She seems like a nawalt but my insticts say otherwise

[Anonymous 1]

the worst cases of AWALT is when you are convinced she is a unicorn – and she is damn close – but then one night she is suffering depression and drinks too much and spreads her legs for someone else. I learned it the hard way, even the unicorns are AWALT whether they want to be or not 🙁

[Fr JackParticipant 926]

She is not everything you want in a woman, she is letting you think that she is everything that you want. She seems to have you figured out, and the bj but no nooky thing is just a rod to reel you in with.

[Anonymous 0]

Thanks for the advice beer.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

“…and she’s submissive, humble and caring.”

For now…

“We have had oral sex but not anything more than that because she is a virgin (So she claims).”

Thanks for that. I just spit coffee out on my desk.

“To be honest i really do enjoy her company and she hasn’t brought up any discussions about kids, commitment or marriage”

Oh, she will. She is probably HOPING that YOU will. The best way to manipulate someone is to make them think something is that someone’s own idea or goal.

“In summary, she’s seems like a perfect ‘nawalt’ But my instincts tell me otherwise.”

All women are either like that or capable of changing. Women are as changeable as the seas.

“Relationships are usually like this for the first 6 months then it all goes downhill.”

Otherwise known as the “honeymoon phase”.

“The stories on divorce, marraige and relationships on this mgtow platform have me terrified.”

They should.

“She may be sincere and may seem like a nawalt but someone said nawalt are like unicorn, they don’t exist.”

You won’t know what she is really like until you marry and/or divorce her.

I don’t think that women should have an acting award in the Oscars, because all women are good actors. Giving a woman an Oscar for acting is like giving a fish an award for swimming.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[markParticipant 451]

Help me understand.

She is (and I quote) “everything you want in a woman”. Yet you want sex and she is not giving it to you. Therefore, she is NOT everything you want in a woman. Far from it.

I am going to go “white knight” mode. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. Nothing like seeing each other naked to find the truth about each other. I REFUSE women who don’t put up by the third date for a simple reason: If you don’t want sex is because:

a) You are not sexually attracted to me = No chemistry = No relationship.

b) You are sexually attracted to me but want to wait = You want to put me though hoops like some circus animal. I am a human being I deserve respect. You do not show me respect = No relationship.

c) You are sexually attracted to me but you are “not one of those” = I am one of those. Those who express love and care with my body and soul = We are obviously at different speeds, or in different tracks = We do not complement each other = No relationship.

She is NOT everything you want. You just deny your own instincts to fit her to your model, maybe out of fear that other women will be worse. You are lowering your standards and your own self-respect.

You are NOT in a relationship. You have been kidnapped. And your jailer wants to meet your family? NO WAY. First sex then we will see.

[GetaPoasParticipant 73]

Trust your instincts. I’m stuck in a relationship I don’t want. I say that cause a few weeks in I was like welp, time to bail… blocked her, ghosted her, and my f~~~ing beta-s~~~ friends felt bad for her. Now mind you they’re good friends, they have my back, they pay things for me, they’re family not just friends but they’re extremely naive about women.

So for their sake, I gave her a second chance. I figured if nothing else I could prove to them she was just another lying c~~~.

Well… I was surprised a little to say this wasn’t your average saiyan warrior of sluts and bitches. This was something new. This girl is cray-cray and acts like if we don’t get married soon her uterus will turn into a pumpkin or something. (Mind you she physically CAN’T get pregnant. At least not easily… she’s admitted to trying but still wants too. What the f~~~ is wrong with women? She does realize this raises the possibility of retard babies right? I’m not claiming retard baby… I’ll lie and say she cheated on me if I have too.)

Everytime she p~~~es me off I get more irate, more abusive with her, and she f~~~ing begs me to take her back, she willingly throws herself at me and says she’ll suck my b~~~~ empty just don’t leave.

Last fight we had she f~~~ing cut herself. I’ve never dealt with someone this self-destructive before so I’m like “EEEHHHHHH”. You know, I’m not a monster. I don’t want someone to hurt themselves. You know…unless they’re a moderator lol.

But this is a burden I don’t need. I work all the damn time, I’m tired, I’m getting older, I don’t need this s~~~. And if she’s this unstable she sure as hell doesn’t need a kid.

Dat’ pussy is always on speed dial do’h… but working 50 or more hours a week has really made the pusspuss lose it’s value on the stock market… I’d rather have some days off and sleep, or go to board game night, or basically HAVE A MOTHERF~~~ING LIFE over spending every waking moment catering to pusspuss. Which I blatantly told her that half the time when she texts or calls me I’m going to ignore her. Because my life isn’t going to revolve around work and humoring her.

Which she is complying with. She now just accepts when I say gotta’ blast like Jimmy Neutron she goes along with it. Because the Chad c~~~ is that addictive I guess I du’nno.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

GetaPoas wrote:

Last fight we had she f~~~ing cut herself. I’ve never dealt with someone this self-destructive before so I’m like “EEEHHHHHH”. You know, I’m not a monster. I don’t want someone to hurt themselves. You know…unless they’re a moderator lol.

Would you put your c~~~ into a garbage disposal and trust that the wall switch won’t get hit?

Don’t date or f~~~ crazy; it is like sticking your dick in a garbage disposal. The hole is dirty and probably has all kinds of microbes you don’t know about from everything else that’s been in it, and the next thing she cuts after herself might be your dick.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

As I read through some of the advice and comments here, one thing has struck me…..

Are we not men? Are you a man? Why are you waiting for her to bring up marriage or any topic of which you ultimately decide if you are good with or not.

YOU bring up sex and marriage, (or any topic, anytime!) and continually let her know what “You’re” good with and what you’re not!

Tell her what a great guy you are, and what you want and what your needs are!……………. Let her know your position on ANY topic

Who’s milking this cow anyway?
Show her how you feel about her, and how You want things to go.
Show her how it can be done….. Enough of these Games! and letting a woman Drive the bus or any Gawd dam thing that effects you and your life!

This isn’t about ultimatums, that’s for women. This is about her Respecting You. If she is ever going to, this will be why…

IF she moves on, … THANK HER!

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