right time for a baby

[treznik87Participant 570]

Do you know what is the right time to have a baby?

My ex gf said (when we were still together): ‘I ll have a baby when my [insert her best friend’s name – lets call it Jane] will have it’ because they will have it ‘together’… HOW IMMATURE AND STUPID IS THAT?

So there you go folks… forget about having a baby when she finds the ‘right guy’ or be financially stable or be mature enough,… but the right time is when her best friend will have it.

I was so blue back then but was still like WAT DA FAK.
When I expressed my concern and told her having a baby is being responsible and that I will have it when time is right – baby not being a financial burden for my parents, both having a job, etc… she said: ‘I ll bring it up/raise it myself if needed, just like my mother raised me and my sister up alone.’ But at the same time she has MAJOR dady issues.

I mean its like it doesnt matter that child wont have optimal conditions growing up (having a dad, both parents having a job…) the only important thing is that she will have a baby because she is 28 now! SELFISHNESS TO THE MAX!

So not long ago I saw on FB that her best friend Jane is pregnant with her BF (a guy i know from before, they are together for 8 years). Jane posted a picture of 2 holding hands and baby shoes at the end of fingers… There were over 250 likes, guess who didtn like the picture?… even tho she likes almost every crap she posted… thats right. JEALOUSY is all i can think of…

When i see the picture jane has posted, all I was thinking was: ‘poor guy she (my ex) is with now’ he will get an ultimatum. That would be me if we were still together…

Thinking back when she dumped me, she accused me for not being mature enough – like you cant be in a relationship with someone over a year and not making progress (living together), telling me off for making fun of my friends who lives with their gf (and majority are not even allowed to go on occasional beer), telling me how her mum has been bewildered that i dont suggest moving in together (just got my own place) etc… just because she was 28 and has baby rabies… and at the same time she hasnt never openly talked about her big plan or how much she wants a baby. The only thing about that topic was when she puked the words I mentioned at the start of this thread (having a baby the same time as her friend Jane). STUPID ASS BITCHES.

I just know it wont be long till I see/hear about her being pregnant with the fool she got together less then 3 months after we split. The guys is 35 so he will buckle rather quickly i guess… BECAUSE HER BEST FRIEND IS PREGNANT! and she will be 30 after half a year! Better hurry up!

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

This is a common sentiment that I have witnessed amongst some slightly younger colleagues. For the vast majority of modern females it is never about the best welfare of the prospective child, it is about what the child can do/bring for them.
Children are now viewed as:

1.) A conversation piece.
2.) For attention seeking.
3.) delusional belief that they will never be lonely.
4.) A career option/escape the work world.
5.) A means of extracting resources from the father or social programs.

It truly is toxic. This is what not having a patriarchal head to the family has gotten society. It’s never about love for the child. Sickening. Yet, fathers are always demonized.

I can’t wait until science develops the artificial womb. Then, I think you will see a greater balancing in this dynamic. Raising a child is too important a task to leave to the contemporary women.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

They are all pretty much like that these days. See my recent post about Millenial women putting a big house over quality of their child’s education. The media has brainwashed their already hypergamos and vicious minds. These modern c~~~s care ONLY about themselves and one upping their t~~~ girlfriends. I say dump their asses and be indifferent to their bulls~~~. If we do that the population will decrease which is a good thing anyway. Although the feline population will likely explode.

[AttonParticipant]

Who better too hold the power of human reproduction. FFS

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[MaleJusticeWarriorSpectator 144]

Your real problem is that Jane is her best friend.

If she doesn’t consider you her best friend, then you are just her sperm donor and resource provider. She will trap you and treat you like s~~~.

Paternity-by-Estoppel is a barbaric judicial relic used to evade DNA truth when issuing court child support orders ["in the so-called best interest of the child"] against non-biological fathers.

[RyshParticipant 134]

treznik87 wrote:

Do you know what is the right time to have a baby?

Yes I do. For a man in contemporary Western civilisation, the answer is “NEVER EVER”. Instead, get a vasectomy done, for which the best time is “as soon as you can afford it”.

By vasectomy, I do not mean the frequent American style, but the European thing. Instead of making a knod in the pipe, cutting out a piece of pipe and re-sew things in different layers of skin. Like “forget reversibility, embrace reliability”.

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

This is a common sentiment that I have witnessed amongst some slightly younger colleagues. For the vast majority of modern females it is never about the best welfare of the prospective child, it is about what the child can do/bring for them.
Children are now viewed as:

1.) A conversation piece.
2.) For attention seeking.
3.) delusional belief that they will never be lonely.
4.) A career option/escape the work world.
5.) A means of extracting resources from the father or social programs.

It truly is toxic. This is what not having a patriarchal head to the family has gotten society. It’s never about love for the child. Sickening. Yet, fathers are always demonized.

I can’t wait until science develops the artificial womb. Then, I think you will see a greater balancing in this dynamic. Raising a child is too important a task to leave to the contemporary women.

Exactly this.
For some it’s no more than an accessory, like a new handbag. The baby becomes an afterthought to the mothers image and narcissistic lifestyle.

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

It’s all a competition for these idiots. They always have to be the first at everything. A woman has to be the first in her group to get a high-paying job, then she has to be the first to get married, and finally she has to be the first to pop out a pup. They can’t stand being at the back of the pack, even though it shouldn’t be a goddamn race. A child is a life, not a trophy.

I couldn’t count on both hands how many times I’ve heard a guy say, “My GF wants a baby…all of her friends have been having them, so she’s feeling left out.” All I can do is stare at him with a face full of pity.

The idea of not having children seems to be the biggest insult that you can give a woman. Remember in Get Smart when Max and 99 are arguing on the plane? It’s all because Max had implied that if 99 waits too long to have kids, she might never be able to have them – which, I might add, is a scientific fact. Later, when he gets assailed by some of the other passengers, she just f~~~ing sits there out of spite. And afterwards he’s like, “You weren’t much help back there”, to which she responds, “How could I help? I’m just an old bag with a dusty old uterus.”

Nope, nothing petty or childish about that.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[experiencedParticipant]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

They are all pretty much like that these days. See my recent post about Millenial women putting a big house over quality of their child’s education. The media has brainwashed their already hypergamous and vicious minds. These modern c~~~s care ONLY about themselves and one upping their t~~~ girlfriends. I say dump their asses and be indifferent to their bulls~~~. If we do that the population will decrease which is a good thing anyway. Although the feline population will likely explode.

I witnessed this five decades ago. The parents bought a house they couldn’t really afford, then sat the kids down one night and asked them if they would be willing to forego their education and futures in order to support the family.

http://biblehub.com/2_corinthians/12-14.htm

http://biblehub.com/2_corinthians/12-14.htm

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[BeerParticipant 11832]

treznik87 wrote:

When i see the picture jane has posted, all I was thinking was: ‘poor guy she (my ex) is with now’ he will get an ultimatum.

If he’s got a decent job he’ll probably just get the “whoops, I’m pregnant” talk.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

treznik87 wrote:

Thinking back when she dumped me, she accused me for not being mature enough – like you cant be in a relationship with someone over a year and not making progress (living together), telling me off for making fun of my friends who lives with their gf (and majority are not even allowed to go on occasional beer), telling me how her mum has been bewildered that i dont suggest moving in together (just got my own place) etc… just because she was 28 and has baby rabies… and at the same time she hasnt never openly talked about her big plan or how much she wants a baby. The only thing about that topic was when she puked the words I mentioned at the start of this thread (having a baby the same time as her friend Jane). STUPID ASS BITCHES.

Late 20’s baby rabies? that one is only completely nature no matter what spot the woman is in. See they know by this point that if they don’t have a man cum inside of them then they will try up in only a matter of a few years with more difficulty’s happening in the coming years so now its their time to breed unless they want to potentially get a kid with health issues.

So even if she does not have a plan and she ends up with poverty she would still prefer being in poverty with the kid then being rich without the kid. That is part of the reason you don’t need to marry anymore to have kids (at least if you are an asshole). Since being with a kid makes them happier then being without the kid.

So the thing to learn from this is if they start climbing in age then they will want a kid no matter what the cost is to them and you better watch yourself and your sperm if you don’t them to become your baby mama.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

The right time to have a child (for a man) is NEVER.

The right time to have a child (for a woman) is when BABY RABIES HITS.

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