She went from ignoring me to wanting my attention

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

There’s this thread floating around on the Reddit MGTOW – https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/3u8kkm/watch_what_happens/

I read it earlier this morning and was living by its principles today, and the funniest thing ever happened.

There is this girl, insanely gorgeous, in my class, who sort of flirted with me last year. She basically told me that if I was ever in her hometown, to hit her up and she’d show me around. This coming from a girl who I had met 3-4 hrs before. This was in blue-pill days. I was smitten.

Anyways, I thanked her for the offer, and a few days later sent her a message asking her to tell me more. Again, in blue-pill days.

She never responded.

Over the last year, her cold behavior remained. Outwardly she’d respond with a smile if I said hi, but my messages were read and not answered. Cold.

Few months ago- discovered MGTOW.

Today- discovered that article that I linked up there.

Incidentally, today, in my class we had a conference where 12-15 different groups of two were presenting some projects.

She and her partner (a guy) were presenting in one part of the classroom.
I decide that I don’t give a fk about her anymore, and I go to the poster and they start presenting to me (just the two of them and me).

While she’s talking, I’m not looking at her. I’m looking directly at the presentation. Meanwhile, when the guy talks, I give him good amount of eye contact out of respect to him. After all, he’s caused me no grievance.

And the weirdest thing happens- I notice she keeps getting closer to me. Like she literally went from 5-8 ft away to standing right next to me when presenting.

And then, when she sees that I’m still not looking at her or giving her any attention, she touches my arm and tries to grab my attention like that!

And it was at that moment that I realized that- she doesn’t DESERVE my attention. I give my attention to people who are kind and helpful, not to ice-cold people like her.

There you have it guys. It’s proven. Don’t care about a girl, and she’ll beg for your attention.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Also, if you guys have any similar stories, please share!

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Too true. Hell, just in the past couple of weeks, women seem more interested in me now that I don’t give a f~~~. Attention is like food for them, they will starve if you don’t give them attention. Their lives’ revolve around attention, everything they do from dressing to the way they act is for attention.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

sounds like she was into you, but tried to play hard to get.

and then when you started ignoring her, she probably realized how horribly wrong her manipulations were going!
😛

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Attention is like food for them, they will starve if you don’t give them attention.

Amen. I love this newfound power!

нσтησσв wrote:

sounds like she was into you, but tried to play hard to get.

I dunno man- she is WAY out of my league, and there are hundreds of guys with way higher SMV than me near her each day.

I appreciate the compliment though!

[HitmanParticipant]

When you starve attention whores they get hungry! 🙂

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Oneforfreedom wrote:

she is WAY out of my league

It seems like you are baiting, man. You got almost 600 points on this site but haven’t seen KeyMaster or someone else thrash this concept, yet? Men are generally way out of women’s league. What is she bringing to the table? Her looks? Did you take a glance at The Wall picture thread that has been commented in as of late? Did you read the thread about whores in Greece f~~~ing for a sandwich? Have you read about surrogacy costs in India? I mean what in the f~~~ing f~~~ do women offer for you to be like “Omg, they are like, out of my league”. The problem I have faced in life is *no woman has ever been in my league*.

[HitmanParticipant]

Amen to that snake! !!

[HitmanParticipant]

Can someone please explain the “points ” .. ?

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Hitman wrote:

Can someone please explain the “points ” .. ?

If you post something others like, they +1 you and you get the point. You see it on your left sidebar.

Snake wrote:

It seems like you are baiting, man. You got almost 600 points on this site but haven’t seen KeyMaster or someone else thrash this concept, yet? Men are generally way out of women’s league. What is she bringing to the table? Her looks? Did you take a glance at The Wall picture thread that has been commented in as of late? Did you read the thread about whores in Greece f~~~ing for a sandwich? Have you read about surrogacy costs in India? I mean what in the f~~~ing f~~~ do women offer for you to be like “Omg, they are like, out of my league”. The problem I have faced in life is *no woman has ever been in my league*.

Not sure what you mean by baiting? Does that mean trolling? I must admit, perhaps I am not as red-pill as I thought I was since I made that statement.

What concept are you talking about?
Yeah she’s bringing her looks.
I have not glanced at the Wall picture thread but I’ll go there after this response.

Can you elaborate on what you meant by surrogacy costs?

[HitmanParticipant]

Thanks Oneforfreedom. ! I thought the numbers next to the star icon was a reflection of when you joined the mgtow site. ..duh….I’m literally laughing out loud right now. .thanks again brother! …btw. .YOU are the “prize “..not the woman! ..

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

Weird…on my trip to colorado to visit the ex wife and daughter I felt like women were responding to me in a nicer way, giving me more attention. It was sorta creepy, like wtf, I was always invisible and now? This creepy older flight attendant lady asked if she could sit on my lap and I actually told her to her face, “No Thank You” in a tone indicating disgust and I’m sure she and everyone around understood it. Ex wife and I went to a restaurant and this overweight t~~~ hanging out weightress couldn’t help but fall all over herself, couldn’t speak correctly, and nearly fell backwards over a chair after asking us if we needed anything else. WTF?

It sorta sucks…you don’t want the attention so you ignore, but then that’s all you get. It’s like BunkerMode said, go stealthy if you wanna escape them, it’s the only way, otherwise they get curious when you don’t seem to give a s~~~.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

The worst possible thing for man to do is utterly ignore an attention whore.

They’re reactions never get old.

[Anonymous 11]

I’ve had ones do this to me repeatedly over the years. You ignore them, and they won’t leave you alone. The second you acknowledge her she’s gone.

One and done is my rule now. I don’t treat people I really like that way be they male or female.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

MalfunctionNeedInput wrote:

Weird…on my trip to colorado to visit the ex wife and daughter I felt like women were responding to me in a nicer way, giving me more attention. It was sorta creepy, like wtf, I was always invisible and now? This creepy older flight attendant lady asked if she could sit on my lap and I actually told her to her face, “No Thank You” in a tone indicating disgust and I’m sure she and everyone around understood it. Ex wife and I went to a restaurant and this overweight t~~~ hanging out weightress couldn’t help but fall all over herself, couldn’t speak correctly, and nearly fell backwards over a chair after asking us if we needed anything else. WTF?

Let me ask you something- you weren’t wearing a wedding ring anymore were you? Perhaps the waitress and flight attendant saw that?

Or did you start working out with a higher intensity than before? Perhaps you were more fit?

Anonymous wrote:

One and done is my rule now. I don’t treat people I really like that way be they male or female.

I like this rule. A lot.

[narwhalParticipant]

Regarding the “out of my league” comment, I don’t think that way any more. It implies that you are not worth what she has to offer, or you think that she can do better then what you have to offer. Why make those decisions for her? Instead decide what you want to do, and what has value to you. Being that she’s objectively attractive, she’s probably got an annoying social life and other guys competing for her attention. Big turns off for me. She’s probably high maintenance. Not an issue for one night if she’s easy, but huge drawback if your going to invest more then that.

Don’t just assume it’s not possible, just evaluate the potential the way you would with anybody else. You may find you’re about as interested in her, other then eye candy, as you are the fat girl.

Ok. Then do it.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Oneforfreedom wrote:

There you have it guys. It’s proven. Don’t care about a girl, and she’ll beg for your attention.

That’s good man, but you don’t ignore them to get laid or attention. You ignore them because they are c~~~s, and they can f~~~ right off somewhere else.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Snake wrote:

Oneforfreedom wrote:

she is WAY out of my league

The problem I have faced in life is *no woman has ever been in my league*.

Muh f~~~ing n~~~~ right here

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

narwhal wrote:

Regarding the “out of my league” comment, I don’t think that way any more. It implies that you are not worth what she has to offer, or you think that she can do better then what you have to offer. Why make those decisions for her? Instead decide what you want to do, and what has value to you. Being that she’s objectively attractive, she’s probably got an annoying social life and other guys competing for her attention. Big turns off for me. She’s probably high maintenance. Not an issue for one night if she’s easy, but huge drawback if your going to invest more then that.

Don’t just assume it’s not possible, just evaluate the potential the way you would with anybody else. You may find you’re about as interested in her, other then eye candy, as you are the fat girl.

This is a very important point. I believe that I am devaluing myself, in large part, because of my asian heritage.

Bear with me- My asian culture values virginity until marriage. So for decades, men in my culture are willing to “settle” for anything and marry, just so that they can have sex. and the process of finding a girl often entails them devaluing themselves.

I believe that this mechanism is still at work inside me because, you guessed it, I have not had sex yet/am still a virgin and I do not think objectively here.

That’s why I believe I have this propensity to put women on a pedestal and am readily making statements like “out of my league.” It’s a battle against decades of cultural indoctrination, and that still peeks out sometimes.

The only solution, as I can see it, is getting laid. But at the same time, people tend to put a high premium on their virginity, so I’m not sure if I want to just “throw it away” to any random person. Do you see my dilemma?

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

Oneforfreedom wrote:

Let me ask you something- you weren’t wearing a wedding ring anymore were you? Perhaps the waitress and flight attendant saw that?

Or did you start working out with a higher intensity than before? Perhaps you were more fit?

I have been working out more and it may have a little bit to do with that but I am by no means jacked. I haven’t worn my wedding ring since before June of this year. Maybe it’s the chest hair and grey in my beard. Who can say with women, right?

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

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