Sex. Is it worth it?

[QuellParticipant 2538]

Once you lose your virginity and experience what it is like you’ll realize that most of it is hype.

Literally the seconds after you cum you wish the woman up and leave. You’ve accomplished your mission and now you have this “thing” who becomes attached to you. It’s very annoying.

You’re not missing much my friend. Don’t think too much about it, you’ll lose your V card when the time is right. You’ll do it once and then get over it quickly.

Then you’ll want to do it again and again but mostly it is an ego thing.

[OdinParticipant 524]

Was pondering this myself, OP. Almost 24, virgin and I think I’ll keep it that way. I’ve only wasted my time in LDRs for countless years with a bunch of c~~~s. Thank god I found MGTOW before going further with any relationship.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

Odin wrote:

Was pondering this myself, OP. Almost 24, virgin and I think I’ll keep it that way. I’ve only wasted my time in LDRs for countless years with a bunch of c~~~s. Thank god I found MGTOW before going further with any relationship.

I am actually really impressed that you younger guys in the teens and 20s are able to walk away from attempting to couple with women since your sex drive is much higher. It’s a lot easier in the 30s, 40s, and 50s because your sex drive starts to decrease. Of course, when viewing the “quality” of women in your generation, it’s not as hard to see why this is the case.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[OdinParticipant 524]

Oh sure, I have no interest in the females of my generation. Entitled, selfish, spoilt, no accountability, narcissistic, man-hating, etc. I’ve been called all the names in the book i.e. A loser basement-dwelling virgin but it doesn’t bother me anymore. I don’t need approval or validation from females or even males for that matter. I’ll keep my dick in my pants, stay invested in my future/hobbies and as for loneliness, that’s what bros are there for.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Nope, not worth it. From someone who has more than enough experience, and who has dodged more bullets than Neo, it ain’t worth it.

[narwhalParticipant]

Kind of a hard question to answer, since sex is never the same. Sometimes it’s really good, depending on who, where, and when…other times not so much. And what is ‘it’? What you have to give or trade for sex is going to vary each time. If you have to get married to get it…no. If you only have to clear 30 minutes on your calendar…maybe so. The risk you are taking is going to vary each time as well.

As others have said, it’s something you need to figure out for yourself. But opting to play at all is a perfectly good and reasonable choice.

I will second those that recommend that you stop trying to be the nice guy. Besides it not working, you probably won’t like yourself for doing it.

Ok. Then do it.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Whether sex is worth pursuing kind of depends on the equation, which with a gynocentric society and feminism is kind of a rigged game.

The equation has altered a little for me, post-wife and post-vasectomy: I have a gf who pays her own way when we occasionally eat out or go to movies. She helps me do stuff around my house like weeding (a thankless task). She has her own house and her own job. Raises 2 boys and even owns a Glock.

She’s not high on the slut-scale, average looks, fairly intelligent and well-read for a female. She’s real thin, a size 5. We’d have good discussions on various stuff even if she was a guy, and since she’s not a guy, I get sex, too. Her husband left her for another woman (apparently just one woman), as my ex left for another guy (the 4th guy she had fling with).

The best part is she is clean, knows I think marriage is officially a dumb idea, and isn’t keen herself on remarrying. With my vasectomy there is not the pregnancy possibility. So there is sex but no cohabitation or marriage or shared finances, except to the extent that she still pays her way on dates.

I don’t have the illusion of NAWALT, since I know even a woman who appears NAWALT can turn AWALT in a heartbeat. So the price of sex for me is fairly low, as is the risk, and I watch my six.

For someone decades younger than me, no vasectomy, dealing with millennial women; I shudder.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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