"Sex addiction" bulls~~~ I dealt with when I was married

[Smacktalk73Participant 296]

When I was married, and for a very short time when I was single, I attended a “Sex Addicts Anonymous” support group.  The place was utterly packed with guilt-ridden, hen-pecked men trying to find a “cure” for their “sex addiction” that was causing them to self-immerse in porn and/or cheat on their wives with other women, hookers, etc.

My wife had branded me as as “sex addict” and in fact still does.  Am I a compulsive porn user/sexual experience chaser?  Hell yeah I am.  Few escapes are more sublime that forgetting the world for a couple hours jacking off to pictures of naked women who DON’T ASK ME FOR S~~~.  And limiting my liability to a woman to a couple hundred bucks for an hour of escort time, while enjoying some hot sex or fetish play is an AMAZINGLY LIBERATING experience.

But it is important to understand the REAL problem created by “sex addiction.”  Namely, when a male does this stuff, he is CUTTING OFF THE SUPPLY OF FREE S~~~ TO HIS WIFE.

Instead of giving her free attention all the time, spending all his money on her, and making her problems the focus of his universe so her life requires no effort, he is diverting resources to HIMSELF.

The reason sex addiction is considered a problem in marriages is because WIVES ARE ADDICTED TO HUSBAND TAKING CARE OF THEM.  All of the guys in my “sex addicts” group were trying desperately, under threat of divorce/losing all their stuff/ having their kids taken away, trying to get back to focusing on babying their wives.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Ditto everything you said.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Solid SnakeParticipant 255]

One of the dudes I used to work with got done f~~~ing a girl half his age (he was in his late 50s, she was in her late 20s), he was going to brothels, as well as f~~~ing this girl on the side, he ended up getting caught eventually.

Hhe was retired comfortably and he ended up in a s~~~ty job with me and we became friends.

Anyways the reason he ended up back working was if he didn’t go back to work his wife was threatening to divorce him and he’d lose most of his s~~~ he had built up over the years.

I had an apprentice working underneath me, for my apprentice’s 21st birthday this guy was going to take us all out for a night at the good brothels haha but I ended up leaving before then.

Oh well that dude knew how to party.

[Sam RavenParticipant 181]

Sex addiction is a myth. If there was an addiction, its coming out of not enough sex and therefore an imbalance is present.

Guilt while acting as a safety against morally wrong behavior, it is exploited by controllers to subjugate the target population.

[Anonymous 9]

That’s why I will never understand guys who are anti-porn, or anti-prostitution as if their marriage is anything different from the later. I’ve been watching porn since discovering those short clips on sites which gave you a 30 second preview or so. I remember it like yesterday; I was in the ninth grade when I found out how much the internet could offer in terms of sexual exploits.

It saved me from many nights of suckerdom. It still continues to pay dividends to this very day.

Those “sex addicts” are trying to reform because of the threat of divorce, and the threat itself must be earth shattering.

I don’t believe in sex addiction. But I believe in sex appeal, and sexual energy that some people tend to have more so than others. If you have that aura, and are highly sexual then you have to live your life in a way that compliments those moods.

Sexual repression is the underlying cause of so many issues in a relationship, and those problems usually stem from the wife not understanding the nature of man.

 

[ByronParticipant 465]

Hey Smacktalk73. I have been expanding on this exact subject at the thread I’ve created: /forums/topic/a-way-to-diminish-pussy-power-and-influence/.

Self-sufficiency (in this particular instance sexual) of any form is a huge threat to women in general because of their parasitic nature. They will hate / rage at you in all their might if you decide to spend your time and resources on yourself (how egocentric of you). And sexual enslavement is their primary way to extort you into doing their bidding. That is why sexual freedom of any kind is seen as a huge threat to their well-being. They will shame you and label you with all kinds of derogatory terms in their attempt to continue shamelessly (and most of the time heartlessly) using you to further their agenda.

I’ve had numerous feminists rage in all their power against my cumshot editor. Have written hate-filled emails to my hosting provider, have written to my credit card processing gateway and actually managed to get my account temporarily blocked (to be fully restored in several days), and one even made a petition which didn’t gather much support.

This is truly a war against our basic freedoms as men.

[AntaresParticipant 208]

The way I read “sex addiction” is a guy who’s often horny (not unusual), but the woman doesn’t want to put out. So obviously it’s the mans fault and he needs to be treated for this “condition” so as to not inconvenience the woman any further.

Price is what you pay, value is what you get. -- Ben Graham

[Smacktalk73Participant 296]

Chrono, your product is entertaining.  Finding ways to creatively make money in the adult entertainment field, when plain-jane porn is practically impossible to produce profitably anymore, is a challenge.  I think you’ve got a fun idea!

Also, I’m not sure why women are so concerned.  They can just as easily use it themselves, to alter pics of males or females.  Of course there is the potential for fraud and abuse, but I don’t see them trying to shut down photoshop — which if I had my way, would be banned from instagram and match.com profiles so women couldn’t make themselves look better than real life.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

This is what p~~~es me off…

You date a bitch and f~~~ like rabbits week in and week out.  She’s all about the c~~~.  You’re all about the vajayjay.  Then stupidly you wife up the nympho.  Before you know it she is bitching about how you just want sex all the time.  Then it’s “you’re a f~~~in’ pervert and sex addict”…just because you want the same frequency of sex with which the relationship began.  Whiskey, Tango, Foxtrot!?!?

Moral of the story;  if you like sex, don’t marry the c~~~.

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[experiencedParticipant]

Laydee intentionally makes irresponsible financial decisions repeatedly = guy needs anger management counseling to ‘thumb him,’  after all he had to go to anger management counseling.

Laydee spits on guy, hits guy, aggressively comes at him, he defends himself = he is violent.

Laydee jacks up volume of discussion, husband raises his to same level = he must be counseled for ‘abuse.’ He is labeled abusive and all of society knows exactly what that means. [                                ].

Laydee oaths to love honor etc Til death due us part, unfortunately she is “addicted to exercising no self control,” becomes her refrigerator’s intimate lover………………………………………….. = the guy’s a sex addict.

What can a man do?   Let’s investigate. “Sex addiction” bulls~~~ I dealt with when I was married.”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

Things go along fine and dandy. Why get married? So the children will be yours????????? By marrying her she won’t leave you??????????? To lock everything into place as wonderful as they are right now?????? The last one here is exactly why woemen marry ie to lock in all that their greed desires without you! The instant you marry, you are in effect choosing to divorce yourself of basically all your assets..they know this. Leave them out of the equation as including them is only mental masturbation – – the instant you marry, you are divorcing yourself from your assets.

“Marry” also includes lend a key, make a key, spend xx nights, cosign bills, comingle rent, be a human being to her child, not flush the unperforated condom yourself, this list is growing because while it’s easy to recognize standing waiting at the alter for her her her her, but not as easy to think through all interactions ahead of time from a MGTOW perspective. Pity the fool. Stop thinking and you or I become him all over again. By the way, I don’t even want to think about how much these laydeez think about all these things, ramifications, countermoves, etc. All those laydeez who just can’t think logically?? give men a break! They can flick that switch to  logic mode and make the vilest cringe.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

@experienced

So f~~~ing right on every last point!  +2 for you!

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

Its a label to shame normal men into feeling guilty about wanting sex as part of a relationship. Thats it. I admit there is such a thing as ‘Satyrism’ which is a diagnosable condition but thats incredibly rare. Sex addiction is all about making men feel bad for wanting more sex than the woman is prepared to ‘dole out’ so f~~~ em all n go beat it

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

“Sex addiction” label, when thrown around by a woman, seems to me to just be a way to say “No” to providing it while simultaneously shaming you for wanting it. This is about as logical as a cocaine dealer calling a crackhead a “crack-addict”. I see it most commonly used by women who have already succeeded in getting all they can possibly get from a man (who married them), and are now just looking for an excuse to not reciprocate with the only thing they have of any value to him.

My ex made the mistake of calling me a sex addict, so I just pointed out that I think my addiction to sex was about as ingrained in me as her addiction to free food, free drinks, free rent, free jewelry, free car, free insurance, free vacations…etc all financed by my money.

I got divorce lawyer, went mgtow and put her in cold turkey rehab’ for her “addiction”. She’s never found another supplier for her addiction, but I found a line of suppliers for mine…

🙂

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Sex Addiction?  Is this really a thing?  I don’t get it.  Who doesn’t want to have sex?

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

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