Sad Example of a Man

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

So I’m sitting here in my local coffee shop… one of the few moments in my day that I still go out and experience the public. Of course I’m not here for two minutes when this goes down:

A woman is sitting at the next table over… decent looking, kind of a big ass, clearly just came back from the gym and, for some reason, in a huff.

Actually it’s probably for no reason.

She’s on the phone with her boyfriend telling him to come meet her at the coffee shop. A few minutes later he shows up, clearly having interrupted his own workout. These workout people… don’t they realize you can just eat less and save yourself a lot of time and trouble?

Anyway, he comes over to hear whatever she was in a p~~~y mood about and here’s where the fun happens. He’s sitting in the chair next to her, facing toward her, leaning on the table with his entire body and although shu’s facing him, she’s pushed back and leaning as far away from him as possible.

The man is literally lying on the table now, trying to get close enough to her to “comfort” her without actually falling out of his chair and she keeps leaning back further and further, not letting him make contact. Any student of body language can immediately recognize this as the “come to me” stance.

And come to her he does. Eventually he just gets out of his chair and awkwardly crouches down in front of her where he can touch her. She says some random s~~~ I didn’t care enough to hear and then he agrees to something and leaves.

I am an avid student of and believer in non-verbal communication. I can read a person nearly instantly and if a woman pulled that kind of s~~~ with me… well I wouldn’t have interrupted my day to come minister to her to begin with, but if I did meet a woman and she gave me that s~~~, I’d immediately stand up, tell her to contact me when she’s ready to communicate like an adult and leave.

… which is one of the many reasons no woman has ever managed to lay the cuffs on me.

Don’t be that guy. Learn to read body language if you don’t know how already and when you see three negative signs in a group, call them on it and terminate interaction until such time as they are ready to engage. Women really are like six year old children… and you have to treat them like it or else they’ll walk all over you.

[HitmanParticipant]

Stargazer wrote:

. Women really are like six year old children… and you have to treat them like it or else they’ll walk all over you.

agreed.
well said .

[Anonymous 42]

Classic s~~~ test, you and I Doc would not pass a s~~~ test even if they gave us the answers! We don’t go to that school!

[bladeParticipant]

It gets me how guys are so controlled by a vagina . If they didn’t have a c~~~ they wouldn’t want to know them . Ridiculous

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

The best part is that this guy walked, talked and acted like he was hot s~~~… typical gym bro with the backward cap and swagger. I didn’t see his car but it’s probably a lowered, powder blue BMW, the preferred ride of douchebags of that ilk here in Las Vegas.

He thinks he’s all that, but then he’s a totally pussy when it comes to his girl. He’s probably a mama’s boy too, and has a lot of “ethnic pride”, whatever that is. You know the type… puffed up to within an inch of bursting in order to hide the sad, soft child inside.

Do NOT be that guy. Real strength doesn’t come from lifting weights, membership in a socio-economic or ethnic group or from throwing your attitude around. Real strength comes from being virtuous, having self respect, setting boundaries and policing them aggressively. Strong people don’t have to flex and they don’t shatter and come running in a tizzy whenever their girlfriend puts on a pout.

[Anonymous 54]

I go by body langauge and facial expretions.Peoples words are full of s~~~ most of the time. Ive allways been able to read ” micro expersions ” clear as day.
Watch their upper lip. Its very quik.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Stargazer wrote:

These workout people… don’t they realize you can just eat less and save yourself a lot of time and trouble?

Only if maintaining weight is your only concern. You need to exercise to build muscle.

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

based upon what you described I see testicular cancer in this guys future.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[JVBParticipant]

All muscle….no bone. You see it all the time. He’s convinced he’s go her all sorted. I’m the man lol.

Peace is > piece.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Grew up with these types. They are lost. Nothing you can do can help them. This country needs an honest to goodness real war. Not the fake bulls~~~ we have now. I’m talking about battlefields right here in our land. Very quickly these posers will run like rats.

In defense of working out…I work out regularly….at home. 50% of my workouts are out in nature in the woods. I do it because it keeps me strong, mentally sane, and away from human interaction. Over the years, it’s become a sort of spiritual experience to run in the woods.

That bitch wasn’t s~~~ testing him. Looks like you guys missed the mark. She’s f~~~ing someone else on the side. Sounds like she cringes to his touch. Regardless of whether she called him to come there or not.

God bless peace and freedom.

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