She does not LOVE you

[ghostParticipant]

The concept of love is widely misunderstood. People’s expectations of love are out of whack.

Love is simply a chemical reaction in the brain which takes place in the honeymoon phase of the relationship. That initial love will always wear off.

She will never love you unconditionally, for the rest of your life. It is a fantasy and quite simply a false narrative.

Men need to be reminded of this fact because we are wired to self-destruct in some ways. Reset your expectations and live a more honest and fulfilling life.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

I have come to believe that most modern women do not know how to even love themselves. These women have no self-respect for themselves and everything they do seems to bring them unhappiness and leave them unfulfilled.

[MACHOParticipant]

ghost wrote:

Love is simply a chemical reaction in the brain which takes place in the honeymoon phase of the relationship. That initial love will always wear off.

I remember reading somewhere an article that talked about the chemistry changes occurring inside the human body when one is in a new relationship! the body releases feel good natural chemical that makes it so pleasurable to be around that new loved one! the article had mentioned that after 3 years the body stops releasing those goodies therefore signaling often the approaching end to said union!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[ghostParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

I have come to believe that most modern women do not know how to even love themselves. These women have no self-respect for themselves and everything they do seems to bring them unhappiness and leave them unfulfilled.

It is quite perplexing but true. They cannot think for themselves. That is the problem I think. They are good at following orders or following others. That is why the upbringing of females is so important. If parents do not raise their daughter properly, she will be miserable. Women have a small window of opportunity and they need to capitalize on it. Most of them screw up and end up regretting it.

[ghostParticipant]

MACHO wrote:

I remember reading somewhere an article that talked about the chemistry changes occurring inside the human body when one is in a new relationship! the body releases feel good natural chemical that makes it so pleasurable to be around that new loved one! the article had mentioned that after 3 years the body stops releasing those goodies therefore signaling often the approaching end to said union!

That makes a lot of sense. I see the proof all the time.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

ghost wrote:

Reset your expectations and live a more honest and fulfilling life.

Very true.

[JVBParticipant]

Yes sir. Correct.

Peace is > piece.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

ghost wrote:

That is why the upbringing of females is so important. If parents do not raise their daughter properly, she will be miserable

This is the key to the problem. Daughters being raised only by messed up mothers whom turn out worse than their mothers. Only with daughters becoming single mothers only to repeat the cycle, with their daughters becoming even worse.

I have seen this happen.

A father is important to both sons and daughters.

[ghostParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

A father is important to both sons and daughters.

Not just any father though. A strong father who is strict with his daughter(s). They cannot be given the same freedom as son’s because the expectations for men and women are different. Men need the freedom to go make something of themselves. Women are better with less freedom.

I have seen men who grew up with no freedom and they are the weakest men I’ve ever met. I have also seen women who grew up with so much freedom, they became complete sluts.

Just take a look at a lion pride. The young males are thrown out early on while the females are protected and never given the same freedom.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

ghost wrote:

I have seen men who grew up with no freedom and they are the weakest men I’ve ever met. I have also seen women who grew up with so much freedom, they became complete sluts.

I agree with that.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

MACHO wrote:

Gambit wrote:

Love is simply a chemical reaction in the brain which takes place in the honeymoon phase of the relationship. That initial love will always wear off.

I remember reading somewhere an article that talked about the chemistry changes occurring inside the human body when one is in a new relationship! the body releases feel good natural chemical that makes it so pleasurable to be around that new loved one! the article had mentioned that after 3 years the body stops releasing those goodies therefore signaling often the approaching end to said union!

Yes this is true. I often see marriages end in that 3 to 4 year range. Those who keep it going after that grace period do so at their own misery. This is also why we see guys desperately seeking a new woman after a breakup … their body is craving the chemical addiction, like a bad drug.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Tru Dat

Even is she swallows, takes a facial and let’s you choke her and call her a slut during anal:

You are not that special.

It’s just your turn.

They want money & c~~~s. And the only way they can get both is:

01: Secure an unsuspecting beta wallet using the illusion of love. [✓money]

02: Then cheat on him with alphas and Chads [✓c~~~s]

[ghostParticipant]

Sky-O wrote:

It’s just your turn.

They want money & c~~~s. And the only way they can get both is:

01: Secure an unsuspecting beta wallet using the illusion of love. [✓money]

02: Then cheat on him with alphas and Chads [✓c~~~s]

The truth hurts but it sets one free. Thank you, brother Sky-O.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Gambit,

Regarding truth.

Allow me to share a story with everyone now.

During the last three relationships (manipulation-ships) I was in, PRIOR to launching my journey to MGTOW:

In each situation – I stayed longer than I should have. I needed to figure everything out. And I wasn’t going to be able to do that if I made a clean break, got out and went into lone outlaw mode.

I stayed despite the obvious lying, manipulation, financial parasitism and infidelity, BECAUSE –

In each case. And knowing that my time in the matrix was going to come to an end soon, by choice.

I stayed: Because in each nightmare, I switched gears and began studying them. I had to figure it all out. As a result, I earned a master’s degree in pumkinomics & a PhD in slutology.

They became lab rats in what was my greatest research endeavor.

I learned more over the course of that two year period about female psychology than I ever thought was possible.

And it was sick, dark and devoid of hope. They were truly lost causes.

I tested them (caught in lies), knew the cheating was happening (I acted oblivious to it) and watched as I continued holding things together despite the self-absorbtion and narcissism on their part becoming worse.

A man does not know what hell is or pure evil until he consciously allows himself to merge and become one with it. Then finds the strength to fight his way out and away from it.*

(*Related to that: Which is why I laugh at some of the ‘No f~~~s given’ guys on here that claim some kind of inherent immunity to it. Those that have been scarred and forever changed by it: Ok, you guys know and are clear. But for the ‘NFG’ contingency on here that never got any real pussy or immersed into a cosmically warped mind-fckng hell on Earth that claim they are ‘No f~~~s given’ – May whatever good you pray to be with you if/when the time comes. Because you will need him as much as you thought you needed the pussy that chained you.)

And in closing. Evil exists. It is real. And it doesn’t care how compassionate or caring you are. It doesn’t care if you have a genuine capacity for love. It will throat f~~~ you until either you break and give up OR you find the strength to get out. Evil likes weak men and efficiently directs it’s energy towards them. Stay strong & by default, survive. Your survival is a silent victory against those that would love to destroy you.

Stronger Than All

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Strength Beyond Strength ‘Stronger than all. . .’

[ghostParticipant]

Sky-O wrote:

During the last three relationships (manipulation-ships) I was in, PRIOR to launching my journey to MGTOW:

In each situation – I stayed longer than I should have. I needed to figure everything out. And I wasn’t going to be able to do that if I made a clean break, got out and went into lone outlaw mode.

I stayed despite the obvious lying, manipulation, financial parasitism and infidelity, BECAUSE –

In each case. And knowing that my time in the matrix was going to come to an end soon, by choice.

I stayed: Because in each nightmare, I switched gears and began studying them. I had to figure it all out. As a result, I earned a master’s degree in pumkinomics & a PhD in slutology.

I have had a very, very similar experience.

Sky-O wrote:

And in closing. Evil exists. It is real. And it doesn’t care how compassionate or caring you are. It doesn’t care if you have a genuine capacity for love. It will throat f~~~ you until either you break and give up OR you find the strength to get out. Evil likes weak men and efficiently directs it’s energy towards them. Stay strong & by default, survive. Your survival is a silent victory against those that would love to destroy you.

Stronger Than All

I agree. Unfortunately, one does not learn this without cold, hard experience.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Sky-O wrote:

Gambit,

…I stayed despite the obvious lying, manipulation, financial parasitism and infidelity…

I stayed..

I can relate to all of that. Completely. Lying cheating, bulls~~~ting skanks. Even went out with a “nice” one, who turned out to be a complete and utter bulls~~~ter.
Bloods at boiling point now!

[Bloody HeartlandParticipant 693]

A lot of things about MGTOW have been relatively simple and easy to adopt, but this, mourning the fantasy has been the most difficult part.

"I have the fury of my own momentum." "With this ring I thee wed. Fire walk with me."

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

The brain chemical you’re referring to is ‘Oxytocin’ that makes people feel loving, ironically it also induces labour in pregnant women by widening the vagina.

The ‘honeymoon period’ in relationships is called ‘limerance’ a lot of people chase it and make commitments they can’t keep during this period only to have the relationship dissolve when they realise that a) they don’t have this feeling anymore and b) that the relationship was only functional during this high period, but the two people involved don’t actually communicate very well, nor are they able or willing to negotiate. In my opinion it seems absurd to make such a commitment when one is experiencing a high level of emotional delusion.

I also want to mention that during the limerance period, women will stoke your ego (your dick is much bigger than my ex’s) and give you the pornstar treatment to get you psychologically dependent on sex (a drug dependence on dopamine) and then after the commitment (marriage or having a child) will flip the script and become the female praying mantis (consume you), because they have the power to be unethical (refer to quote by Lord Acton on power). The worst of these ladies are the one’s who claim to be ‘romantic’ (entitled) and will use this as an excuse to shame you into feeling less of a man because chivalry (slavery) is what they expect of men.

So what’s the answer, well as Old Bill says be ‘polite and terse’. The less information the better, or perhaps use a plausible lie to protect yourself (I’m looking for work). No need for resent, it will eat away at you. When you spend time thinking this can occur, so have your thinking time, but also ensure you have time to be at peace. I’ve personally worked with some wonderful women before who did a lot to help me, but I know better than to get involved in marriage, or share ‘too much’ personal info with them.

One other thing, if you’re in a happy or manic mood, be aware that this is when you are most easily manipulated so you scale it back just a little.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[AragornParticipant 277]

Stay strong & by default, survive. Your survival is a silent victory against those that would love to destroy you.

My dear brother in spirit: you must have learned your lessons well and you truely know what you are talking about!

Men doomed by bad decisions are powerless against Praying Mantis women who, between their legs, hold the skeleton keys to their demise. The only winning move is not to play.

If you change the rules on what controls you, you will change the rules on what you can control

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