Hi all. I’ve posted here a few times but never put up an intro so here goes.
I think I’ve always had an inclination towards being MGTOW. As a child, I hated people coming into my space and would get agitated and sometimes get in fights with other kids about this. As a teenager, I was always wary of sluts looking to get up the duff and get their meal ticket. I hated the idea of LTR’s and usually once I had sex with a girl, the challenge was over and I would break up. I made some bad choices in my teen years and long story short, ended up homeless with nobody and nothing. Family, friends, nobody gave a s~~~. I made myself a promise. that I would get my s~~~ together and stand on my own two feet and never rely on anybody for f~~~ing anything ever again.
I hadn’t even got a high school diploma. I couldn’t get much job wise due to lack of qualifications etc, so I took whatever I could get. Cleaning toilets, back breaking manual work, whatever I could get. I took a lot of s~~~ from qualified people who thought they were better than me and they knew I had f~~~ all. In some cases, I was completely exploited and worked live a slave. It fuelled me to become an independent man and make myself.. I decided to completely ignore women and the social scene and spent my twenties working hard and going to school at night. My complete lack of social status resulted in very little female interest anyway so this wasn’t hard. I spent my free time going to class or studying. I got my high school diploma, followed by a college diploma, then a degree and finally a masters degree and a bunch of professional qualifications.
In my twenties, I started my first LTR. She was a fatty, but I didn’t really care because I saw something in her I liked. Over time I worked on this with her (I am a fitness fanatic) and her appearance changed. Career wise I had changed job paths and was doing good. I had my own place to live and had escaped the rent trap. Despite not having enough to eat sometimes, I had managed to put enough money aside during the tough years to get a small mortgage.
I am a very driven person and I love setting and beating goals. I’m not happy sitting around doing nothing or wasting my time.
I spend a lot of time studying. I work in IT and and getting certs has become a hobby for me. For the first few years she put up with this, but then the mask started to fall. She started becoming grumpy all the time and a real pain in the ass. Of course when I asked what was wrong, I would get “nothing”. She’d start asking when we were going to get married and have kids and would talk about buying a house. She made s~~~ money so of course I would be paying for this s~~~. I was starting to have doubts. Anyway when family members started getting married and having children, she started making me miserable by being miserable..
It was around this time I learned MGTOW was a thing. I was googling marriage pros, cons etc and I came across ghosting, which in turn lead me to MGTOW. I can’t really describe how awesome it felt that this was a thing, that other guys were going through the same thoughts I was. I started reading and learning that not getting married doesn’t make you a weirdo or any of the other s~~~ society feed us. I got a drunk text one night telling me that she wanted a kid and I’d better do something about it. I did something about allright. I went my own way.
The first few weeks were tough. I threw myself back into my hobbies. I go to Amsterdam a couple of times a year to let off some steam, so I started learning Dutch. I”m going again now in two weeks. With her gone, I cleaned up my diet and started training hard again. I threw myself into my IT studies too. I live well below my means. My mortgage is going to be cleared 13 years early because I don’t have to pay for princess’s bulls~~~. I’m planning to take a sabatical and go live in another country for a while to learn a new language. I think I’ll also stop working so hard. Thing is I’m a free man and I have options. That is what MGTOW is about to me – freedom.
Robotron – MGHOW
robotron 4 years, 3 months ago.
