Sex partner easy, dance partner hard

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

So it looks like my quest to find a decent Latin&Ballroom partner will continue into the new year. Since September I’ve been through four already and their personalities f~~~ed up the chance for learning in order to progress more quickly. It’s far easier to find women to f~~~ than one who can shut up, follow a lead and commit to lessons and social practise. My fellow MGTOWs I’m sure you are NOT surprised 🙂

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Anonymous 0]

Your silly, didn’t you know it’s supposed to be all about them and not actually dancing? Craigslist dancer?

Joking aside, perhaps if you told those four you’d bang them afterward they’d be more co-operative. It is easier to find one to f~~~ than to dance with and learn the moves for yourself with because in the f~~~ing they feel they win or enough not to care that you benefit. They also in that situation feel the attention is entirely on them. Then when it comes down to the dancing they do not see enough of a win in it for them or it’s that the focus and your focus is not on them enough for their tastes. Just speculating here. But also is it not possible to learn dance without a partner? Go that way about it if you can.

[Anonymous 42]

MGHOW is easy, everything else is HARD!

[BoarParticipant]

Any activity that relies upon whimyn is doomed to drama and failure.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Me, myself, I never danced but rather do things close to that with my car.

I always admired the hard work and discipline that goes into dancing choreography. Every little step has to be trained and trained over and over again to reach perfect synchronization.

For the 2 partners it takes patience and the will to connect with each other, look out for each other, act together in precise harmony. A 2 minute dancing presentation takes months of disciplined practice.

And in some dancing disciplines any glitch can be as dangerous and “unhealthy” as a car accident.

But everything in life that is something special and is out of the ordinary takes this type of commitment and energy to stay and hang in there till you reach perfection and maybe reap it’s benefits.

Then, at the peak of your dancing career, money might come in. Just naturally. I learned how to fix electronics like a theater show. I was even talking to my dead patients and gave them names when they didn’t do what I wanted them to do. People enjoyed that.

But all of these traits are the same a woman would have to have in order to become and stay a good life partner for a successful man:

– Patience,
– Hard work, hanging in there till it works,
– Spending time on something that seems boring to the outside viewer and will not make them stroke her ego
– Doing something that does not bring in the immediate reward and continuous attention
– Contributing the same intelligence and motivation to the team
– Caring for the other team member
– Dealing with small conflicts in a non-escalating way to protect the team effort and to “stabilize the future of the endeavor”

I can go on for hours. The thing is that if you run a successful company as a single man, EVERYBODY tries to shame you into “needing a woman to fix your s~~~”…

And I had to defend myself verbally and this was a way to shut down the endless discussions these old trad-con people had with me.

You know this s~~~: “Behind every great man there is a great woman” and I proved to these people that if they would find me a woman with all of these traits then I would marry her instantly…

And you could hear their brains rattle, not even their own daughters came close… And they had to agree with me…

So I was out of the discussion, not having offended them as most of them were customers and didn’t get the image or reputation of “being gay” with would be bad for my business.

You finding a capable dancing partner is just as unlikely as me finding a life partner that will build us up and not try to destroy me.

Anything that requires more that a few seconds of attention does not fit into the mindset of today’s women. Anything that forces her to take the look off her smartphone of more than a few minutes will be hated and she will only pretend to be interested in your dancing to get to your wallet.

Then she will try to lead you away from this – quote – “unfruitful hobby” by isolating you from your friends, creating drama to interfere with your plans and business trips.

With the average woman “on board”, everything that can go wrong will go wrong.

In my experience, your partner is “Murphy’s law” not life itself.

And professional dance teams are often put together by entertainment management companies and the team partners are bonded by contract.

Maybe you’ll find your dancing girlfriend, statistically on the other side of the globe…

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

It is a problem with society, most people want instant gratification and no work. Women, being emotionally driven and easily led by external forces are the greatest manifestation of this.

If you want to raise your daughters to be successful, take away the TV and electronics. Make them read. Make them cook, starting at 10 years old. Make them participate in sports, even if they are not athletic. You can create the future, at least for a few men.

My 28 year old daughter is a lawyer, part time adjunct professor at a local college, a great cook, remodeled her kitchen herself, and is apparently happily married.

When she was young she said I was too strict, when she was 22 she told me she was going to be more strict than I was. Parenting is a participation sport. She asked me a few years ago ” Did I do good enough?”

Um, yea. They do what you expect them to, she blew me away, but I expected her to accomplish things, I expected her success. You’re their daddy, they want to please you when they are young.

Change the world, start at home.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

my quest to find a decent Latin&Ballroom partner

Man, a dance partnership is not about finding the right partner for THE GUY.

THE GUY is selected to be a partner for HER.

They cast the Swan queen first and then match her up with a partner who can lift her and make her look good. If she’s 5’6″ the prince should be at least 5’9/5’10 and needs to be able to toss her around.

Kinda like relationship in real life. It’s not about you. It’s “all about her”. She’s already there and is just waiting for him to come aboard. She doesn’t even need to know who he is – and doesn’t care. “I want a relationship” or “I’m ready to get married now” she says…. when no man is knocking or proposing. Creepy s~~~.

A male dance partner my as well be the prop man.
He exists to make HER look good. Not the other way around.

If you’re going to take dance training, you can (and should) train with any of them – and many of them – so that you can be matched with as many as possible. Interesting metaphor, wouldn’t you say?

In dance, YOUR job is to “shut up and make her look good”.

It’s VERY rare that the guy will pull focus in a dancing duet. Fred Astaire and Gene Kelly were rare that way. Most of the time, the eyes on the girl, but they were so good she was a compliment to THEM.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

It’s sad to think women have nothing to offer but a pussy. They can’t even concentrate long enough to do something like a hobby. It’s really pathetic.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[SirrealismParticipant 59]

My last 2 long term GFs were latin so i understand your frustration. They are great dancers but getting them to stay focused on anything is almost impossible. The have squirrel syndrome! On to the next shiny object

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Sirrealism wrote:

My last 2 long term GFs were latin so i understand your frustration. They are great dancers but getting them to stay focused on anything is almost impossible. The have squirrel syndrome! On to the next shiny object

Thanks for adding a new word to my vocabulary: “Squirrel Syndrome” is the funniest way to describe the unbearable superficiality of women. They can’t focus on anything except when it suits their immediate needs.

“On to the next shiny object”… Women have no interests, no hobbies, nothing that might give them internal satisfaction, pride or feelings of success. They have to fill up this inner emptiness with accumulation of status objects and things they can show off to their hive. Without “shiny objects”, they have nothing to get attention and validation from others.

Normally men have the skills to make the money for her shiny objects and if a woman is so repulsive that she couldn’t trap a man into buying her expensive s~~~ then she is even more frustrated.

That is why these cat ladies are not frustrated about “being alone” or “having no one to talk to”… They are only frustrated because no one buys them shiny objects all the time.

For the typical “dumb c~~~” it’s not not about “having a man” or “his personality”, it’s all about having his wallet to buy these “shiny objects”.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

Gargamel wrote:

Me, myself, I never danced but rather do things close to that with my car.

I always admired the hard work and discipline that goes into dancing choreography. Every little step has to be trained and trained over and over again to reach perfect synchronization.

For the 2 partners it takes patience and the will to connect with each other, look out for each other, act together in precise harmony. A 2 minute dancing presentation takes months of disciplined practice.

And in some dancing disciplines any glitch can be as dangerous and “unhealthy” as a car accident.

But everything in life that is something special and is out of the ordinary takes this type of commitment and energy to stay and hang in there till you reach perfection and maybe reap it’s benefits.

Then, at the peak of your dancing career, money might come in. Just naturally. I learned how to fix electronics like a theater show. I was even talking to my dead patients and gave them names when they didn’t do what I wanted them to do. People enjoyed that.

But all of these traits are the same a woman would have to have in order to become and stay a good life partner for a successful man:

– Patience,
– Hard work, hanging in there till it works,
– Spending time on something that seems boring to the outside viewer and will not make them stroke her ego
– Doing something that does not bring in the immediate reward and continuous attention
– Contributing the same intelligence and motivation to the team
– Caring for the other team member
– Dealing with small conflicts in a non-escalating way to protect the team effort and to “stabilize the future of the endeavor”

I can go on for hours. The thing is that if you run a successful company as a single man, EVERYBODY tries to shame you into “needing a woman to fix your s~~~”…

And I had to defend myself verbally and this was a way to shut down the endless discussions these old trad-con people had with me.

You know this s~~~: “Behind every great man there is a great woman” and I proved to these people that if they would find me a woman with all of these traits then I would marry her instantly…

And you could hear their brains rattle, not even their own daughters came close… And they had to agree with me…

So I was out of the discussion, not having offended them as most of them were customers and didn’t get the image or reputation of “being gay” with would be bad for my business.

You finding a capable dancing partner is just as unlikely as me finding a life partner that will build us up and not try to destroy me.

Anything that requires more that a few seconds of attention does not fit into the mindset of today’s women. Anything that forces her to take the look off her smartphone of more than a few minutes will be hated and she will only pretend to be interested in your dancing to get to your wallet.

Then she will try to lead you away from this – quote – “unfruitful hobby” by isolating you from your friends, creating drama to interfere with your plans and business trips.

With the average woman “on board”, everything that can go wrong will go wrong.

In my experience, your partner is “Murphy’s law” not life itself.

And professional dance teams are often put together by entertainment management companies and the team partners are bonded by contract.

Maybe you’ll find your dancing girlfriend, statistically on the other side of the globe…

Superb summary of ideal partner traits…

Keymaster wrote:

DancingMGTOW wrote:

my quest to find a decent Latin&Ballroom partner

Man, a dance partnership is not about finding the right partner for THE GUY.

THE GUY is selected to be a partner for HER.

They cast the Swan queen first and then match her up with a partner who can lift her and make her look good. If she’s 5’6″ the prince should be at least 5’9/5’10 and needs to be able to toss her around.

Kinda like relationship in real life. It’s not about you. It’s “all about her”. She’s already there and is just waiting for him to come aboard. She doesn’t even need to know who he is – and doesn’t care. “I want a relationship” or “I’m ready to get married now” she says…. when no man is knocking or proposing. Creepy s~~~.

A male dance partner my as well be the prop man.
He exists to make HER look good. Not the other way around.

If you’re going to take dance training, you can (and should) train with any of them – and many of them – so that you can be matched with as many as possible. Interesting metaphor, wouldn’t you say?

In dance, YOUR job is to “shut up and make her look good”.

It’s VERY rare that the guy will pull focus in a dancing duet. Fred Astaire and Gene Kelly were rare that way. Most of the time, the eyes on the girl, but they were so good she was a compliment to THEM.

Train and be matched with many different ones – yes and that is already happening and kind of the path I’m on. Interestingly enough I’ve heard Cuban Salsa described as “showing the man off” and Crossbody/LA style Salsa is “showing the woman off” which dovetails with your point nicely!

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

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