that I’d ask around. She’s a very nice person and a very good accountant. She responds back how happy she is to hear from me and says thanks. So I contact her again a few weeks later to see if she already knew someone at an accounting firm that would have the type of clients that could probably use her. Nothing.

Three different women, me doing THEM a favor, and get ignored. And, again, these aren’t women I was looking for ANYTHING from in return.

I don’t know if ALL women are like that, but the one’s I know sure seem to be.

Order the good wine

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I don’t know man…if one of the girls I had a crush on in high school that rejected me then found out I was doing well and got in touch with me 10 years later, I might chat for a minute on the phone or whatever just to see how life has been treating them, but I wouldn’t be interested in meeting up with them or dating them.

You only wanted to meet up with her because she got hot. What if she got fat and disgusting and had 3 kids to various Chads…you wouldn’t have contacted her to try to meet up.

[AttonParticipant]

Some things are best lost in the past.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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