Remembered something my Father said as a child

[WallyParticipant]

Please forgive the following I have probably had a little to much to drink, but as a fellow MGTOWER once said on here I Drink at home. These are my thoughts of the last week.

Don’t know why but yesterday I remembered my father saying to me as a child “your mother enjoys conflict” I didn’t think of it at the time as I was not even 10 years old, but as my understanding of female nature increases memories come back about things my father said and they make more sense. AWALT.

Tuesday I was working with a patient who has Parkinson’s disease, he loves motorcycles and knows my family history of Huntington’s disease as well as my love of scuba diving and photography. We were walking down the hall together alone and this gentleman turns to me and says “how long till you retire?” I told him probably 22 years. He states ” don’t wait, enjoy your life.” While he doesn’t know I’m MGTOW, with his perspective of lost independence, I think his advice is wise, men don’t wait, enjoy your lives, to the young Mgtow, love your life, experience it to it fullest.

Today, a close to retirement female colleague who I respect asked my advice about a Huntington’s patient. I have respect for her, she remained with her husband through his illness. Yes this is what is expected, but in these times the expected becomes the unexpected. We talked about how one views life when the possibility of losing everything through illness can change ones life view, an appreciation of time and its limits approaches.

Mostly, a sense of graditude is felt when I Read on this website every morning, I learn something new from each of you.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Wally wrote:

“your mother enjoys conflict”

KM has written some great things on this. Women f~~~ing love drama. They thrive on it.

I have a half-baked theory, which I’m not sure I espouse or believe or even agree with, that women want a man who occasionally beats the s~~~ out of her, because then she knows that he’s alpha enough to protect children. Women bait, and nag, and shrew, and harp, so that occasionally men will just beat the living s~~~ out of them and put them forcibly back in their place.

Men who don’t do this are beta and not worth keeping.

Again, not espousing this, and not sure I believe it. But I wonder if it’s true sometimes.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Wally wrote:

remembered my father saying to me as a child “your mother enjoys conflict”

Thats’ because upsetting him is how she gets her jollies.
Think I’m joking?

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/9126265/Research-finds-women-feel-happy-when-their-husband-or-partner-is-upset.html

Where that constant desire for friction comes from. Even though I get it, it’s still stupid and there’s no way I would put up with those “mental gymnastics” (as @cap285 calls it) ever again. I would rather play Russian Roulette with a fully loaded cylinder. That’s his quote for all time.

Wally wrote:

but as my understanding of female nature increases memories come back about things my father said and they make more sense.

I have said this before here, but I understood my father – and all the things he did NOT say – much better after his death….. than I ever did when he was alive.

Wally wrote:

I Read on this website every morning, I learn something new from each of you.

I picked up a couple of legendary ones here too just in the last week alone. Like “Procrastination is the assassin of opportunity”. posted by @scout today. I will keep that one in my back pocket for a long time.

( and I guess i better run when duty calls )

Smiles, Wally.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I think its true. How else can one explain the feminist infatuation with islamic guys?

[bladeParticipant]

My father has parkinsons and is slowly going down hill and my sister the feminist c~~~ loves nothing but upsetting him . He now does not give a f~~~ about her anymore . Waiting for her next flurry because I am going to bring it to a stop . Sick and ill a woman / c~~~ will still see nothing wrong in getting her f~~~ing kicks of drama and s~~~ .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Elric Greenstone wrote:

Wally wrote:

“your mother enjoys conflict”

KM has written some great things on this. Women f~~~ing love drama. They thrive on it.

I have a half-baked theory, which I’m not sure I espouse or believe or even agree with, that women want a man who occasionally beats the s~~~ out of her, because then she knows that he’s alpha enough to protect children. Women bait, and nag, and shrew, and harp, so that occasionally men will just beat the living s~~~ out of them and put them forcibly back in their place.

Men who don’t do this are beta and not worth keeping.

Again, not espousing this, and not sure I believe it. But I wonder if it’s true sometimes.

I remember as a child, my parents fighting, raised angry voices, my father throwing the lamp against the wall and hearing it smash into a million pieces. Climbing into the closet and hoping it would all just stop. MY mother would come in and hold me, rescue me, comfort me, commiserate with me in our bond of victimhood to my father’s anger… Later, when I was older she would push his buttons about me, get him angry and then weakly protest when he lashed out at me. Comfort me afterward and tell me how bad she felt for how he abused me.

I realize now it was all just part of the game she liked to play. That she controlled and instrumented, and we all just played our roles perfectly for her.

Nothing makes them feel more alive than male anger and suffering. I wonder if she went back to the bedroom and f~~~ed my dad’s brains out after these incident. brimming with passion.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Wally wrote:

“how long till you retire?” I told him probably 22 years. He states ” don’t wait, enjoy your life.”

Working your life away to pay for the usual material things is not a life well lived. I need to internalize this even more than I already have. Could there be a better messenger than from a man who’s wasting away from Parkinson’s? I think not.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

It seems like I’m doomed to spend most of my life doing stuff that I don’t want to do. Retirement is going to be my “revenge,” ’cause this world has given me too much heartache.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

fat mexican food farting land whale.

Dear lord, what a horrible sight to imagine! I see why you like camping so much.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FunInTheSun wrote:

Retirement is going to be my “revenge,”

I worked every weekend of my 20s. I was 38 when I finally started having “weekends” for a while, and I wasn’t going to wait until 65 to cash in. So I continued to set my alarm on Saturdays and Sundays to enjoy the satisfaction of hammering it over the head and rolling over for another hour. I want to KNOW that I slept in.

On Fridays, when anyone says “have a great weekend!”….
I always make a point of saying “Weekend? What’s that??”

I keep thinking of the 80’s Michael Douglas line from Wall Street.
“Lunch? Nah, lunch is for wimps”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AttonParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

I think its true. How else can one explain the feminist infatuation with islamic guys?

The thirst for c~~~ maybe?

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[JVBParticipant]

blade wrote:

My father has parkinsons and is slowly going down hill and my sister the feminist c~~~ loves nothing but upsetting him .

Geezzz that’s harsh. Sorry bro. Special place in hell for her.

Peace is > piece.

[OhnoParticipant 668]

Wally wrote:

He states ” don’t wait, enjoy your life.” While he doesn’t know I’m MGTOW, with his perspective of lost independence, I think his advice is wise, men don’t wait, enjoy your lives, to the young Mgtow, love your life, experience it to it fullest.

One thing noone will tell himself when laying on the death bed is
“I should have spent more time in the office”

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

I REMEMBER THEY (THE CITY) WAS PUTTING IN A NEW SUBDIVISION DOWN THE ROAD FROM US I WAS 10-11 MY BEST FRIEND AND I WOULD PLAY DOWN THERE OVER THE WEEKEND. I REMEMBER MY FATHER TELLING MY FRIEND AND I, TO GO GET 2X12 LUMBER YOU SEE LAYING AROUND THE HOMES BEING BUILT. LITTLE DID I KNOW WHY HE WANTED ME TO STEAL IT. BUT SURE ENOUGH BOTH MY FRIEND AND I HAD AMASSED QUITE A PILE OF 2X12 LUMBER IN THE BACK YARD. WHY COULD HAVE THINGS JUST STAYED LIKE THEY WERE. I WAS 3-4 WHEN MOM HAD HER STROKE, HALF BROTHER SAID I WAS IN MUD FROM HEAD TO TOE CRYING AT THE TIME, I JUST CAN’T REMEMBER. PARALYZED ON HER LEFT SIDE DAD WOULD NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER SEXUALLY. AND OF COURSE, THAT JUST MADE MOM FEEL ALL THAT TENSION THE WORSE. OH, THEY TRIED TO MAKE IT WORK, HAVING PARTIES AND GETTOGETORS. TRYING TO BRING MY MOTHER SPIRITS UP. BUT WHAT BROKE THE CAMELS BACK WAS MY DAD BRINGING IN HIS MOM TO HELP MOM RAISE ME WHILE SHE WENT THE P.T. PHYSICAL THERAPY. MY MOM HAD NO LIKING FOR MY GRANDMA, AND IT WAS RECIPROCATED DOUBLY SO. MY GRANDMA WAS A BURN TRAUMA NURSE BACK IN HER HOME-TOWN OF CHARLESTON ILLINOIS. MY MOM DID EVERYTHING IN HER POWER TO F~~~ THINGS UP. YES, I LOVE MY MOM, WHO DOESN’T LOVE THIER MOM. BUT DAMN IT SOMETHING HAPPENED IN THAT BRAIN BLEED THAT F~~~ED MY MOM UP. I JUST WISH I KNEW WHAT IT WAS. I MEAN EVER TO THIS DAY SHES 87 YEARS OLD, AND SHE CAN P~~~ ME OFF, THAT I COME CRAWLING BACK TO HER ASKING FOR FORGIVENESS. HER FIRST HUSBAND WAS MY HALF BROTHER FATHER. HE USED TO BEAT HER BAD, BLACK EYES BROKE NOSE, MOM GOT AWAY BUT I THINK THE DAMAGE WAS DONE, THE ANERIZUM HAD STARTED WITH HIM BEATING ON HER. AND POPPED SOON AFTER I WAS BORN.

SORRY GUYS I WENT OFF ONA TANGENT.

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[WallyParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Thats’ because upsetting him is how she gets her jollies.
Think I’m joking?

I remember that article, Got me so p~~~ed off thinking about my parents marriage.

have found such peace and happiness by being alone in my life. I have plenty of people in my face at work.. at home.. with my dog.. my private peace time of books on tape, music, and my clean dog that is like a big teddy bear. Better to snuggle at night than any fat mexican food farting land whale.

Couldn’t have said it better, nothing better than having quiet time with the dog.

blade wrote:

My father has parkinsons and is slowly going down hill and my sister the feminist c~~~ loves nothing but upsetting him . He now does not give a f~~~ about her anymore . Waiting for her next flurry because I am going to bring it to a stop . Sick and ill a woman / c~~~ will still see nothing wrong in getting her f~~~ing kicks of drama and s~~~ .

That stinks, but typical behavior.

Ohno wrote:

Wally wrote:

He states ” don’t wait, enjoy your life.” While he doesn’t know I’m MGTOW, with his perspective of lost independence, I think his advice is wise, men don’t wait, enjoy your lives, to the young Mgtow, love your life, experience it to it fullest.

One thing noone will tell himself when laying on the death bed is
“I should have spent more time in the office”

Exactly

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Author]

Posts