Sex argument with my ex

[freedomParticipant 5129]

The discussion about how women use sex as a weapon reminded of my ex.

for 2 months she was putting out only when she wants to, so I just stopped trying to get things heated by myself and let her decide when she wants it, because I got sick of getting rejected time after time.

Anyway not a month passed and then she was super p~~~ed at me, saying that I don’t make her feel like a woman by not trying to get sex, I got p~~~ed off and told her “For god sake Jenny, why would I try anything when you refuse 99% of the time” and then she cried and said that no one has ever treated her as badly as I just did.

what a stupid c~~~

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

S~~~ test….she well and truly knows she turned you down 99% of the time and that you reacted accordingly by not making her feel like a woman…women invent drama. They lock you in a scenario where you cannot win….If you keep trying to make her feel like a woman, she will feel smothered…If you ignore her, she will blame you for not giving her enough attention. If you get angry with her, it makes her feel good. If you laugh it off and walk away, she loses.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[JVBParticipant]

Meh. Typical behavior bro. Best you go dark and severe all communication if you haven’t already. Cheers bro.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 13]

These sex games with them are as predictable as the sunrise.

Don’t bother with women.

Nothing but games, subterfuge, deceit, lies and headgames.

AND That’s on a good day.

A bad day will see you f~~~ed over, ruined and in JAIL.

Run kids, RUN.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

Just pull out cash and she’ll f~~~ you. These c~~~s all have a price.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[HermitParticipant]

PuniShredder wrote:

Just pull out cash and she’ll f~~~ you. These c~~~s all have a price.

I tried that with my ex once. Didn’t work. She’d do anything to get her own way, even turning down cash. The bitch won again. LOL

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Yep!! Used to get this AAALLLLLL the time, it’s what pushed me away for GOOD. Oh yeah, and the tears, and the being skint even though I worked 60 – 70 hours per week, in a well paying job, and the fact that one day, 16 years after our wedding day – we argued during which she declared to my face “Women don’t need men anymore, they (scientists) can grow sperm and everything”

Oh dear……and I was married to this idiot…..but as you heard fellas…….”I don’t need no man” OLD GUYS, LURKERS and for pity’s sake YOUNG MEN, THEY DON’T WANT US ANYMORE, THEY DON’T NEED US, RIGHT!!!!!
ALL they want is your UTILITY, PROTECTION, SECURITY and YOUR MONEY – OK!!

READ, LISTEN and DIGEST AND UNDERSTAND YOUNG MEN……..even though I am well aware of the ‘ex-feminists’ are now ‘distancing’ themselves from third wave feminism. Such as producing internet videos entitled things like “Why i’m not a feminist- anymore”………THEY ARE LYING MEN……….They should NEVER be forgiven…..along with the last 70 years worth of our so called politicians……never forget what brought you here….to MGTOW.

Well my apologies for the rant fella’s…….still having problems in my head years later, through being married to a woman.

Just remember men, when you USED to hear ALL women referring to a potential male partner as a “GOOD CATCH”…….I WONDER WHY!! Hmmmm, counting my pennies whilst scratching my chin whiskers 😉

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Put out or get out.
That is my motto, and the reason I have stayed uninvolved for almost a decade now, nor will I ever invest myself in a “serious” relationship again.
Every women I have been intimate with in my life has learned that the hard way (no pun intended). Sometimes it cost me a great deal financially to get out of the game, however I dont have to pay for pussy from the past.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Modern Day WarriorParticipant 499]

What I find interesting is the people dissing MGTOW as guys who don’t get sex, while ignoring the fact that most married guys don’t get sex. Unless of course, the woman feels like it. I’ll bet the pump and dump MGTOW guys are doing much better than the long-term married guys.

"One must put up barriers to keep oneself intact." - Neil Peart

[freedomParticipant 5129]

Modern Day Warrior wrote:

What I find interesting is the people dissing MGTOW as guys who don’t get sex, while ignoring the fact that most married guys don’t get sex. Unless of course, the woman feels like it. I’ll bet the pump and dump MGTOW guys are doing much better than the long-term married guys.

Yeah well, I don’t think that I need to pay my happiness for sex. when a woman finds out that a guy prefers to jerk off than be with her, it’s the greatest punch to her ego.

[AttonParticipant]

You stick your penis in that thing s~~~ man you are looking for trouble.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

The only time the man has any advantage in a relationship is before you are locked into the relationship. Look at the standard behavior here – start dating and she is loving, caring and giving. Wants to please you and gives you sex no questions asked. Basically what she is doing is trapping you. Then once you are in, then dial back the sex and the rest of it and keep you on the hook by starving you.

[Anonymous 1]

freedom wrote:

The discussion about how women use sex as a weapon reminded of my ex.

for 2 months she was putting out only when she wants to, so I just stopped trying to get things heated by myself and let her decide when she wants it, because I got sick of getting rejected time after time.

Anyway not a month passed and then she was super p~~~ed at me, saying that I don’t make her feel like a woman by not trying to get sex, I got p~~~ed off and told her “For god sake Jenny, why would I try anything when you refuse 99% of the time” and then she cried and said that no one has ever treated her as badly as I just did.

what a stupid c~~~

I did exactly the same with my ex about 12 months before we called it quits. Not just sexual advances, but I cut off all friendly/loving hugs, everything. None of it was being reciprocated.

I got sick of being rejected – and figured it was causing me infinitely more pain than the occasional ‘reward’ was worth. I felt like a dog begging for biscuits. F~~~ that.

[OldBillParticipant]

Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

Women don’t know what they want because what they want is in constant flux. The grass elsewhere is always greener, even when it doesn’t exist. The actual bird in the hand is never worth whatever mythical birds may be roosting in a nonexistent bush.

I’ve a long time female acquaintance whose company in specific situations I actually enjoy. She’s educated in the old sense of the word. She’s an art historian, has worked for auction houses, and has a fine understanding of theatre and music. I very much enjoy her company at concerts, plays, the opera, gallery openings, museum exhibits, and the like. It’s her mind, her education, and her experiences I find interesting. I’ve never seriously thought of her in a romantic or physical sense.

We were at a gallery show several years back when some silly woman kept bleating about how we made a perfect couple. We both kept telling her we were not “involved” and she kept making the same insinuations. The woman finally wandered off for some more wine as we both shook our heads chuckling.

My friend turned and said something to me like “She may be on to something. I’m surprised you’ve never made a pass at me.”

I was so shocked I replied “I’ve never thought of you that way.”

For an instant her face looked as if I had stabbed her. Here was a man who admired her intellect, education, and experience and she was heartbroken that he didn’t want to f~~~ her.

Our friendship was rocky for a while after that. I kept treating her the same honest fashion I’d always had and she eventually accepted it.

Women never have what they want and they never want what they have.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[markParticipant 451]

OldBill wrote:

My friend turned and said something to me like “She may be on to something. I’m surprised you’ve never made a pass at me.”

I was so shocked I replied “I’ve never thought of you that way.”

For an instant her face looked as if I had stabbed her. Here was a man who admired her intellect, education, and experience and she was heartbroken that he didn’t want to f~~~ her.

Women want to feel desired by all men, no exceptions. So they can have their pick. Whether true or not, “Never thought of you that way” translates in the woman’s brain as “you are ugly”. And women instinctively know that youth and beauty are the only assets they can bring to the table.

As for the sex games, I have two standardized answers:

On a first date:
I don’t usually have sex until I feel comfortable.
Sex involves physical attraction. Physical attraction is pretty much instant. If you are not physically attracted to me, there is no chemistry. Without chemistry, there is no point to even start a relationship.
(takes her pants down)

When, in a relations~~~, they refuse me for sex for no good reason:
I am not in the mood.
Of course dear. I am not a rapist so don’t worry I will keep you in the highest respect while I get someone else to do the heavy lifting for ya.
(takes her pants down)

By the way, these are no jokes. I used them constantly.

[HermitParticipant]

foghornleghorn wrote:

The only time the man has any advantage in a relationship is before you are locked into the relationship. Look at the standard behavior here – start dating and she is loving, caring and giving. Wants to please you and gives you sex no questions asked. Basically what she is doing is trapping you. Then once you are in, then dial back the sex and the rest of it and keep you on the hook by starving you.

So simple and so very true.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

foghornleghorn wrote:

The only time the man has any advantage in a relationship is before you are locked into the relationship. Look at the standard behavior here – start dating and she is loving, caring and giving. Wants to please you and gives you sex no questions asked. Basically what she is doing is trapping you. Then once you are in, then dial back the sex and the rest of it and keep you on the hook by starving you.

My LOLs: my sex drive is about 10-20% of what it was over a year ago, before the ex moved out. If the current gf decided to dial back the sex, she’d be in for a surprise, because her sex drive currently exceeds mine and I’m content to jerk off with the 8-lb fake pussy.

I’m about to the point where I might actually want real sex once a month and jerk off the rest. Trying to “starve” me of sex might be the final push it takes to end all real sex.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[narwhalParticipant]

Women seem incapable of introspection, perspective, or analyzing they’re own behavior. They don’t deal with cause and effect. They only pay attention to how they feel and what they want at the current moment. It’s not just about sex, it’s everything.

Ok. Then do it.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

foghornleghorn wrote:

foghornleghorn

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The only time the man has any advantage in a relationship is before you are locked into the relationship.

If you must date you keep her right there until she gives up and leaves. Then you go get another.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[NeoisoParticipant 0]

Hello guys,
I was a lurker but after looking at this thread I could relate to what had happened in my life. My ex always used to talk about her ex boyfriends or the guys she hooked up. I could never get hard with her which made me feel less of a man but only after the breakup after I had sex with other people I could see what a bitch she is. Thank you

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