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At he gym that I frequent there is a particular Latin couple where the male is about 45, and I would say that his wifey is early 40’s. They have been married about 20 years, and they have a couple/few kids at high school age and above.
He’s an average looking dude with a thin build and the usual bald head with a beard. I don’t know him all that well, but from what I understand he’s a “good” guy. She’s also very friendly in general, and has some outstanding genetics. She looks a whole lot younger than her age, and she has an outstanding athletic figure which most women at any age will never obtain. This couple comes to the gym together, but they more or less split up to do their individual “work outs”.
Of course, it makes me wonder just how much longer she will be keeping him around?? The kids are getting older, and maybe she thinks that she can trade up while she still has a fair amount of SNV left?? I see her talking to this Man, and to that Man. Hell, I have a lil small talk with her as well. Then I see her working out, and texting away on her lil cel phone.
Maybe, it’s ALL QUITE INNOCENT, and for all I know she wants to stay faithfully married forever.
Personally, I really don’t know and even more so I have the luxury to NOT CARE, and in that is the BEAUTY. I have No Interest in her, or anyone like her. It’s really Fu(kin NICE to just not have to think/worry if “she’s” sucking some other Man’s dick today, tomorrow or whenever.
That’s the beauty about not having nor wanting a relationship.
There is NO EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT IN SOMEONE ELSE.
There is only PEACE OF MIND and CONTENTMENT because you just don’t want a “relationship” with ANY Woman.
YOU CAN FOCUS ON THYSELF. I’m pretty sure her husband doesn’t have much time for that……
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
Anonymous3There is no “if”, only “when”.
There is no “if”, only “when”.
That’s what it looks like to me, but either way SHE’S NOT MY PROBLEM.
I have ONE PROBLEM that I will have to pay to get rid of, and I NEVER WANT ANOTHER!!!
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
Anonymous3I have ONE PROBLEM that I will have to pay to get rid of, and I NEVER WANT ANOTHER!!!
If only money was the only factor…
YOU CAN FOCUS ON THYSELF. I’m pretty sure her husband doesn’t have much time for that……
been thinking the same thing this week. Every Fri & Sat night, I do whatever: laundry, run a 10K, play xbox… This Sunday Morning, I got up and ran for 2 Hours.
In all cases, my weekends have been focused on Training, doing my own thing, watching some TV and going to bed early.
ENTER A WOMAN INTO THAT SCHEDULE. its totally shot to smitherines because Her feelz or her plans or whatever… ALL FOR WHAT? Access to her filthy spider hole occasionally? Sounds great but the juice aint worth the squeeze.
Id rather train… sh!t, Id rather do anything else than listen to whatever dumb ass thing she has to say and then wreck my schedule to do whatever mundane thing she has planned…
We know what happens, she ends up Pregnant and now youre a Dad, and there goes the rest of your
schedule,life! Honestly, I would have traded it all to be on that side of the fence 10 years ago, to be married with kids. Teaching my son things, rooting for my lil Girl… But as it is, I was not dealt that fate. So now, I see these men with their kids and the wife strangling them. And that is what those guys signed up for whether they knew it or not.Who in his right mind SEES THAT after the fact, at 35 or 45, and thinks he missed out and needs to get married? Dumbass. The married guys wont tell you but they would love to be a MGHOW. Open schedule, no fvcks given, less stress and more cash.
This is what happens Larry
I LOVE my open schedule, I LOVE my quiet home. I LOVE my garage with MY toy in it.
Ahhh…
Nice thread, Awakened. I hope you get her out of there soon.
That’s the beauty about not having nor wanting a relationship
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ZERO MAINTENANCE
A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.
the Rwandan left her Devotional Diary on my couch. I read it cover to cover. OMFG!
Its a Diary. But I say devotional because she is clearly, EXTREMELY pious, religious. Half of each page entry is all Praises to God … then only tid bits of her life where I gathered some intel on her history and deepest yearnings.
A 2 year period is covered with near weekly updates. Mostly, each entry goes like: “Dear Universe and Lord God of all our hearts. Im truly grateful for all youve blessed me with…..yadda yadda at length a few sentences. Like a true gratitude list. And then she starts in on the pining for a man bits, like heavy in heat pining sometimes. A few one liners is all you get on other pages. Its lonesome as fvck, as if an male incel wrote it. And then theres these two guys shes infatuated with and keeps pretending that they’re gonna be her husband but they cheat or her or ignore her constantly. And she keeps holding out faith that God sent them, that theyre the one.
I think Ive decided, Im gonna tell her shes being cheated on. Prior to reading it, I didnt care… but its clear this woman isnt some American hoe. And my dumbass Muslime roommate, the guy she is sleeping with once a week, bangs two other girls in the last month while continuing to date this Rwandan chick. Thats just wrong dude.
Kind of feel bad for her. Shes not a pure virgin but she aint a swinger either. Shes about as genuine a 31year old unmarried Christian girl as youre gonna find. Women are BLIND as fvck. They cant see past their own romantic delusions and hypergamic instincts.
DONT EVER RENT A ROOM OUT! This type of weird drama enters your life.
She’s also very friendly in general, and has some outstanding genetics. She looks a whole lot younger than her age, and she has an outstanding athletic figure which most women at any age will never obtain. This couple comes to the gym together, but they more or less split up to do their individual “work outs”.
My experience is that a women who is looking for an upgrade is “very friendly” with men.
Women who are not looking are very stand-offish at gym and usually have ear buds in. The fact she doesn’t work out with her man is telling too. Gives her the opportunity to talk with others without husband getting in the way.
"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."I went to the local hangout today for some Pizza with my kid. Its called Kennedy school. Great place for people who travel. But one thing I noticed is that many couples there seem to be very.. Well. Distant with each other. Not happy. Not enjoying things. But very laid back. Almost scared to talk to people.
In a lot of ways, its like japan I would think. They seem to all have lost their souls. The guy was really not happy, and I presume he was the Husband. They were here visiting the Brewery and other places in the area etc.
What I keep getting from people who are married is that women don’t really have the love of their husbands as they use to. I see the trips with family not being things that these people really enjoy. More of an excuse to get out when the kids grow up.
I think as children age, relationships tend to go on the rocks. And there was a couple there. And what was weird was this FAT woman was with this dude. And she went across not to sit with her partner, but.. With her Mom or mother in law? I did not ask.
Until we got there, they seemed kind of sad about stuff. The women actually game me a business card with a book to read about some insight to the homeless problem.
What I could see is a very cold and almost.. Well. Lonely time with each other in a place that is so full of what should have been joy. I even put more wood on the fire pit, and broke the ice among them.
It weird that some people seem to need to have a conductor of their lives. Or be told to see or do things.
What I got out of it is that Marriage? Its a s~~~ pit as it gets more mature. And one day, I think people just lose what they even had in common or if they did have anything in common before.
What I did get? Love was just simply not there. You can feel it when 2 people are in love with each other. I think they are just passing time. That’s just me.
You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home
I think Ive decided, Im gonna tell her shes being cheated on.
Don’t. Just Don’t.
You pinning on your Captain-Save-a-Ho cape? You want to be the next target?
… but its clear this woman isnt some American hoe. […] Shes about as genuine a 31year old unmarried Christian girl as youre gonna find. Women are BLIND as fvck. They cant see past their own romantic delusions and hypergamic instincts.
Contradiction – ‘isn’t some American H’o -vs- ‘hypergamic instincts’.
AWALT. She is looking for a Beta. It’s there in writing.
DONT EVER RENT A ROOM OUT! This type of weird drama enters your life.
Right. So why are you contemplating getting involved in it?
What I got out of it is that Marriage? Its a s~~~ pit as it gets more mature. And one day, I think people just lose what they even had in common or if they did have anything in common before.
Men and women have BASICALLY nothing in common. Coltaine had a great video very recently where he was trying to answer the question “Why would I even want a woman around?” based on overlapping interests.
I’m athletic. I run 30-40 miles a week, I do a lot of calisthenics and resistance training, and I like to play a lot of different types of video games. I used to ride a motorcycle (had to sell it to pay for daycare, will be getting a replacement in the future). If I take *any* of those as a basis for a relationship and run the math like Coltaine did, given the population around where I live, there are exactly 0 potential women I have anything in common with.
I could run down the list, but we all know that women don’t work out to train, they work out in full makeup and spanks to get attention. Honestly, it’s the same reason they do everything. My hobbies are for personal amusement and growth. Women don’t generally believe in personal growth. If I venture out a bit to a nearby city, even if I increase the population by a factor of a couple hundred I’m only adding under 10 hits on those hobbies–they’re still going to be communist leeches who have been run through by multiple football teams.
The great trick they pull is to convince men that they have anything in common with us. As the chameleon ages and sheds its skin, the colors are a little less vibrant until all you can see are dimly-colored scales.
She doesn’t love you. She can’t love you. She barely likes you. In fact, most times she minimally tolerates you because she gets to abdicate responsibility while she’s with you. But this is “love” according to the modern romance.
Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805Don’t. Just Don’t.
You pinning on your Captain-Save-a-Ho cape? You want to be the next target?
Unless you want to bang her, don’t bother. I get what gravel pit is saying. It is the right thing to do. But what right is there?
Look man. I actually did the same thing. I played the Captain Save a HOE Part. What I did not know is she was Also f~~~ing around. And I did not think she would ever do that sort of thing. But you see, we as men of good heart and nature tend to look at things with a rose tinted glass.
It is a MISTAKE to get involved. Unless you want to get some Ass, go on ahead. And another thing. If she is such a good women? Why is she just banging around? You think women don’t know what’s going on?
Women Enjoy the fact that they are just another notch in a belt. They get off on knowing that if he is with her, she is taking away from the other girls. Women don’t really give a s~~~ about men f~~~ing around. Its only when it causes embarrassment to them when other people know that they care.
You will actually be doing more harm then good. I know its sounds so backwards. But that’s how women are wired.
They really are little Sex kittens. That’s why they are so fun to romp around with. Or Bang like a salvation army drum.
But make no mistake. Women are a lot smarter at this avenue in their lives then men are. They have been made from the get go to do this. Its been their sole job for at least 5000 years. Maybe even as far as 8000 or more. Maybe even 30,000 years.There is a DAMN good reason why we as males are still wired to look after them. We want to protect them on instincts. But women need no protection at all. They only need to be protected from themselves.
I’m not saying women are never in danger. What I am saying is that women know full well what is possible. And if they play the wrong game, with the wrong person, they get a bad time.
But this is not the Dark Ages. Women got the system all made out for them. If they did not want to play? They would not. And brothers, WOMEN love to play around. The NEW is the new. That is all it is. Again, the BAD BOY get women hot. The Girl that looks like an Angel, but f~~~s like the Devil on Crack? That what gets men off. But you can’t have an Angel, without a destructive side to them.
We love women for that very reason. And hate them when they go to others cus we want them to be ours. But they never are. Again.
ITS JUST YOUR TURN.
If men did not have the Possessive instincts? Then everything would be just fine. But we do. Women only do as far as they can secure something from a man and keep it to herself.
Women for the most part just look at them as fun toys. Men that do the same win out in the game. Hence the Marrige racket where Beta Takes care of her while Alpha gets to slam those gears.
The Deal was always that she took care of the kids house etc, and she got to go f~~~ around when she wanted. And the kids were yours. You got to use them to work your fields, take over for your business etc.
WE don’t live in that kind of world anymore. We also don’t live in a world where the kids all come out the same as we are all different in a way, so its not hard to tell when the kids are not yours. So, the sweet game women had for years is sort of gone until the Birth control pill came out.
You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home
I think Ive decided, Im gonna tell her shes being cheated on.
Don’t. Just Don’t.
You pinning on your Captain-Save-a-Ho cape? You want to be the next target?… but its clear this woman isnt some American hoe. […] Shes about as genuine a 31year old unmarried Christian girl as youre gonna find. Women are BLIND as fvck. They cant see past their own romantic delusions and hypergamic instincts.
Contradiction – ‘isn’t some American H’o -vs- ‘hypergamic instincts’.
AWALT. She is looking for a Beta. It’s there in writing.DONT EVER RENT A ROOM OUT! This type of weird drama enters your life.
Right. So why are you contemplating getting involved in it?
The fact that she left her diary on his couch makes me think that she wanted him to read it. That or she’s either very trusting or very stupid.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Shes very stupid. She says it was an accident. I think it was a ploy to get me to tell her what I knew, to confirm her suspiscions about him cheating.
I did tell her, which pretty much was a White Knight move for sure. Monk was right. It wont benefit me. Yes, I would definitely score with her if given the chance.
Its pretty amusing. As stated before, I knew for several weeks of his philandering behind her back but didnt care to tell her as it was not my business and I didnt really hold her in high esteem. However, you didnt spend ninety minutes reading what I read. I do not believe she is NAWALT but in several years, I have not seen many woman 25-35 years old with that low of a k0ck count. Shes probably at 5 to 10 tops. That is basically as pure as they come for her age group.
Monk, is right. She is looking for a Beta Husband. Yet, she has always been looking for one, there wasnt a bunch of carousel riding. She has slept with as few of people as I have.
Its left me vulnerable and open to attack, my reading that diary. But you will be glad to know that I intend to stay MGHOW. Women, even the tame Pious Vixens who genuinely seek a stable, real LTR/husband… they are still capricious t~~~s whose fantastic orbit decays and rains down on you as fiery meteor storm later down the road. Shes seeking a tradcon marriage and kids. And as I said with the guys in the beginning of this thread, it becomes a prison, a sh!tshow, and a massive regret. We can see how it all turns out for 90% of men. And half of the marriages really end up as a legit nightmare.
I want my schedule to be Open and Im not so obsessed with getting my dick wet that I need to risk everything. I made one dumb mistake. The next would be to fvck her. So I will try not to do that.
I made one dumb mistake. The next would be to fvck her. So I will try not to do that.
Heh, I would. I’d fukk the schit outta’ that bitch. I’d keep doin’ it until she acted like she wanted to bring emotions into it and then I’d be done with her.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
I have not seen many woman 25-35 years old with that low of a k0ck count. Shes probably at 5 to 10 tops.
5 to 10 you know about. Remember, two out of three “don’t count” because of god’s loophole.
Fact: the earlier a woman’s age of first intercourse, the more promiscuous and less capable of pair bonding.
Also fact: the average age of first intercourse in the west has dropped to 12 or 13.
Also fact: women will go to very elaborate lengths to persuade you of anything they think will give them an advantage and are HIGHLY susceptible to peer pressure from their girlfriends.What I’m telling you is…she’s putting on a religious facade and is probably as whorish as the average, possibly more so, because the mask lets her hide and pretend she’s a decent and virtuous person and not the hedonistic slut the majority of them have become. You need a radiation suit to go near them.
Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805she’s putting on a religious facade
Thats what I thought for the last 3 months. But that diary would be very hard to fake. Had to be 20 hours of handwriting.
Granted, it only documented 18-24 months… but only 2 guys were mentioned in that time. I say 5-10 to account for misc one nighters in collage and now. She mentioned “sinning of the flesh” in the diary once and this obviously meant she had sex… it was obvious, the regret she had.
The sum of the diary was that of someone gradually losing faith that god was going to provide a husband. She is practically rabid with wanting to get hitched and pregnant. Finally, it seems she let her guard down and decided her sexual rigidity should be dropped, hence letting a PUA wannabe talk her into sex (my roommate).
Sorry I jacked up your thread Awakened. This should have all been launched in the Avoiding Temptation thread lol.
I definitely got a good dose of fear from all this. Whether they are habitual Dating App floozy woman trying to settle, or weird religious femcels chasing the marriage mirage, THEY ARE ALL DANGEROUS and they are all like that. Is it worth it? No.
Hermit, normally Id agree. And my resolve to not bang her could be tested bigtime. But this chick really does want children and marriage. Who knows what shes capable of. lol. All the guys on here swearing by getting Vesectomies are saying told you so. That would be immunity from some fear
The truth is, Im looking forward to putting both of them in my rearview and focus on training for a Marathon.
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