Sexual Transmutation

[Anonymous 18]

In a nutshell its using sexual desires/energy that any man feels when in a dry spell and how to transform that energy to achieve more in other facets of life – financial, academic, health, friendships, etc.

I believe that men give and women receive. We exude confidence, strength, other qualities and as such, it makes us more desirable to women who receive or are evolutionary designed to receive the signals sent out by a man for mating purposes. Not that different from the act of f~~~ing. Men give and women receive.

Back to the topic… when obviously there is hard-wiring to find a female to mate it does become an essential point to discuss how to deal with that need/extra energy. I could spend my time and energy chasing low-quality women who’d be down to f~~~ and in the process face some form of rejection/humiliation and compromise with my own self-image. And in the end score with a needy desperate woman (read fat) who is alright being used for the night.

But I’ve decided to call it quits when it comes to chasing women for sex. It’s not worth it in the end (for me). But along the way I have decided to give up on good ol’ jerk-off session #nofap! After a couple of weeks (with some days of hard struggle) I’d say it seems to make me feel better about myself and the world around me.

Is this just a myth or is there truth to re-directing that sexual energy to more objective, goal-oriented tasks to make gains? Anyone tried it?

What’s your take?

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

Good subject brother. Myself personally, after my last relations~~~ I went a month with no desire to look at a female or even look at porn or jerk off. However, being men programmed to spread “our seed”, we do fight the urge to mate or jerk off. Myself I’m trying to condition myself on focusing on just me, my hobbies, work, increasing my financial well being with no focus on women. But, they are all around us. Dry spells seem to make us crave the desire to be with or look at females. However, the more seasoned MGTOW’s have the ability to remove the lizard brain and go monk. In the long term I believe individually we all have to manage the urge to be with women.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I’ve done it. It helps to an extent but don’t expect a miracle. When lifting my barbell, I could feel a small boost in my strength. At night, I would require half an hour less rest than usual. When I stopped doing it, it seemed like I was eating a little more meat than usual to make up for the energy I was losing from ejaculating.

If you would like to hear more, feel free to ask. But for now I’ll stop since I assume most people wouldn’t be interested in hearing me go on and on about my “ejaculation schedules” etc.

[FreedomParticipant 295]

Personally, I think the #nofap stuff is a crock. We evolved with desires. Express them one way or another. If you don’t want to do it with women, then jerk it out.

It is wise to fear dangerous commitments.

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

OP, you should look into kundalini meditation. the basic idea is that there are unique focus points of energy in the body that are directly associated with the master organs of all of the different systems in one’s body. when one breaths in and out not only is there a physical action but a metaphysical exchange of energy too. each point, known as a chakra is also associated with different types of behavior and relation to the external world. when you hold your sexual energy in from abstaining it’s thought to be possible to redistribute that extra energy to other points (such as: physical power(digestive system/abdomen), compassion/empathy(heart/cardiovascular system), effective communication(throat), for sight/imagination/intuition(pineal gland/third eye)) through these breathing exercises. apparently it has been said that hindu and buddhist masters of this discipline have gained such mastery over their physical bodies that they don’t even produce semen because all of that energy is directly placed elsewhere.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

[AttonParticipant]

The no fap thing requires that someone is at least 30, you really can’t do it before then.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

There is an entire chapter on this in Naploean Hill’s book Think and Grow Rich.

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

I’ve been having a pretty bad *ahem*….”addiction” for the past three months since I left my ex. I find its really hurting my motivation for self improvement lately and making me really lazy. A lot of people have written articles on this and they mention how when they stop it, they’re able to “distract” themselves with tasks that need to be done.

Brother, we need to stick together.

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t think you can redirect your energy like that personally. I do think though that if you too much fapping can sap your energy and cause you to lose motivation for doing other more productive things.

As far as the whole giving and receiving between men and women, I believe that in theory, we can be better together then apart. Men have a natural desire to believe they have what it takes. A man hates to feel useless. He wants to build and accomplish things. A woman can support him through encouraging him to do things and building his confidence. She can…probably won’t.

A woman doesn’t need to feel like she has what it takes, she wants to feel that she is beautiful, desired. She can be perfectly happy doing nothing along as she believes she’s beautiful. A man can, and does, make a woman feel beautiful by telling her so, buying her things, and desiring her.

Of course, feminism f~~~s all that up by trying to telling men to act like women and women to act like men. Unfortunately for women, men can feel like they have what it takes on their own, while women cannot feel beautiful on their own.

Ok. Then do it.

[Danish-dudeParticipant 23]

I think it’s difficult to do sexual transmutation once you become aware of your needs. It’s difficult to forcefully take that energy and put it into work for instance. MGTOW could be considered a form of sexual transmutation I guess – maybe one should increase posting, replying etc. on the forums when the urge is particularly strong, lol! 😉

Because I find it difficult to deceive myself into thinking that I’m transforming my sexual energy into something entirely unrelated I’ve recently started wondering whether it’s better to start off with an object of transmutation that is more related to the topic of sexuality such as MGTOW.

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