Red Pill – What a shock to the system

[Anonymous 54]

Hermit wrote:

Old Sage wrote:

Hermit. If you want to know why Id rather be a slow learner than an arogant ass..
Because I did eventually learn from it.
What do you learn from being an arogant ass?
Because supportive Men have each others backs.
Arogant men dont have your back.
Therefore I dont have theirs..
This Man came here for support.
Spilled his guts about his mistakes.
Only to be called a slow learner?

Then you say” no offence” yeah right.

Sorry you took it wrong. Wasn’t meant to be arrogant.

Wraith, I hope you didn’t take it wrong as well. Was only meant in fun. Welcome and thanks for joining.

All good Brother!!! Its hard to catch the inflections in print.
Being a slow learner isnt all its cracked up to be! Hahah

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Hermit wrote:

Old Sage wrote:

Hermit. If you want to know why Id rather be a slow learner than an arogant ass..
Because I did eventually learn from it.
What do you learn from being an arogant ass?
Because supportive Men have each others backs.
Arogant men dont have your back.
Therefore I dont have theirs..
This Man came here for support.
Spilled his guts about his mistakes.
Only to be called a slow learner?

Then you say” no offence” yeah right.

Sorry you took it wrong. Wasn’t meant to be arrogant.

Wraith, I hope you didn’t take it wrong as well. Was only meant in fun. Welcome and thanks for joining.

All good Brother!!! Its hard to catch the inflections in print.
Being a slow learner isnt all its cracked up to be! Hahah

Agreed. Wasn’t the first time a comment was taken wrong due to text only communication.

As for slow learners, I allowed my miserable marriage to last for 21 years. Suppose that can equate to two or three marriages, yeah?

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 54]

Hermit wrote:

As for slow learners, I allowed my miserable marriage to last for 21 years. Suppose that can equate to two or three marriages, yeah?

Longer than all 3 of mine combined! HahahahBut the alimony from#3 lasted 20 years. Hahah
Much Love Brother!!
And

Wraith!!

Welcome to the Slow Learner Club!!!!

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Hermit wrote:

As for slow learners, I allowed my miserable marriage to last for 21 years. Suppose that can equate to two or three marriages, yeah?

Longer than all 3 of mine combined! HahahahBut the alimony from#3 lasted 20 years. Hahah
Much Love Brother!!
And

Wraith!!

Welcome to the Slow Learner Club!!!!

Most of us came here for very similar reasons. Gotta’ stick together and glad misunderstandings can be quickly worked out like adult men, instead of getting hurt feelings like over emotional children as I’ve witnessed in a couple other threads recently.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Welcome Wraith. You’re in the best place to avoid #3.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[WraithParticipant 97]

Hermit wrote:

I can’t see anyone going through that misery more than once. Guess some are slow learners. No offence.

No offence taken, having a thick skin is probably the only benefit out of a long term relationship with a cluster B personality type.

My first tour was a regular BF/GF thing that resulted in one pretty awesome young man although being alienated during his formative years has left me embittered towards his mother.

Second tour was my first marriage, I did as I had been indoctrinated to do, I was open, honest, a good provider etc. however those traits were used against me to some extent although I am no angel LOL.

Not a slow learner, I chose to quell my reservations and endure for the sake of a better relationship with my sons although being the sole earner caused me to miss many events as I worked long and often.

Things are relatively amicable now, separated but still co-habitating moving towards settlement and eventual divorce, it was probably the extreme financial infidelity that rocked me most, you tend to trust people you have known long-term whether warranted or not.

Thanks for the welcome, if my sad tales of woes can help one young fella avoid a similar outcome I will happily recount the disaster.

Part of me if relieved and looking forward to the liberation of mind, soul and wallet LOL.

[HermitParticipant]

Wraith wrote:

Things are relatively amicable now, separated but still co-habitating moving towards settlement and eventual divorce

Similar to the end of my horrible marriage. Once we agreed to end it, I was extremely relieved and I believe she was as well. Fortunately, she wasn’t a super horrible person and allowed me to stay in the house until I could find a good place to live. Once I found a place we proceeded with the divorce and I slowly moved my belongings to my new home. She even helped me pack quite a bit of my stuff. Must’ve taken me over two weeks to move everything out. Much easier that way, especially since she was doing all the packing.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 3]

MoreSky wrote:

Welcome Wraith. You’re in the best place to avoid #3.

My inability to catch on to what was going on ( Blue Pill delusion ) caused me a full 40 yrs of insanity, confusion & pain. Some times I still think I’m one of the world’s biggest fools for truly believing in the American Dream & Hollywood endings. it took a long time for me to get from there to here. I’m fine on my own as one of the men says here. Stick with the winners. Stick with MGTOW

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

All good Brother!!! Its hard to catch the inflections in print.
Being a slow learner isnt all its cracked up to be! Hahah

That’s why we keep stealing your beer! That and because you keep asking who stole your bear.

Order the good wine

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome brother.
Two here 19 and 10 (29 total years) so join the club.
No shame. You don’t know what you don’t know, and they gaslight the s~~~ out of you the minute you start to suspect something is wrong.

Anonymous wrote:

Id rather be a slow learner than an arogant ass.

I am proudly both.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[DocParticipant]

Hermit, Old Sage,
Reading your posts above helps restore my faith in people.
Total respect to both of you.

And Welcome Wraith.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

Welcome aboard. The journey to being the you that you’ve always wanted to be starts here.

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[Anonymous 54]

Doc wrote:

Hermit, Old Sage,
Reading your posts above helps restore my faith in people.
Total respect to both of you.

And Welcome Wraith.

Most things are just miscomunications in life.

[HermitParticipant]

Doc wrote:

Hermit, Old Sage,
Reading your posts above helps restore my faith in people.
Total respect to both of you.

And Welcome Wraith.

I’ve actually never been called arrogant, but been called an asshole many times. Both the same perhaps. HA!

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Most things are just miscomunications in life.

What the f~~~ do you mean by that s~~~? 🙂

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Anonymous wrote:

My inability to catch on to what was going on ( Blue Pill delusion ) caused me a full 40 yrs of insanity, confusion & pain. Some times I still think I’m one of the world’s biggest fools for truly believing in the American Dream & Hollywood endings. it took a long time for me to get from there to here. I’m fine on my own as one of the men says here. Stick with the winners. Stick with MGTOW

Same story here and absolutely agree (apart from the American Dream bit as I’m Brit).

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I could see how a divorced man would go back in, thinking he could have tried harder or there’s something he could have done better. How many of us have been in abusive relationships with parents or siblings where we blamed ourselves for not being good enough to make the relationship work? I have.

But after two… that’s when you start thinking “No, I did the best I could do… there’s got to be something else.” Then you start to read and discover and see other people’s stories where they experienced the same things you did and the understanding starts to fall into place.

[Anonymous 38]

Welcome home brother!

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

The end of my second tour (of almost 18 years) is approaching and whilst I have been 100% in my Children’s lives it has come at some cost, my dignity, my sense of self and eventually my inheritance and financial well being (due to extreme financial infidelity).

I too felt I had lost my dignity after my breakup and divorce. I assure you sir, you did not. I recently went on vacation to Hawaii and I wanted to learn to paddle board. I’m sure I looked like a fool to the folks more experienced, or just watching some ol goat trying to stay up on the board. But I was learning. I didn’t look graceful and I’m 60 years old and have a little belly. Look at that old fool. But I was learning and after about two days, I was doing alright. You’ve had an expensive education, but now you are learning. And there is dignity enough deciding to travel down that road.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings W,

There is a different road which is rarely traveled these days, the MGTOW Monk. I have been fortunate to have personally known a Natural Born MGTOW. He has been that way his whole life and a MGTOW Monk for most of it. In some of my replies within the Forums, I have written about him and described him as my Mentor Dave, the man with a wonderful Soul.

Lately, I have posted that Natural Born MGTOWs like Dave are the real “Unicorns.” I have often described how outstanding he is as a man and how magical his life has been. Anyone who spends time with Dave becomes a better person and their Souls become brighter.

A MGTOW known as Tower wrote something last year about how a man’s soul is like a roll of toilet paper that gets used up when we are in a RelationS~~~ with a woman. In time and with continued interaction with her, what remains of a man’s soul is just an empty cardboard roll.

Former Blue Pill Slaves like myself who are on the MGTOW Road are just trying to salvage what is left of our Souls. Most of us have learned our MGTOW lessons the hard way. We are not interested in going back to the Plantation.

MGTOW.com is a bright beacon for men who are lost in darkness.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

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